Dear Jessamyn

We’re taking some time to spring clean today! It’s time to reflect on the past; think on where you've been and what you're carrying and what you're going to bring forward this season. 

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

Fruit Snack does our theme music. 

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

In this replay episode from May 2020, Jessamyn and ashe ask; Are you dreaming of the day quarantine is over, and you can finally head over to your friend's house so you can ruin your friendship with sex? We are too. What a different world!

I mean, what else are we thinking about these days? Ashe and Jessamyn finish their conversation about compersion, having sex with friends, having good communication with friends later and deciding that you don't need to do that anymore, and ultimately, loving yourself. I know you are shocked at that one.

In this episode, we mention an entirely fake hookup app that we made up because we think it should exist. And then we realized that hookup apps are somewhat a thing of the past, or at least they should be right now, please. Stay safe out there, y'all. We're in this together means, please stay home if you can and be careful with your precious life. And everyone else's.

Got a question? Head to Dearjessamyn.com/queery and you may hear it play on the show!

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

Fruit Snack does our theme music. 

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

A fabulous question from “Bi and Large” came through our hosts’ inbox inquiring on the coolest weed-friendly, queer-friendly, dog-friendly places to visit and live. After having traveled throughout a lot of the US recently in their RV, Jessamyn and ashe are the perfect people to answer!

Got a question? Head to Dearjessamyn.com/queery and you may hear it play on the show!

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

Fruit Snack does our theme music. 

This episode also contains music from: Jharee, Shy5 and Mimmi Bangoura, DAJANA and Arc De Soleil

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

Jessamyn and ashe recount a frustrating, yet sometimes funny, sexual scenario with a third. 

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

Fruit Snack does our theme music. 

This episode also contains music from: Jharee, Shy5 and Mimmi Bangoura

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

Jessamyn and ashe finished the first season of the HBOMax original And Just Like That, and are here to chat to say that sometimes you're gay, and sometimes you have a husband. Our hosts are reviewing the character growth of the cast, and the real world expectations of their actions.

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

Fruit Snack does our theme music. 

This episode also contains music from: Jharee, Shy5 and Mimmi Bangoura

And audio clips from FansFamily 2.0 on YouTube

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

Can you be somewhat poly? Jessamyn and Ashe discuss a Deary Queery about opening up to non-monogamy, and the importance of radical honesty in every relationship.

This episode mentions Jessica Fern’s Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

Fruit Snack does our theme music. 

This episode also contains music from: Shy5 and King Sis, along with instrumentals from Alannis Morissette’s “All I Really Want” and Sheryl Crow’s “If It Makes You Happy” and “Strong Enough.”

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

What are our options in long distance relationships? What are the pros and cons of cohabitation? This week Jessamyn and ashe answer a Deary Queery that unlocks these subsets of dating and relationships. As Venus stations direct and Mercury continues in retrograde, our hosts wonder what the best ways of communicating (and not) with loved ones are.

This episode mentions: We Go High NC, Underbelly Yoga, Portlandia

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

Fruit Snack does our theme music. 

This episode also contains music from: Jharee, Particle House, DAJANA, Frigga, Mimmi Bangoura, and the instrumentals of “Just A Friend” from AugustsTruly   

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

Follow up question: have y’all tried couples therapy? While Venus is in retrograde, Jessamyn and ashe talk out their relationship frustrations and revelations since moving to California. This week, our hosts also focus on a Deary Queery: Is it foolish to date someone and fall in love even if their base beliefs are different? Can a monogamous person date a poly person?

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

Fruit Snack does our theme music. 

Sarah, The Instrumentalist; DAJANA, Particle House and King Sis also have music in here. 

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

Are you a Carrie, Miranda, or Che Diaz? In this week’s Sex and the Titty segment, Jessamyn and ashe discuss the themes and character development within the HBOMax series, And Just Like That. We learn why Jessamyn relates to Big, and why ashe is totally a Carrie. 

The Astrothought of the Week focuses on the moon in Cancer, and all of the luscious emotions that come with it. 

Dear Jessamyn is hosted by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

Fruit Snack does our theme music. Tiki Tiki and God Mode also have music in here. 

This episode mentions from Loose Leaf: Dorthy Allison, “I Am Not My Mama” https://vimeo.com/127155033 

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

You can leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

Jessamyn and ashe are bringing in season 3 from a brand new location - their new home in California! This week, our hosts talk about adjustments to their lives and relationships since moving from the RV to a "permanent" residence.

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

Fruit Snack does our music. 

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

No one should be in jail for weed.