Acharya Christie Bates shares a conversation with kalyana mitta (spiritual friend) and Deep South Dharma co-founder Jaya Judy Seeley. We learn more about Jaya's contemplative life, as well as the decision she and her husband made a couple of years ago to retire to Batesville, MS to more fully express their commitment as lay supporters of the Magnolia Grove Monastery community. Discussion ranges from the spiritual backgrounds of these southern women, to the experience of practice in community, to the temporary but poignant waves of grief we sometimes weather as we make the transition to greater happiness and well-being on the path.