In part 2, Nick continues his conversation with dating and relationship therapist, Anita Chlipala. They delve deep into the complexities of dating and relationships, discussing various themes such as flirting techniques, attachment styles, emotional management, and the challenges of uncertainty in dating.

 

They emphasize the importance of understanding oneself and others, navigating emotional responses, and the necessity of initiating conversations in social settings. 

 

The discussion also highlights common self-sabotaging behaviors in dating and offers practical advice for dating with intention and overcoming social fears. 

 

Anita shares her experience as a therapist on what she sees as the complexities of modern dating, particularly around the challenges of giving and receiving compliments. They also chat about the importance of authenticity in relationships and share insights from their personal experiences.

 

Anita shares that she is hosting a singles event, highlighting the significance of creating a relaxed environment that fosters real-life connections over digital. Nick shares his excitement about attending the event as a participant.

 

They conclude with reflections on finding compatibility and the essential qualities needed for a successful relationship.

 

Be sure to listen to part two of this two-part episode to help you show up in the world with your eyes wide open.

 

Join us at the CHICAGO SINGLES EVENT 11/8/24: https://www.instagram.com/anitaonlove/p/DBH2zCKPx5D/ 

Chapters

 

00:00 Welcome Back to Part 2

00:48 Exploring Flirting Techniques

01:40 Understanding Attachment Styles

03:39 Navigating Uncertainty in Dating

06:35 The Impact of Emotional Management

09:28 Self-Sabotage in Dating

12:45 Dating with Intention

15:01 Initiating Conversations Effectively

20:40 Overcoming Fear in Social Interactions

24:44 Navigating Compliments in Modern Dating

32:35 The Importance of Authenticity in Relationships

33:04 Hosting a Singles Event: A Serendipitous Encounter

37:15 Creating Connections: The Singles Event Experience

40:59 Finding Compatibility: Lessons from Personal Experience

Find Anita Chlipala here:

 

****CHICAGO SINGLES EVENT 11/8/24: https://www.instagram.com/anitaonlove/p/DBH2zCKPx5D/ 

Website: https://www.relationshipreality312.com/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anitaonlove/ 

First Comes Us Book: https://www.amazon.com/s?k=first+comes+us&i=stripbooks&ref=nb_sb_noss 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anitachlipala/ 

 

Find Nick Thompson here:

 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nthompson513/ 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EyesWideOpenContent

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickthompson13/ 

UCAN Foundation: https://www.instagram.com/the_ucan_foundation/

Website: https://www.engagewithnick.com/