Dear Son, time heals nothing. This perspective contradicts what most of us have been fed our entire lives, “time heals all wounds.” While there is merit to being sensitive to the timing of the necessary actions, the actions are necessary. Today’s conversation with Dr. Yardan Shabazz prompted me to take an inventory of my relationships and how I value them based on my actions. I realized how good I was at leaving things to chance. Sure, if there is a financial outcome or professional recognition attached, I’ve historically been more attentive to these things. Relationships though…I could take or leave some of them because my pride was bigger than my heart.

This conversation with Dr. Shabazz is riveting to say the least. As his name may suggest (to some) his family has a very rich, deep history with several iconic figures that shaped this nation’s history. His life what not a cakewalk by any stretch, and he provides insight to the economic, social, and political challenges that his family endured. His fatherhood story is riddled with tough love, rejection, and pain, all of which fueled him to be a successful educator, author, business owner, husband, and father.

This conversation was a joy, and it was also heavy. Dr. Shabazz and I had meaningful revelations that prompted us to take actions after. For him, the action was to engage with his father as their communication had deteriorated over the years. It proved to be a very timely engagement as his father passed away a few days later. He agreed to move forward with airing this episode as it is part of the testimony (his and this platform’s) and may help someone as God designs. Time heals nothing. Action does.

My condolences are extended to the Shabazz family. May Minister James Shabazz rest in peace.

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