Debrief Sesh

Pre-brief:

This week, we’re catching you up on what we’ve been up to lately… Hannah shares a quick update on her SF life and Stacy shares some funny stories from her trip to Kamikochi… along with a few things you definitely should know before going, especially if you’re traveling with someone you may or may not have a crush on cuz Hannah had the same experience when she went couple years ago lol

Main topic:

Spark vs. Slow Burn relationships. Unsurprisingly, we’re on opposite sides again. Stacy can’t imagine being with someone if there isn’t an instant spark, while Hannah thinks love can start with chemistry or grow over time…but lately we don’t have time for that slow burn, so she’s been on the “spark” side recently. We talk about whether we believe in“love at first sight”, how this connects to today’s situationship culture, how spark may eventually die down overtime, and is one really better than the other?

Pre-Brief: Obsession is 100% worth the hype (spoilers alert). We break down why we think it’s one of the best horror movies we’ve seen in a long time. Plus we get into a little K-pop drama, the new girl group from the HYBE x Geffen audition show, SAINT SATINE, has already lost a member… and they haven’t even debuted yet. Yikes.

Main Topic: After watching Obsession, we started reflecting on all the crazy things we’ve done for someone we liked…and the equally crazy things our exes did that we somehow stayed through. From spending way too much money on them, holding in your farts/#2 for so long that you end up constipated and needing treatment (yes…really), or even acting “chill” when they fully edit you out of a photo lol - we’re sharing some of our embarrassing but now-funny crazy stories. Join us as we laugh at our past selves and ask the question: what is the craziest thing you’ve ever done for love?

Pre-brief:

World Cup is in full swing, and although Japan unfortunately got eliminated, we did win one thing for sure - the hearts of millions of fans across the world bc GADDAMN we have some fine shyts on the national team🥵 (Nakamura Keito, we're big fans)

Main Topic:

Speaking of hopping on the World Cup bandwagon, there's recently been a spike in number of people getting involved in trendy things - HYROX, F1, pickleball, etc... And that's not necessarily a bad thing, but we can't help but be a bit skeptical at how much people are actually enjoying the thing, versus enjoying the commotion around the thing. Is this an unfair hot take? Tune in to figure out for yourself!

Sorry we took a little mini-break, but we’re back- now coming to you from Tokyo and San Francisco! 🌏✨As you can see, Hannah has officially left Tokyo and started her new chapter in SF! In this episode, we’re catching up on everything that’s happened over the past few weeks, from how Hannah’s settling into life in SF to what Stacy has been up to back in Tokyo (solo content??)This is also our very first virtual recording, so we’re figuring things out as we go. We think it went pretty well, but bear with us while we adjust to the new setup… starting with the realization that we probably need a new intro😂

HAPPY 1 YEAR ANNIVERSARY to us!!! <333

We look back on all of our memorable moments since starting this podcast, like our first hate comment, first collab, first time getting recognized...who's cutting onions??? ALSOOO, there's a big announcement for the future of Debrief Sesh, so make sure to tune in!

To celebrate, we also answer some random Qs and comments from you all (thank you to everyone who submitted on IG!)

(our mics cut off at around the 25 min mark😭 sorry for the not great quality but hope u can still enjoy!!)

For podcast guest #3, we’ve got… Casey!!! Known for his dad jokes and Japanglish content with his baseball teammates, we sit down with him and get to know the guy behind the humor. We kick things off with some fun rapid-fire questions (MBTI, red flags, green flags, pet peeves, his “type”), then dive into what it’s really like living with 14 teammates, his mindset as a baseball player, and how that  mentality carry over into his approach to relationships… and maybe even get some insider info on future content he’s been thinking about!

This week we talk about being Nonchalant vs. Chalant. Being nonchalant can be seen as ~chill~ but is that something we really want in a partner? Of course Stacy and Hannah have very different takes as we get into everything from double texting and constant “are you ok?” check-ins to whether a bit of playful jealousy is cute or a red flag. Plus, we talk about how our “chalant-ness” shows up outside of dating too in everyday life.

Prebrief:

US influencer James Charles is back on the hot seat (again for the millionth time) after saying some out-of-touch things online, and Hannah is personally going through it after her celebrity crush Jacob Elordi is allegedly dating Kendall Jenner… :(

Main topic:

We’re getting into all things health. What we’ve been doing lately, what’s actually working, and what we’re not fully convinced about. From fitness routines to random wellness trends we’ve tried (or refused to try), we’re sharing our honest, unfiltered takes.

Pre-brief:

We’re kicking things off with the new Netflix hit Straight to Hell (「地獄に落ちるわよ」), currently #1 in Japan - and we highlyyyy recommend. It tells the wild, real-life story of Japan’s most famous fortune teller, Kazuko Hosoki. We all remember her from TV growing up, but what we didn’t know? How she got there. No spoilers, but her life is absolutely insane.

Main topic:

Modern dating…breadcrumbing and love bombing. It should be a crime (it is)!!! Stacy shares her experiences with guys who keep her just interested enough but not enough, while Hannah is officially done with men who come on way too strong… only to flip a switch like none of it ever happened. As we unpack the red flags, patterns, and personal stories behind these manipulative tactics, we hope this episode helps you spot the signs early, trust your gut, and stop settling for inconsistent energy.

This week we have a special guest, Remoncky!! We kick things off with some rapid-fire questions before diving into our main topic: Digital Dating. Stacy and Hannah have shared their own opinions, tactics, and experiences navigating flirting over the current digital age (text and social media), but this time we finally get a man’s POV with Remoncky’s perspective (plus some funny stories along the way). Do men lowkey IG-stalk the people they’re interested in too? Do guys "heart" IG stories just to get their attention? Remoncky reminds us we are asking for the bare minimum😭

Somewhere throughout the episode, we also realize the very obvious black cat vs. golden retriever dynamic between us (you can guess who’s who lol) and how differently we approach these situations. This episode is a bit longer than usual, but lots of great yapping was done🙏