I have a special podcast today with my beautiful guest, Susan Assaf. In it, she shares her transformative journey and inspiring story of how she's overcome so many challenges in relationships.

Susan shares how The Love School has influenced the way she dates, healed her attachment style, and empowered her to become a confident dater, setting healthy boundaries, leaning back on her feminine energy and taking back her power after being a victim of narcissistic abuse for many years.

Learn how she's redefined her entire self concept, prioritizing her self-worth and self-esteem.

Don't miss out as Susan and I open up about our own personal journeys, offering support and wisdom for those seeking positivity and healing after toxic relationships. Tune in now for an enlightening and empowering episode!

Susan Assaf is a proud member of The Love School, where she has found support and guidance in navigating the world of dating and relationships after going through a divorce. Susan met Penny in a business group and was instantly drawn to her wisdom and advice. As a single woman in her mid-fifties with five children, Susan found comfort and hope in the Love School and is grateful for the positive changes it has brought to her life. She is happy to share her journey and experiences with others, and is excited to continue growing and learning through the Love School group coaching membership.

You can find out more about Susan here:

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https://susanassaf.com/

Useful Links

🩷 Get my course The Feminine Art Of Avoiding Toxic Relationships 💕

🩷 Join The Love School (My monthly group coaching program)

🩷 Join my free Facebook group, 👑 Manifest Your King: Learn to date like a Queen

🩷 Book a consult

🩷 Work with me

🩷 Check out my courses

🩷 Heal your attachment style

🩷 Heal your broken heart

🩷 The Feminine Art of Dating

In this episode of the podcast, Penny Love and guest Iffy engage in a thought-provoking discussion on the intricacies of relationships, self-worth, and empowerment for women. You will gain insights into the challenges women face in toxic relationships, the impact of societal expectations within a patriarchal system, and how this affects women in relationships. Especially when women get into toxic and abusive relationships and become victims of domestic abuse, but due to the subconscious programming of these women and due to the generational wounds, they will not even be able to see it for themselves, even when pointed out to them.

When we become aware, our deepest desire is to help others realise, too, that it's a long road, and every woman is on her journey.

It is your responsibility on behalf of these women to lead by example so they will even pay attention and become curious. Then, if they come to you, you can help them.

You can also affiliate yourself with an organisation, a charity, or your local council, become a social worker and help create more impact as part of an organisation and a team rather than targeting women and breaking the bad news to them that they're in a toxic relationship.

You must prioritise self-care. Host Penny Love highlights the significance of focusing on activities that bring joy and fulfillment, while guest Iffy shares her experiences and efforts to empower women through counseling and support. Together, they explore the complex dynamics of coaching, the influence of generational trauma, and the compelling need for self-worth and assertiveness in relationships. This episode promises to enlighten and inspire, offering valuable lessons on self-leadership and the pursuit of personal empowerment.

Useful Links

🩷 Get my course The Feminine Art Of Avoiding Toxic Relationships 💕

🩷 Join The Love School (My monthly group coaching program)

🩷 Join my free Facebook group, 👑 Manifest Your King: Learn to date like a Queen

🩷 Book a consult

🩷 Work with me

🩷 Check out my courses

🩷 Heal your attachment style

🩷 Heal your broken heart

🩷 The Feminine Art of Dating

Speed date like a Goddess 💕

- In this episode, Penny Love dives into the world of speed dating and shares tips on how to master the art of attraction.

- Penny advises listeners to maintain open body language, smile, and exude confidence during speed dating events.

- She recommends taking a course called "The Art of Attraction" to boost energy and self-assurance.

- Attendees are encouraged to match with everyone at first to receive feedback on their behavior and energy.

- Taking notes on behaviour, posture, and energy is emphasized for self-improvement and reflection.

- Feedback from speed dating events is highlighted for self-discovery rather than focusing your energy in finding a perfect match.

- The importance of waiting for the guy to email after a match and limiting pre-date messages to four is discussed.

- Penny emphasizes that speed dating is more about practice and character building than finding a soulmate.

- She encourages attending speed dating events as a way to practice dating and interact with potential suitors.

- Listeners are advised to familiarize themselves with event venues and visit them in advance to ease nerves.

- The concept of "duty dating" is introduced to gain experience before committing to serious relationships.

- Details on the layout and dynamics of a typical speed dating event are shared, stressing the importance of choosing a comfortable seat.

- Penny encourages self-reflection, practice, and maintaining a positive attitude towards dating.

- Listeners are invited to join the Love School and subscribe to the podcast for more dating tips and advice.

Join Penny Love on this entertaining and enlightening journey into the world of speed dating. Tune in for valuable insights and practical tips to enhance your dating experiences!

Useful Links

🩷 Join The Love School (My monthly group coaching program)

🩷 Join my free Facebook group, Goddess School

🩷 Work with me

🩷 Check out my courses

🩷 Heal your attachment style

🩷 Heal your broken heart

🩷 The Feminine Art of Dating

Hello Goddess,

On this episode we will cover:

🩷 Inner Child Healing

🩷 Connecting with the Inner Child

🩷 Mothering Oneself

🩷 Bringing awareness to emotional and psychological burdens

🩷 Releasing emotional and psychological burdens

🩷 Identifying underlying issues and wounds

🩷 Expressing inner child's emotions and experiences through different therapies

🩷 Addressing issues and facilitating healing in the subconscious mind

🩷 Making the inner child feel seen, validated, safe, and loved

🩷 Providing empathy, reassurance, and positive affirmations to your inner child

🩷 Physical affection and communication

🩷 Validating emotions and supporting the inner child needs

🩷 Building a positive inner dialogue with the inner child

🩷 Reassuring and loving the inner child

🩷 Managing feelings of worthiness and insecurity in relationships through the inner child

🩷 Reassuring the inner child in moments of doubt

🩷 Importance of healing from past trauma

🩷 Regulating emotions and healing oneself

🩷 Facilitating better manifesting in life

🩷 Clearing limiting beliefs, fears, grief, and insecurities

🩷 Attracting healthy and loving relationships

🩷 Healing oneself to attract another healed soul

🩷 Panic, fear, and fight-or-flight responses

🩷 Gentle parenting your inner child

🩷 Addressing inner child wounds and practicing co-regulation

🩷 Improving emotional regulation, self-awareness, and self-esteem

🩷 Techniques for connecting with and parenting one's inner child

Useful Links

🩷 Book a private inner child healing session

🩷 Join The Love School (My monthly group coaching program)

🩷 Join my free Facebook group, Goddess School

🩷 Work with me

🩷 Check out my courses

🩷 Heal your attachment style

🩷 Heal your broken heart

🩷 The Feminine Art of Dating

Hello Goddess,

In this episode we're going to talk about that black cat/golden retriever analogy that is floating around in social media.

So if you wonder if the black cat energy is for you, you better tune in.

Key points of the episode:

💕 Explaining the black cat and golden retriever analogy

💕 Energy and characteristics associated with the black cat and golden retriever

💕 Comparison of attachment styles: secure vs. anxious vs. avoidant

💕 Impact of attachment styles on relationships

💕 Embodying Black Cat Energy

💕 Characteristics of the black cat energy

💕 Independence and self-sufficiency

💕 Focus on receiving rather than giving

💕 Asserting self-worth and entitlement

💕 Avoiding Golden Retriever Energy

💕 Characteristics of golden retriever energy

💕 Submissive and over-emotional tendencies

💕 Relationship Dynamics of the black cat/golden retriever convo

💕 Impact of energy on relationship dynamics

💕 Influence of feminine energy

💕 Shifting relationship dynamics by embodying black cat energy

💕 Importance of recognizing and utilizing feminine power

💕 Understanding Masculine Energy

💕 Characteristics of black cat and golden retriever males

💕 Impact of masculine energy on relationship dynamics

💕 Recognizing toxic vs. healthy masculine energy

💕 Empowering oneself in relationships

💕 Recognizing and attracting a partner with healthy energy

💕 Embracing the black cat energy to enhance relationship fulfillment

💕 Importance of self-awareness and empowerment in dating

💕 Recognizing the need for personal growth

💕 Support and resources for transformation

Useful Links

🩷 Book a private Black Cat energy session

🩷 Join The Love School (My monthly group coaching program)

🩷 Join the my free Facebook group, Goddess School

🩷 Work with me

🩷 Check out my courses

🩷 Heal your attachment style

🩷 Heal your broken heart

🩷 The Feminine Art of Dating

How the Goddess shows up on the dating apps part 2 💕

This is the second part to last weeks episode.

Last week, we talked about your dating pictures, and today, we talked about what to write on your online dating bio.

A few key points we cover are:

🩷 Getting the Goddess energy right before you even begin.

🩷 Being authentic

🩷 Being your best self

🩷 Being Honest but Not Too Specific About Job and Interests

🩷 Sharing Favorite Cuisines and Drinks

🩷 Telling them what you want

🩷 Avoiding Emojis for Authenticity

🩷 Highlighting Feminine Hobbies

🩷 Avoiding Specifics about Job Roles

🩷 Emphasizing Truthfulness About Age

🩷 Using a Different Name Online to be safe

🩷 Being Vague about Where You Work

🩷 Considerations for Single Moms

🩷 Importance of Mindset of Self-Love and Worthiness

Useful Links

🩷 Book a private online dating profile consultation

🩷 Join The Love School (My monthly group coaching program)

🩷 Join the my free Facebook group, Goddess School

🩷 Work with me

🩷 Check out my courses

🩷 Heal your attachment style

🩷 Heal your broken heart

🩷 The Feminine Art of Dating

Hello Goddess,

On today's episode, we're going to talk about:

💕 The importance of presentation on dating apps

💕 Recognizing the type of person you want to attract and present your accordingly

💕 How to create the perfect pictures

💕 Investing in clothing, makeup, and hair for an appealing look

💕 What colours to wear

💕 What type of smile to wear in your pictures

💕 How a little mantra can help you to achieve the right energy

💕 Balancing your eye makeup with lip colour and glasses

💕 How to take your own pictures

Useful Links

🩷 Book a private online dating profile consultation

🩷 Join The Love School (My monthly group coaching program)

🩷 Join the Facebook group Dating Like a Goddess

🩷 Work with me

🩷 Check out my courses

🩷 Heal your attachment style

🩷 Heal your broken heart

🩷 The Feminine Art of Dating

Hello Goddess,

In today's episode we're going to discuss:

💕 The Impact of Women's Success on Male Partners

💕 The subconscious impact of women's success on male self-esteem

💕 The need for men to feel superior in relationships due to societal conditioning

💕 The importance of dating partners who are equally or more successful

💕 How dating down can lead to settling and underserving oneself

💕 The two types of reactions from partners to a woman's success

💕 The importance of being proud and supportive of a successful partner

💕 The importance of collaboration rather than competition in relationships

💕 Strategies for Successful Women in Dating

💕 The importance on working on self-improvement to attract the ideal partner

💕 Avoiding settling and finding a soulmate who appreciates and supports one's success

💕 Using coaching to develop self-worth and attract the best possible partner

Useful Links

🩷 Join The Love School (My monthly group coaching program)

🩷 Join the Facebook group Dating Like a Goddess

🩷 Work with me

🩷 Check out my courses

🩷 Heal your attachment style

🩷 Heal your broken heart

🩷 The Feminine Art of Dating

Happy Valentines Day Goddess,

Here's my gift to you.

A meditation to attract your perfect soulmate to you.

Happy manifesting

Love Penny 💕

Useful Links

🩷 Join The Love School (My monthly group coaching program)

🩷 Join the Facebook group Dating Like a Goddess

🩷 Work with me

🩷 Check out my courses

🩷 Heal your attachment style

🩷 Heal your broken heart

🩷 The Feminine Art of Dating

In this episode, I dive into the concept of choosing oneself in relationships. I discuss the common scenario of women compromising their standards and self-worth to sustain unfulfilling relationships. I emphasize the crucial nature of self-love and self-respect, underscoring that the most vital relationship one can have is with oneself. Through real-life client stories, I illustrate the empowering impact of individuals choosing to let go of relationships that no longer serve them. Additionally, I explore how healing attachment styles can profoundly influence personal growth and relationship dynamics.

Key Takeaways:

1. The importance of prioritizing self-love and self-respect in relationships.

2. The significance of choosing oneself over settling for unsatisfying relationships.

3. The transformative impact of healed attachment styles on personal empowerment and healthy relationship dynamics.

Useful Links

🩷 Join The Love School (My monthly group coaching program)

🩷 Join the Facebook group Dating Like a Goddess

🩷 Work with me

🩷 Check out my courses

🩷 Heal your attachment style

🩷 Heal your broken heart

🩷 The Feminine Art of Dating