Dear Jessamyn

This week, Jessamyn and ashe are calling in joy and levity and  spirit presence happy good and bright and meant to be and always was and here. 

 Episode mentions: Out of the Closet, Logic, Kathryn Budi, Asha Patel Designs collab, Tenderfire Media’s newest podcast I Hate It Here, Planet Earth, The Planet Podcast 

This episode was recorded on stole Ohlone land. 

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

https://fruitsnack.bandcamp.com/ does our theme music. 

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

Have you ever dated someone with an STD? Is it selfish to pursue a relationship with a married person? This week’s Deary is an Aquarius with some impactful queries. 

Episode mentions: Words of Wisdom by Ram Dass, Dharmacosm,  Ekhart Tolle's Power of Now audiobook, Letters to a Young Poet by Rainer Maria Rilke and DSM5’s definition of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

This episode was recorded on stolen Ohlone land.

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

https://fruitsnack.bandcamp.com/ does our theme music. 

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

Tags: love, relationships, trivia, Harriet the Spy, Michelle Trachtenberg,astrology,jessamyn stanley,RV,camper,traveling,ULTA,skincare,skin,eczema, Nickelodeon, astrology,Roe v Wade, supreme court, abortion

Wait, there’s a platypus controlling you? What? ANYWAY. This week, Jessamyn and ashe are diving into their favorite things (RE: the first sentence of this description), giving last week’s trivia answer (hint: Durham native), responding to some listener feedback and answering a Deary with a Queery. 

Episode mentions: Pauli Murray, Barbara Lau and Ep. 312: Does Your Therapist Know Your Astrology

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

https://fruitsnack.bandcamp.com/ does our theme music. 

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

There’s something in the air this week as Jessamyn and ashe record after the partial solar eclipse. Our hosts review 315’s trivia answer (hint: Cancerian Black genius immigrant) and talk about recent skincare adventures. Also, fu*k the Supreme Court. 

This episode mentions Ashe’s white guilt from Ep. 313 and Harriet The Spy.

This episode was recorded on stolen lands of the Kiauwee Confederacy.

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

https://fruitsnack.bandcamp.com/ does our theme music. 

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

Jessamyn answers a DM about her relationship with her other partner, and what it’s like to start a new phase of her life with physical distance between them. Also introducing a new segment…

CW: Suicide and suicidal ideations at 5:41 and 10:16.

This episode mentions: Haus of Phoenix, @HungryHUngryHeejin, Four Agreements

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

https://fruitsnack.bandcamp.com/ does our theme music. 

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

What does it look like to be luxurious with time? Jessamyn and ashe are here with updates from camper on the East Coast, continuing conversations about conflict. This week we’re also introducing our newest segments: Our Favorite Things and Trivia! Hey quick reminder: No One Should Be In Jail For Weed.

This episode mentions the We Go High Shop, Song Exploder, Waxahachee and Radiotopia

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

Fruit Snack does our theme music. 

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

When was the last time you thought about what makes you mad and what that was actually about? This week Jesssamyn and ashe are individually reflecting on the context of their internal and relationship conflicts, and yes, what their conflict animals mean.

Mentions

• Conflict is Not Abuse: Overstating Harm, Community Responsibility, and the Duty of Repair by Sarah Schulman
• The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz with Janet Mills

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

Fruit Snack does our theme music. 

This episode also contains music from: bomull, Viriya, Vicki Vox, Soara, Iso Indies and Tyra Chantey

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

Does your therapist know your Big Three, Myers-Briggs and attachment style? Jessamyn and ashe discuss the importance of openness with your therapist. There’s also some conversation about capitalism. Cue the O’Jays.

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

Fruit Snack does our theme music. 

This episode also contains music from: Particle House, Cody High,  DAJANA, Arc De Soleil and Mimmi Bangoura

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

It's April, but we thought we should ask. Jessamyn and Ashe discuss what's new in paradise, all of Jessamyn’s recent travel and answer Tyler The Creator's question; What's Your November? Do you know where you are on your journey?

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

Fruit Snack does our theme music. 

This episode also contains music from: SINY, Shy5, DAJANA, Tyler the Creator and The Whites

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

Jessamyn and Ashe ponder a question from a Deary: Can a monogamous person find as much adventure and challenge as a polyamorous person can? 

Upon  reflection during What's New In Paradise, Jessamyn also shares that she may be asking for more vulnerability from Ashe than she typically offers from herself.
Got a question? Head to Dearjessamyn.com/queery and you may hear it play on the show!

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

Fruit Snack does our theme music. 

This episode also contains music from: Mimmi Bangoura, DAJANA, Particle House and King Sis

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

No one should be in jail for weed.