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We are often told to never argue or fight with those we are close to. However it is an inevitable eventuality and will come up in any kind of relationship somehow. Elwen talks about how he has used arguments and fights to better understand his feelings and compassion towards the person he is fighting with.

The way we see things can have a very large impact on us. Our perception can make the dark days brighter and the bright days blacker than pitch. Elwen talks about his experiences with his perspective affecting him; and how even the slightest glimpse of something better can be the catalyst for change.

Caring about people is a complicated business. Sometimes we convince ourselves we love or care about people we never even liked in the first place. And after the relationship is over we see our true feelings for the first time. Elwen talks about a relationship in which he felt nothing, yet convinced himself he felt everything and in the end only wasted everyone’s time.

Finding a good relationship is a difficult task, it takes respect and strength to make it work weather it be a friendship or something more. This entails that it is far easier to fall into a bad relationship, Elwen talks about his experiences with bad relationships and warns others to not follow his lead.

If you look out a window at night your likely to stare at your own reflection in the window. This is a perfect analogy for how we often reflect on our lives and our actions at night. Elwen as he talks about his life and the things he wishes he could change, all in the dark of night.

Our insecurities are what drive us, weather that be to new heights or deeper into the ground. However it is also possible that a person’s insecurities can affect those around them in a negative way. Elwen talks about the insecurities that he has seen recently and why he feels that they can have negative effects on those around them.

School was a difficult time for all of us. Weather it was the kids, the classwork, the teachers, or some combination of the three we all went through school troubles. Elwen talks about his private school experience and the problems he saw and faced there.

Fear is something we can all relate to, it can come from the most insignificant things in our lives or the most laughable situations. Fear, however, can shake us on fundamental level and change our lives forever. In the longest episode of the show yet, Elwen talks about his greatest fear, the dark and whatever is hidden in the shadows.

The places we live can change who we are and who we become. The memories of our time there can change our view of the area and of the experiences we had. Elwen talks about a town he used to live in and how his mind changes when he is there, in an old, familiar town.

A dark night tends to bring up our inner feelings. Weather they be good or bad, pointless or impactful they are all brought to the surface. Elwen Farr talks about a recent time that a dark, warm night opened a stranger up and made Elwen rethink his views on life.