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On this episode, Joy and Lonnie talk about his experiences with the LA dating scene, his thoughts on daters in LA. Joy asks Lonnie if he's ever been guilty of pretending to be someone he's not, if he's open to being matchmade with an Unsettler (he is!!) and finally tips for guys who are looking for love.
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In this episode, Joy responds to an Unsettler's DM about tips for what to put on your body by way of clothing (what else would you be putting on your body????) before your first encounter in a publicly available and mutually agreed upon location with your desired romantic prospect. Or first date.
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SWIPE BABY SWIPE I NEED YOU TO STAY WITH ME! In this episode I discuss how finding love on dating apps is a game of probability, the most common online dating lies, the best time to swipe and how time-consuming and emotionally draining unless you're investing financially or training a few algorithms to date the way you do.
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Listen to this episode if you hate "going with the flow." or if the phrase "let's just see what happens" triggers you when dating. Also listen to the sound of Joy's distant chewing/mukbang, lunch was lunching.
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In this ridiculously titled episode, Joy kekes enthusiastically with Renise Alexander (that's that curly girl rae!) from The Black Roses and Married At First Sight "Unmatchables." They discuss the ups and downs of Renise having or seeking to date multiple partners simultaneously while being a booked and busy flight attendant.
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In this episode about Black Men in History, we pay homage to the finest black men who have made a lasting impact on American society. From civil rights leaders, to entrepreneurs --- JK! Hahahah this would be an amazing episode though wouldn't it? Tune in to see what Joy really did, what she really means by fine, the painstaking, bleeding work she did to sort through the crème de la crème of black men in U.S. history. Mmm.
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In this week's episode, Joy sits down with Instagram and TikTok creator and human being Andrew Licout (@andrewlicout) to discuss how to maintain a strong sense of self and hold onto your personal preferences in a romantic partnership. Andrew shares his insights and experiences on how to navigate the ups and downs of dating while keeping your individuality intact. Whether you're single and looking for love or in a relationship, this episode is a must-listen for anyone who wants to understand the delicate balance of being true to yourself and being 1 of 2.
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Where do straight men go looking for love? What do they struggle with? Joy sits down with Shayne, the short form comedy-loving single straight Black and notable Hispanic man who's decided to take his dating game to the next level by studying Joy's comedy. From Repressed Coworker to Tré, Shayn's been watching her characters in the hopes of finding healthy partnership. But is a steady diet of Joy and the Manosphere enough to make him a dating expert? Tune in to find out as Joy grills Shayne on his dating strategies and the hilarious mishaps that have ensued.
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In this episode of the Dating Unsettled show, host Joy shares her personal experience with hardballing in dating and how it ultimately led to finding a partner. She explains the concept of hardballing, which involves setting strict boundaries and being unapologetically selective in the dating process.
Joy also provides listeners with practical tips and strategies for implementing hardballing - what to do and what NOT TO DO GOOD GOD NO AAGH NO PLEASE NO! This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to take control of their dating journey and find a healthy, fulfilling relationship. So tune in and learn from Joy's story and advice for your post-swipe convos.
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In this episode of the Dating Unsettled show, we speak with Zoya about the coveted culture around Pakistani-American dating. Zoya shares her personal experiences navigating the traditional expectations placed on women in Pakistan when it comes to relationships and courtship. She talks about how the cultural emphasis on family honor and purity can make dating complicated and often shrouded in secrecy. Joy and Zoya touch on the emergence of online dating which can be a viable and safe way for women to meet partners, in addition to arranged marriage and matchmaking. Biodatas available upon request...
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