Dear Jessamyn

While we take a short break, enjoy our very first episode of Dear Jessamyn ever! We still want to know, can you choose between polyamory or monogamy? Is Sexual Identity A Choice?

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Melody Minager, Angell Foster and Nya Williams do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney is Jessamyn’s Chief of Staff

Amber Richardson is Ashe’s Chief of Staff

Fruit Snack does our music. 

Additional music this week by Godmode and MU. 

You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

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What if your partner used to be polyamorous but now they are with you and y'all are monogamous? Did your partner change who they are? Did they change for you? Is that even a thing? Are they definitely, secretly cheating on you, as Jessamyn believes about most people? 🤔🤔🤔

Join Ashe and Jessamyn as we go even more in-depth than we did the other day about if we think we choose our sexual identities, or there is some other plot afoot. We both get vulnerable about past relationships that have asked us some of these very same questions, and we share what we answered then, and how we would address them now. We even share a little bit about our own polyamorous relationship structure and constellation.  🌕🌞✨🌌 Oh, lord.

 Find out some of Ashe and Jessamyn's highly-opinionated responses to these questions and others, in this VERY FIRST XL episode of Dear Jessamyn! 🎉🎉🎉

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Our guest cherry has been popped by the hosts of Clit Talk! Katie, Lindsey and Sugar join Ashe and Jessamyn on the mic: They talk about masturbation circles, sexual empowerment and play a lovely game of Fuck, Marry, K*ll. 

Become a member of the Cliterati and follow Clit Talk on Instagram @clittakshow. Make sure to sign up for their upcoming workshop, “Confidence Under the Covers,” while also keeping an eye out for their sex and empowerment master class at the end of September. 

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions, how to find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Chaz VanHoose and Melody Minager do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney make sure the boat doesn't capsize 

Fruit Snack does our music. 

Additional music this week by Godmode and MU. 

You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

Jessamyn and Ashe are inviting in the ability to stop, and the reality of change. They reflect on their life since fully moving into the trailer, and how their dynamics have shifted. 

One of the new additions to their life in paradise is an increased time spent at the gym — specifically luxuriating in the showers of Planet Fitness. But also working out with your partner as inspiration vs. competition.  

The pair gets back into Sex and the Titty with “Ghost Town” (season four, episode five), where Carrie wonders if she should go to Aidan and Steve’s bar opening. Begging the question: What will serve us in this moment?

During the Astrothought of the Week, Jessamyn and Ashe review Chani’s The Week Ahead podcast which reflects on the week of August 1st - and the importance of knowing it is not possible to amass the power of the outside world. “Leo's show us that the whole point of our existence is to just shine.”

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions had find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Chaz VanHoose and Melody Minager do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney make sure the boat doesn't capsize 

Fruit Snack does our music. 

Additional music this week by Godmode and MU. 

You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

Jessamyn and ashe are settling into their new life in the camper/RV/trailer, and discuss what it is like to engage with close family friends, close family family, and inviting in being open to all the feelings, without pretending they are not happening.

The chaos has gone down so much since they moved, and they are about to set sail on they journey that is going to take them far from home. They are nervous and excited. 

After leaving Cancer season with a bang, ashe speculates that they were using this to catch up on all the shenanigans they couldn't in 2020. Chaos is her resting posture after all (or so she says).

The pair discuss a recent breakup ashe had, and the tendency for partnership privilege to create weird power problems in polyamorous dating. Mean to or not, sometimes perception is impossible to get out of your head when you want what someone has.

With the new moon in Leo, Jessamyn reflects on the ways that she is grateful for the Leos in her life, all of whom encourage everyone to shine Unless they are having a bad day. 

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions had find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Chaz VanHoose and Melody Minager do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney make sure the boat doesn't capsize 

Amber Richardson keeps Tenderfire Media outside of the poor house

Fruit Snack does our theme song 

Additional music this week by Godmode and MU. 

You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

Bye 

Picking up from last week’s episode, Jessamyn and Ashe continue the tale of Jessamyn’s birthday weekend. And yes, acrobatic sex and LSD are involved. 

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions had find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Chaz VanHoose and Melody Minager do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney make sure the boat doesn't capsize 

Fruit Snack does our music. 

Additional music this week by Godmode and MU. 

You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

Bye 

The past two weeks have been a whirlwind! Jessamyn and Ashe are reviewing some *notable* things that happened on Jessamyn’s birthday weekend...that of course, as we know, was during Cancer season. Strap in for part one of this recollection. 

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions had find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Chaz VanHoose and Melody Minager do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney make sure the boat doesn't capsize 

Fruit Snack does our music. 

Additional music this week by Godmode and MU. 

You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

Bye 

(Not-so) Live from the camper-trailer, it’s Dear Jessamyn! The very first episode recorded since Jessamyn and Ashe's big move to their little home. Can y’all send suggestions for what they should name their new home?

Throughout the episode, we get scattered Astrothoughts like it’s still Gemini season, but they’re emotional realizations in true Cancer season form.

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions had find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Chaz VanHoose and Melody Minager do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art

Anna Rooney make sure the boat doesn't capsize 

Fruit Snack does our music. 

Additional music this week by Godmode and MU. 

You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

Bye 

Jessamyn is hella excited to talk about Ashe’s recent dating life as the co-hosts invite in flexibility and intentional reflection on feelings for the week!

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions had find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Chaz VanHoose and Melody Minager do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney make sure the boat doesn't capsize 

Fruit Snack does our music.

 Receive 20% your next purchase and free shipping from Manscaped with offer code jessamyn.

Additional music this week by Godmode.

You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

Bye 

This week our hosts invite in the realities of anxiety, of coping mechanisms and really seeing themselves. What's New In Paradise? Ashe and Jessamyn got financing for their camper!

In true form, we had some technical difficulties while Mercury was in Retrograde. Please enjoy!

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify.

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions had find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. Roberts

Angell Foster does our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art

Anna Rooney is jessamyn's chief of staff

Amber Richardson is ashe's chief of staff

Fruit Snack does our music.

Receive 20% your next purchase and free shipping from Manscaped with offer code JESSAMYN

Additional music this week by Godmode and MU.

You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review.

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley.

No one should be in jail for weed.

Bye 

In a league of their own, Jessamyn and Ashe bring in gratitude and the concept of eating their fears while Mercury is in Retrograde.

This week’s Deary Queery asks for advice in ignoring outside pressure and creating a life that centers their friendships and poly-family. Wondering What’s New in Paradise? Our hosts discuss their big move into a camper-trailer!

Follow us on Instagram @DearJessamyn and find and follow the show on Spotify. 

There's a bunch more info on the episode like behind the scenes content, transcriptions had find us and our team and more. It's all at dearjessamyn.com

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee Roberts

Chaz VanHoose and Melody Minager do our social media

Janie Leopard does our episode art 

Anna Rooney make sure the boat doesn't capsize 

Fruit Snack does our music.

Receive 20% your next purchase and free shipping from Manscaped with offer code JESSAMYN.

Additional music this week by Godmode and MU. 

You can leave us a review on iTunes! Reviews help a lot. Please, if you've enjoyed this episode, even for like half a beat, please go leave us a review. 

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

No one should be in jail for weed. 

Bye