Welcome to the Dear Son Show, where hosts Jey Blac and D Johns delve into real-life, meaningful conversations designed to help young boys and men learn the lessons they wish they had known earlier. In this powerful episode, the duo discusses the essence of 'seeing it through,' the importance of internal motivation, and the challenges faced by young Black boys struggling with anxiety and depression. They also touch upon personal anecdotes about fatherhood, resilience, and the impact of maintaining open and loving communication with their families. Join us for a candid and eye-opening dialogue that can change lives. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe to stay engaged with our empowering content!

00:00 Introduction and Hosts' Banter

00:26 Health and Wellness Journey

01:48 Fraternity Life and Personal Growth

05:42 Seeing It Through: The Importance of Perseverance

06:45 Parenting and Personal Accountability

12:37 Community and Relationships

17:47 Motivations and Adjustments

24:29 The Burden of Being Wrong

25:09 Personal Growth and Humility

26:01 Parenting Challenges and Mistakes

29:19 Finding Your 'Why'

35:47 Supporting Young Black Boys

39:53 Encouraging Open Communication

51:13 The Importance of Internal Motivation

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Join hosts D Johns and Jey Blac on 'The Dear Son, Show' as they delve into the essence of marriage and fatherhood. This episode unpacks the highs and lows of being a husband and father, providing unparalleled insights through lived experiences. They discuss the importance of having a supportive partner, the irreplaceable moments in fatherhood, and the realities of navigating marriage. With candid anecdotes and valuable life lessons, this episode offers a wealth of wisdom for anyone navigating these crucial roles. Don’t miss out—watch, like, and subscribe for more enlightening conversations!

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Being a Husband

01:14 Welcome to the Dead Son Show

02:19 The Joy and Challenges of Content Creation

03:21 The Value of Real Conversations

07:07 Managing Expectations in Relationships

18:06 The Importance of Growth in Marriage

21:55 Learning from Past Relationships

25:52 Navigating Relationship Dynamics

26:26 The Importance of Receptive Partners

26:42 The Concept of Nagging

26:45 Reflections on Past Relationships

27:37 The Value of Hindsight

27:42 Marriage: The Good and the Bad

33:46 Fatherhood: Unconditional Belief

36:18 Balancing Parenting and Childhood

38:04 The Joy of Watching Children Grow

39:33 The Complexity of Adult Children

43:21 The Interconnectedness of Life Choices

47:59 Closing Thoughts on Parenthood and Marriage

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What do you do when your son steps to you like a man? In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, things get real. A father faces a moment every parent hopes to avoid — his son challenging his authority. What starts as tension turns into a powerful conversation about respect, maturity, and what it really means to grow into manhood.

And just when it feels like things are cooling down, the conversation takes another turn. The son asks for advice about dating a young woman who already has a child. The father’s response? Honest. Unfiltered. And full of wisdom that comes from experience.

This one isn’t about being perfect — it’s about being present. It’s about listening, learning, and leading with love.

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In this engaging episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive into deeply impactful conversations aimed at helping boys, young men, and adult men learn valuable life lessons. Through personal anecdotes and real-life scenarios, the hosts discuss the importance of not taking things personally and how it can affect different areas of life, from personal relationships to professional settings. They also delve into the dynamics of parenting with grace and the significance of leading with curiosity, both in the corporate world and at home. Tune in for insightful dialogue that encourages self-reflection and proactive change. Don't miss out—like, share, and subscribe for more compelling episodes!

00:00:00 Welcome to the Dear Sun Show

00:00:18 Catching Up: Birthdays and School Updates

00:00:53 Discussing the Cowboys and Gremlin Losses

00:02:55 The Importance of Taking Things Personally

00:09:06 Corporate Lessons: Firing vs. Resignation

00:20:24 Leadership and Parenting: Balancing Friendliness and Authority

00:24:58 Leading Curiously: Asking 'Why' for Better Outcomes

00:29:20 Listening to Your Child

00:29:54 Adjustments vs. Compromises

00:30:34 Setting Expectations in Parenting

00:33:42 Communicating in Relationships

00:45:51 The Importance of Participation

00:52:17 Grace and Understanding

00:56:37 Closing Thoughts and Announcements

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Welcome to another insightful episode of The Dear Son, Show, where hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive deeply into meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. In this episode, they touch on three main topics: the importance of respecting time and its implications, the challenges of parenting through gray areas and difficult scenarios, and the significance of not placing a price on one's integrity. The episode promises a blend of humor, critical thinking, and raw authenticity, providing valuable insights for fathers and sons navigating their own paths. Make sure to like, share, and subscribe to the channel to join us on this journey!

00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show

00:00:18 Hosts' Personal Anecdotes and Gratitude

00:01:01 Engaging with Audience Comments

00:02:14 Promotions and Announcements

00:05:04 Cultural Perspectives on Time Management

00:06:24 Mindset and Perception in Personal Development

00:07:50 Parenting and Job Interview Experiences

00:13:22 Leadership Styles and Effectiveness

00:23:55 Understanding the Impact of Parenting Styles

00:24:54 Adapting Leadership and Management Approaches

00:26:36 The Unique Nature of Each Child

00:28:13 The Importance of Data in Decision Making

00:28:47 Encouraging Open Conversations

00:31:20 Core Values and Personal Beliefs

00:35:07 The Dangers of Valuing Money Over Integrity

00:39:03 Legality vs. Morality

00:51:07 Parenting Through the Gray Areas

00:51:38 Football Season and Closing Remarks

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In this milestone episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive deep into the pressing issues faced by parents today. They explore the intricacies of family dynamics, touching on the importance of communication with children and the struggles of balancing structure and empathy. The episode delves into real-life scenarios, including handling children's schedules, the impact of modern technology on parenting, and the importance of understanding and meeting your children's needs. This engaging conversation is a must-watch for parents seeking to strengthen their relationships with their children and improve their parenting strategies. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated on future episodes!

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:17 Show Kickoff and Announcements

00:54 Book Promotions and Giveaways

02:55 Daily Life and Parenting Challenges

09:57 Football Season and Rivalries

14:52 Reflections on the Show's Impact

22:07 Parenting in the Digital Age

26:31 The Beauty of Awareness

27:00 School Phone Policies

28:47 Emergency Situations and School Safety

29:56 Parenting Challenges and Reflections

31:46 Balancing Discipline and Empathy

37:32 The Importance of Communication

50:09 Compromises and Time Management

57:28 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections

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In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac engage in meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. They cover topics that resonate with fathers, those with fathers, and the fatherless. Key highlights include Jey Blac discussing his excitement about becoming a senior in college and the challenges that come with it, D Johns sharing his son's experiences balancing school and a budding career in the electrical trade, and an insightful discussion on how not every planted seed grows but how persistence and good nurturing can yield unexpected results. The hosts also share personal anecdotes about balancing multiple responsibilities and the importance of dedication in every aspect of life. Don't miss this engaging discussion and make sure to subscribe to our channel for more heartfelt conversations and life lessons!

00:00:00 Welcome to the Dear Son, Show

00:00:26 Celebrating Milestones and Achievements

00:01:43 Back to School and Family Updates

00:03:30 The Challenges of Parenting and Education

00:04:53 Not Every Planted Seed Grows

00:07:40 College Life and New Beginnings

00:12:07 Balancing Freedom and Responsibility

00:21:34 Gardening and Life Lessons

00:25:07 The Heat in Dallas and Plant Care

00:25:44 Germination Period and Patience

00:26:13 The Importance of Proper Plant Placement

00:26:54 Sharing Resources and Soil Management

00:27:48 Nurturing Plants and Recognizing Efforts

00:28:45 Marriage and Relationships Insights

00:32:00 Balancing Busy Schedules and Priorities

00:34:51 Strategic Planting and Crop Rotation

00:35:37 Teaching Life Skills and Observations

00:41:10 Career Advice and Personal Growth

00:49:17 Promoting Books and Final Thoughts

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In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns delve into the importance of self-reflection and accountability. They discuss how understanding one's strengths and weaknesses can lead to personal growth, and they stress the significance of not falling in love with one's initial ideas or external perceptions. They also explore the challenges of maintaining meaningful relationships amidst busy lives and highlight the role of honest communication in strengthening these bonds. Finally, they examine the role of AI and modern technology in today's workforce, emphasizing the importance of using these tools to enhance rather than replace human skills. Don't miss this insightful conversation that promises to help young men and boys realize the value of introspection and meaningful connections. Remember to like, comment, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes.

00:00:00 Introduction to the Dishon Show

00:00:13 New Beginnings and Reflections

00:01:57 Today's Topic: Watch That Mirror

00:03:06 Accountability and Self-Reflection

00:06:38 Generational Shifts and AI

00:13:12 The Importance of Networking

00:21:37 Relationships and Lifelong Friendships

00:30:07 Parental Involvement and Dual Parent Households

00:31:17 Encouraging Fathers to Engage More

00:31:54 Self-Love and Its Pitfalls

00:32:43 Constructive Criticism and Personal Growth

00:34:46 The Importance of Being Receptive

00:36:30 Balancing Personal and Professional Life

00:42:21 Maintaining Relationships Amidst a Busy Schedule

00:46:09 Reflecting on Personal Accountability

00:53:46 Concluding Thoughts and Announcements

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