Many times, people coming to something new don't want to have to think deeply or want to LEARN. They want to accomplish a goal.

High Context Consent Vs. Low Context Consent

Consent isn’t actually the key.

Whips Chains & Duct Tape on Facebook

I always have a choice to take people at face value for ALL that they are, or walk away if I cannot/will not.

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What do you mean when you say you trust someone? When you give a referral or vett someone? When you make an introduction, or put your weight behind a person?

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In a lot of ways, that's a GOOD thing. After all, it releases stress, helps you sleep better, and a host of other things. 

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We all do whatever we do because we get something from it. The question is: What do you provide that people want?

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Don’t fall into the trap of believing that a dominant is going to fix everything in your life. Instead, ask: What are you doing to develop who you are as a desirable companion both in and out of your submission?

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If you've ever left a relationship that you've been putting 100% into, because you finally realized that you alone aren't enough to make it work...you know. 

Don't do that to another person. 

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Short answer: Because we benefit from them.

Wait. We benefit from being lied to?

Oh yeah, we do. We LOVE it! As long as we're not lied to too much, or in a way that we can't ignore.

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I’m practicing a model I’m writing about on orgasms with you, my audience. 

*smiles* 

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We all have a tendency to see and experience only what we greatly desire or truly fear, but not the slightly tarnished and full-of-character and wonderment and joy reality that actually exists…especially when we are searching for connection. 

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