Dear Mama & Magic Makers,

What if we told you there is an elder alive today who has the blueprint for this moment? Mamas & Magic Makers, if you don't do nothing else before the end of the year, sit at the feet of an elder and LISTEN. Keyword LISTEN. Find an elder or make yourself available to one who is willing not only to share their wisdom but also to be vulnerable, sharing their mistakes, regrets, and healing journey.

And this is why we're grateful for our conversation with the brilliant, brave, and vulnerable Loretta Ross, one of the architects of the reproductive justice framework and one of the founders of the reproductive justice movement, about her new book, Abortion & Reproductive Justice: An Essential Guide for Resistance. With sobering honesty, she shares how her personal journey mirrored the evolution of her role in the feminist movement and why, after retiring from the frontline, she's chosen to focus on HOW we do the work.

This is the quietest we have ever been in an episode as Ms. Ross shares:

• Motherhood, aging out of the front lines, and the necessity of matching radical analysis with radical love

• How Black women's care and solidarity have literally kept her alive

• Fear of a Black Planet & how American feminism began with enslaved Black women

• Why we can't afford for fights within movements to be fatal

PLUS, we give a praise report to Vanessa Baden Kelly, who wrote a Black ass episode of The Morning Show that touches on Black Maternal Health and Black women's relationships in the workplace. In our Black Mama Say segment for this episode, where we put our twist on sayings from Black mamas, and the saying we're twisting this episode is "Keep Livin."

ABOUT LORETTA ROSS

Loretta J. Ross is an activist, professor, and public intellectual. In her five decades in the human rights movement, she's deprogrammed white supremacists, taught convicted rapists the principles of feminism, and, as National Co-Director, organized the second-largest march on Washington (in April 25, 2004, March for Women's Lives in Washington D.C., surpassed in size only by the 2017 Women's March).

Loretta was one of the first African American women to direct a rape crisis center in the 1970s, launching her career by pioneering work on violence against women, as the third Executive Director of the D.C. Rape Crisis Center. As part of a 50-year history of social justice activism, she retired from community organizing in 2012. She was the National Coordinator of the SisterSong Women of Color Reproductive Justice Collective from 2005-2012 and co-created the theory of Reproductive Justice in 1994.

Her many accolades and honors include a 2022 MacArthur Fellowship and a 2024 induction into the National Women's Hall of Fame. Today, Ross is an associate professor at Smith College in Northampton, Massachusetts, and is the founder of LoRossta Consulting, with which she runs "Calling In" training sessions online and for organizations around the country.

Loretta is a rape survivor, raised her child born of incest, and is also a survivor of sterilization abuse at age 23. She is a model of how to survive and thrive despite the traumas that disproportionately affect low-income women of color.

Loretta is a mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother.

Connect with Loretta Ross:

• Read Loretta Ross's Latest Book: Abortion & Reproductive Justice: An Essential Guide for Resistance

• Upcoming Events w/ Loretta Ross: Calling In Conversations: Action for Human Rights, Tuesday, December 9, 2025, 7:00 PM 9:00 PM

• Loretta Ross Other Books

• Website | Instagram

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Episode Playlist: Ep 74 Companion Playlist

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🎙️DBM Episode 24 Birthing Freedom w/ Chauntel Norris co-founder & Director of Alabama Prison Project

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Dear Mamas & Magic Makers

What if I told you your child was born a sexual being? What if I told you that when it comes to sex and our children, we should focus on preparation instead of prevention? What if I told you intimacy and pleasure for your child were on the other side of your fear of them making a mistake? What if I told you resting in that fear erases a part of your child's humanity and as Black mamas we MUST provide space for our children's full humanity to be embraced.

Those were the aha moments Kim Baker guided me to, cause ya girl has been struggling to talk to my sons about pleasure and intimacy, and I had real questions like how to support my child who, if they start losing their mind behind sex, cause it's happened to the best of us. So in this episode, we DIVE DEEP into topics around sex education, intimacy, and empowerment with our special guest, Kim Baker, a sexual health educator and founder of Own Every Piece, which works to resolve the inequities women face in their reproductive journey.

We discuss cultivating an open dialogue about sexual health. Kim shares her insights on how parents can navigate these conversations amidst the overwhelming data and misinformation our kids are exposed to.

We dive into:

• Teaching your kids the sign that sex has them in a chokehold cause we know it's happened to the best of us
• Understanding consent and the complexity of preparing our children for healthy relationships
• The importance of intimacy beyond sexuality
• Positive parenting approaches
• The profound impact of early sex education

PLUS - Our LISTENER LOVE EPISODE RECORDING, where we invite our listeners to come on to the podcast, will take place on November 13th. I explain why The Wiz soundtrack was made to carry us through this moment. In our Black Mama Say segment for this episode, where we put our twist on sayings from Black mamas, and the saying we're twisting this episode is "Watch Yo Neck."

ABOUT KIM BAKER

Kim is a woman of many talents and roles—a Principal Investigator, Assistant Professor, and Assistant Dean of Practice. A leader in the sexual health space, she's been a well-known advocate for accessibility and equity. When she's not advocating for reproductive health, she's a leading voice on racial injustice. She is the founder of Own Every Piece, a multi-partner system-level intervention to increase access to contraception for women. She has also developed sexual health interventions informed by community needs, targeting males, faith institutions, and health providers. She is the co-founder of Full Circle Strategies Consulting Group, a firm that works with agencies across the nation to facilitate anti-racism change within their teams through strategic planning, training & coaching. She also serves as the Vice President of the Board of Directors for the Jacob & Terese Hershey Foundation. She received a Bachelor of Science in Biology from Hampton University, a Master of Public Health from the University of Nevada, Las Vegas. From leading teams dedicated to advancing reproductive health to teaching graduate students and training them in public health practice skills, she does everything with grace, a steadfast vision, and fortitude.

When she's not doing all the things, she's helping her kiddos with last-minute pre-K and Elementary school projects or watching the latest episode of Love After Lockup. We love a guilty pleasure.

Connect with Kim Baker: Instagram

Own Every Piece: Instagram | Website

IMPORTANT CHURCH ANNOUNCEMENTS:

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💗Black Mama Magic Card Deck: Card #10 "Lay Your Burdens on the Altar of Love" 💗

Episode Playlist: Ep 73 Companion Playlist

EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:

🎙️DBM Ep 71 Black Keisha, Black Mamas, & Forever

🎙️DBM Ep 72 Back To School & Black Motherhood

🎙️DBM Ep 65 Marriage Hot Topics & Black Motherhood

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To expand knowledge and combat misinformation and disinformation, we create a syllabus (s/o to Melissa Harris-Perry), a list of references/sources for our listeners to dive into. This list includes any books, videos, podcasts, etc. that we've mentioned in the episode or that will help you gain a well-informed perspective. For our complete syllabus, check out our website: demblackmamas.com

Dear Mamas & Magic Makers

What if I told you the collision of declining birth rates in the U.S., the rise of anti-intellectualism, and the rollback of reproductive rights are having a profound impact on your child's potential college experience? How do we help prepare our children for the future when the world we know is crumbling before our eyes? In this episode, we talk with one of our favorite kiki partners and Associate Vice President for Equity & Community Inclusion at San Francisco State, Dr. Frederick Smith, about the changing landscape of higher education, the challenges, and strategies for Black families navigating the college experience for their teens. We discuss the importance of support systems, financial literacy, overcoming barriers like making friends and advocating for oneself, and we explore how the COVID-19 pandemic has impacted students' social skills.

AND MAMAS what you should be thinking about if you're considering returning to college.

We dive into:

• Parental transitions & creating critical thinking opportunities for our children
• Importance of the college experience beyond the classroom
• Anti-intellectualism, mental health & the impact on higher ed
• The number one challenge new college students face

PLUS - Our LISTENER LOVE EPISODE RECORDING, where we invite our listeners to come on to the podcast, will take place on November 13th. In our Black Mama Say segment for this episode, where we put our twist on sayings from Black mamas, and the saying we're twisting this episode is "I Ain't Forgot."

ABOUT DR. FREDERICK SMITH

Dr. Frederick Smith's research and professional interests focus on higher education and include: co-curricular learning experiences; the role of ethnic studies and cultural centers in student identity development and confidence building; campus climate experiences of historically marginalized and minoritized communities; retention and graduation of students of color in higher education; and collaborations between student affairs and academic affairs units for student success. Smith has served twice as president of the California Council of Cultural Centers in Higher Education (CaCCCHE) and he is active with the National Conference on Race and Ethnicity in Higher Education (NCORE).

Outside of higher education, Fred enjoys reading and writing fiction. He's written and published several novels – In Case You Forgot (2019), Play It Forward (2015), Right Side of the Wrong Bed (2009), and Down For Whatever (2005) – that focus on queer people of color characters.

He earned his doctorate in Educational Leadership for Social Justice at Loyola Marymount University.

Connect with Fred Smith: Instagram | Website

IMPORTANT CHURCH ANNOUNCEMENTS:

Listener Love Episode Recording: Thursday, November 13th, 1pmET If you'd like to join us complete this form: https://bit.ly/dbmbeourguest

💗Black Mama Magic Card Deck: Card #22 "My motherhood is rooted in creativity" 💗

Episode Companion Playlist

EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:

🎙️DBM Episode 26 In Case You Forgot with Chad Lamar & Frederick Smth

🎙️DBM Episode 51: When It All Falls Down, Finding Freedom & Transitioning to Conscious Parenting w/ Domari Dickinson

🎙️DBM Ep 61: Joy & Black Motherhood

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Dear Mama,

What if I told you much of the growth our children may need to show up in the ways we're nurturing them to show up comes through falling in love? When we tell our children not to focus on love, are we parenting out of fear? What message does that send to our children about the priority to place on intimate relationships, and what generational impact does that have on our culture? How do we raise children who know how to love?

In this raw and reflective episode, we take a deep dive into the Netflix series 'Forever,' using it as a powerful springboard to unpack the complexities of Black motherhood, teenage love, and generational parenting. We're talking parenting fears, the tightrope between nurturing and protecting our babies, and the real-life challenges that come with raising Black teens in a world that doesn't always love them back. Y'all know us! So honest storytelling, aha moments, and of course, plenty of laughter and love.

We also get into: ✨The roots of catastrophic parenting styles and the fear of raising fuck boys ✨How generational trauma shows up at the dinner table (and in the group chat) ✨Teaching our children vulnerability & letting go ✨Why was Keisha's Daddy so triggering

PLUS - Crystal gives a s/o to Mara Brock Akil for putting text on the screen, NeKisha questions Crystal is good at training real dogs or Ques, and Thea offers advice on how to live like we'll survive this moment in time. In our Black Mama Say segment for this episode, where we put our twist on sayings from Black mamas, and the saying we're twisting this episode is "Let Me Hush Though."

EPISODE PAUSE FOR THE CAUSE:

"Imma keep it 100. I don't raise f*c? boys. I don't wanna raise men who women have to manage." - Crystal Tennille Irby

IMPORTANT CHURCH ANNOUNCEMENTS:

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EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:

🎙️DBM Ep 51 When It All Falls Down, Finding Freedom & Transitioning to Conscious Parenting w/ Domari Dickinson

DBM Ep 71 Companion Playlist

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Dear Mama, What if I told you the saying, "real gs move in silence is killing your dream? What if I told you to tell everyone and anyone you know what you want to do? What if I told you your notes app and Evernote are the keys to the manifestation of your dreams? What if I told you every time we tell our stories, we reclaim what was stolen? Every time we create, we declare: We are still here. These are our takeaways from our conversation with prolific children's book author, Alliah Agostini, who wrote The Juneteenth Story: Celebrating the End of Slavery in the United States & one of my favorite children's books, Great Idea Malia.

In this episode, we explore the intersections of Black motherhood, creativity, community, and freedom. Alliah provides invaluable insights for other Black mama creatives, encouraging them to trust their journey and to navigate the world of storytelling with authenticity and courage. Her experience is a testament to the power of community and culture as a treasure trove of inspiration.

We get real about: ✨Complexities of Black culture ✨The importance of always telling our stories, but especially right now ✨Handling critique and nurturing creativity ✨Building community and managing ideas

PLUS - If you're looking for some hope right now. We got you. In our Black Mama Say segment, where we put our own twist on sayings from Black Mamas, we talk about what's giving us hope while this country is on fire.

ABOUT ALLIAH AGOSTINI

Buffalo, NY native Alliah L. Agostini has marketed everything from iconic brands to scrappy start-ups, but motherhood helped her return to her first love: children's literature. She writes to spread joy, truth, and to help more children see themselves reflected on the page. Alliah is the author of 10 books for children including Junior Library Guild Selection BIG TUNE: Rise of the Dancehall Prince (starred reviews, Kirkus and Publisher's Weekly, NYPL and Chicago Public Library Best Picture Book of 2023), Black KidLit Award-winning The Juneteenth Story: Celebrating the End of Slavery in the United States, Great Idea Malia, and recently released Scarecited on the First Day of School. She and her work have been featured on Oprah Daily, Essence.com, TODAY with Hoda + Jenna, Morning in America, Good Housekeeping, CNN, and NPR.

Connect with Alliah: Instagram | Website

IMPORTANT CHURCH ANNOUNCEMENTS:

Collection Plate Cause: Learn more about & donate to Creators Well, a nonprofit founded by Crystal for Black girls living in South Carolina intersted in writing and performance.

💗Black Mama Magic Card Deck: Card #19 "I Honor My Child's Divine Path" 💗

Episode Playlist: Black Mama Creatives Episode Playlist

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To expand knowledge and combat misinformation and disinformation, we create a syllabus (s/o to Melissa Harris Perry), a list of references/sources for our listeners to dive into. This list includes any books, videos, podcasts, etc. that we've mentioned in the episode or that will help you gain a well-informed perspective. For our complete syllabus, check out our website: demblackmamas.com

Dear Mama,

What if I told you your mess tells a story, and your clutter can block your clarity? What if I told you to reframe cleaning as a way to express gratitude, practice self-care, and create a sacred space where your spirit can operate effortlessly and creativity flows freely? What have you put down that you need to put away? What items are you holding onto that no longer serve you? These are the questions our guest professional organizer, Kendra Littlejohn of Organized by Kendra, brought to the forefront. In this episode, she gently stepped on our toes and helped us reframe our approach to organizing our creative space. We dive into:

✨Accepting and honoring the season you're in ✨Clarity and how Mamas can reclaim or create space for themselves ✨And the plot twist we didn't know we needed, how reducing laundry ✨PLUS Kendra is offering a free, yes FREE Virtual Space Audit to the first three people to sign up & use the code: demblackmamas

ABOUT KENDRA

Kendra Littlejohn is the founder and Chief Organizing Officer at Organized by Kendra, a premier home organizing and styling firm based in Southaven, MS, and serving the greater Memphis metropolitan area, and beyond. With her background in corporate finance experience, Kendra brings a unique blend of business acumen, creativity, and passion for helping ambitious professionals, entrepreneurs, and creatives cancel clutter, optimize space, and create systems that seamlessly balance aesthetics with practicality. Being laid off after 20+ years in corporate finance became the catalyst for Kendra to lean into what had always come naturally—turning disorganized spaces into peaceful, functional environments. Since launching OK, Kendra's insights have been spotlighted in prominent publications like ESSENCE, REAL SIMPLE, and SOUTHERN LIVING. Kendra specializes in customized organizing solutions that create ease and enhance both function and beauty.

Connect with Kendra Littlejohn: Instagram | Website

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EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:

🎙️DBM Ep 68 All About Annie, Sinners and Black Motherhood

🎙️DBM Black Mama Creative Episode Playlist

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🗣️Engage: This is a conversation. Speak back to us! Please share your thoughts about the episode using the hashtag #DemBlackMamas, DM us, or email us at [email protected].

To expand knowledge and combat misinformation and disinformation, we create a syllabus (s/o to Melissa Harris Perry), a list of references/sources for our listeners to dive into. This list includes any books, videos, podcasts, etc. that we've mentioned in the episode or that will help you gain a well-informed perspective. For our complete syllabus, check out our website: demblackmamas.com

Dear Mamas & Magic Makers,

Lissen yall Sinners was all about Annie for us! We ain't gon hold you with our normal intro.

In this episode we dive into:

• Annie, power, and Black motherhood
• Loss, longing, and sex
• Black humanity, spirituality, and grief in Ryan Coogler's films
• Black migration & the resurgence of Southern Roots

PLUS - we have social proof that a Black mama would have made a COMPLETELY different decision than Grace.

And we're excited to have some listeners on The Muthaship, live inside the Black Mama Magic room for this episode. We welcome:

• Clem the Doula, doula and creator of The Gift: A Breastfeeding Journey in Black, a cultural care circle for Black families navigating feeding, healing and identity.
• Stacey Allen, founder of Nia's Daughters' Dance Collective
• Stephanie Ghoston Paul, founder of Cultivated Sense, where she helps movement makers embody their joy while operating as their freest selves.

💗Black Mama Magic Card Deck: Card #4 "Take Up Space Boo" 💗

Episode Playlist: All About Annie, Sinners & Black Motherhood Companion Playlist

IMPORTANT CHURCH ANNOUNCEMENTS:

• Black Mama Creative Week: June 24th - June 30th
• One-on-One Joy Immersion Sessions with Thea Monyee
• In an effort to expand knowledge and combat misinformation and disinformation, we create a syllabus (s/o to Melissa Harris Perry) which is a list of references/sources for our listeners to dive into. This list includes any books, videos, podcasts, etc. that we've mentioned in the episode or that will help you gain a well-informed perspective. For our full syllabus, check out our website: demblackmamas.com

EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:

🎙️DBM Ep 61 - Joy and Black Motherhood

🎙️DBM Ep 62 Grief and Black Motherhood

✨PATREON BONUS CONTENT - Pre-Show Shenanigans✨

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Dear Mama, What if I told you Black mamas aren't superheroes, that the cape is choking us, and our backs are brittle? What if I told you motherhood ain't killing us, though, but the narratives we buy into hook, line, and sinker are? What if you had the option not to be the primary custodial parent? Would you decline out of obligation to the belief that a good Black mama would never choose to leave their children in the care of others, even the other parent? How does a Black mother respond when what's best for her or her destiny clashes with cultural norms?

In this Mother's Day episode, we speak with Erica Michelle Freeman of Sisters In Loss Podcast about the complexities and challenges of non-custodial parenting and Black motherhood. When Erica and her husband decided to divorce, they also agreed to shared custody. Each parent would have primary custody for 3 years of their son Maxwell who was diagnosed with spastic quadriplegic cerebral palsy 10 years ago.

We dive into: ✨Confronting societal norms and cultural stigmas ✨Navigating health and care decisions for children with special needs as a noncustodial parent ✨Historical trauma and Black motherhood ✨Renegotiating Black motherhood

PLUS - Crystal and perimenopause are NOT friends, especially under the current administration, and Thea is in search of Jill Stein. In our Black Mama Say segment for this episode, where we put our twist on sayings from Black mamas, and the saying we're twisting this episode is "Oh, you got time for dat."

ABOUT ERICA M. FREEMAN

Erica M. Freeman is the Founder and CEO of Sisters in Loss, is a savvy, creative engineer, known for her results-based, no-fluff approach as a podcaster, grief educator, and motivational speaker. Sisters in Loss provides pregnancy, birth, postpartum, bereavement doula, and grief services to help women step beyond anxiety and fear and into trust and peace after loss. Its self-titled award-winning podcast spotlights resilient Black mothers who share intimate details of their journey to motherhood through painful, but inspirational loss and infertility stories. Sisters in Loss has been featured in Forbes, BBC News, Black Enterprise, Women's Health, The Today Show, NBC Nightly News, and The White House.

Connect with Erica M. Freeman: Instagram | Website

IMPORTANT CHURCH ANNOUNCEMENTS:

• Black Mama Creative Week: June 24th - June 30th Sign Up for our email list for details.

💗Black Mama Magic Card Deck: Card #8 "Share Your Inspiration" 💗

Episode Playlist: Black Mama Magic Playlist

EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:

🎙️DBM Ep 56: Menopause, Black Women & Spiritual Ritual with Omisade Burney Scott

🎙️DBM Ep 33: Haitian American Mama w/ Stepha LaFond

✨PATREON BONUS CONTENT - Pre-Show Shenanigans✨

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🗣️Engage: This is a conversation. Speak back to us! Please share your thoughts about the episode using the hashtag #DemBlackMamas, DM us, or email us at [email protected].

To expand knowledge and combat misinformation and disinformation, we create a syllabus (s/o to Melissa Harris Perry), a list of references/sources for our listeners to dive into. This list includes any books, videos, podcasts, etc. that we've mentioned in the episode or that will help you gain a well-informed perspective. For our complete syllabus, check out our website: demblackmamas.com

Dear Mama,

How do we resist the urge to rescue when we've been taught our whole lives to be saviors? How do we set boundaries when the world is burning? What do we do when we've been deemed the backbone of the community, but our backbones are brittle and breaking? Since the election, these are the questions and conversations black women have been having online and, especially, in group chats. So, we decided to explore what this line in the sand means for Black mothers in the midst of state-sanctioned brutality.

In this episode, Thea and I explore the parallels between domestic violence relationships and Black mothers' relationship with America.

We dive into:

✨Why it's more important than ever that Black mothers set boundaries

✨The role cultural coping plays in Black mothers ignoring their needs

✨Vulnerability & why Black mothers feel we must do it all

✨What Stevie Wonder songs reflect this moment

PLUS - Thea shares a testimony about getting a new mattress, and I'm excited to share the details of our next virtual event, Down By the Riverside, during our Church Announcements, Praise Reports, and Prayer List Requests segment. In our Black Mama Say segment for this episode, where we put our own twist on sayings from Black mamas, we do something a little different this time. Instead of a Black Mama Say, we're choosing theme songs to carry us through this moment.

IMPORTANT CHURCH ANNOUNCEMENTS:

• Black Maternal Health 2025 kicks off on April 11th
• REGISTER NOW for Down By the Riverside Sunday, April 13th, noonPT/3pm ET. Space is limited.
• To expand knowledge and combat misinformation and disinformation, we create a syllabus for each episode (s/o to Melissa Harris-Perry), a list of references/sources for our listeners to dive into. This list includes any books, videos, podcasts, etc., that we've mentioned in the episode or that will help you gain a well-informed perspective. For our full syllabus, check out our website: demblackmamas.com

💗Black Mama Magic Card Deck: Card #21 "My Motherhood Is Rooted In Liberation" 💗

Episode Playlist: The 92%, Boundaries & Black Motherhood Companion Playlist

EPISODES MENTIONED/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:

🎙️DBM Ep 61 Grief and Black Motherhood

🎙️DBM Ep 54: Birth Justice, Liberation & the Power of Black Midwives w/ Jamarah Amani & K.Sanderson

✨PATREON BONUS CONTENT - Pre-Show Shenanigans✨

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Dear Mama,

What do Telvin Osborne, Black marriage, generational wealth, Altadena, data as currency, the TV show Paradise, and white women in Idaho have in common? We cover them all in this episode. Yup, it's hot topics, and we got hot takes well, not hot takes. We got Black Mama takes on all the above. In this episode, we talk:

✨How Telvin Osborne is relevant to Black women resting ✨The real problem when it comes to marriage & Black folx ✨Why Paradise gets kudos & white women in Idaho don't

PLUS - we talk all things Black Maternal Health, Roberta Flack, Thea taking on individual clients, and I share a big praise report regarding my nonprofit Creators Well during our Church announcements, praise reports, and prayer list requests segment. In our Black Mama Say segment for this episode, where we put our twist on sayings from Black mamas and the saying we're twisting this episode is "Let me put it to you like this."

💗Black Mama Magic Deck Card: Card #25 "Motherhood Is Not the Graveyard of Dreams" 💗

Donate to Creators Well. Founded by Crystal Tennille Irby, Creators Well is a series of FREE interactive writing retreats and writing and performance classes for Black girls/ femmes/ non-binary/gender-expansive youth ages 12-21 that teaches and affirms the power of their voices, pen, art, and individuality.

Thea Monyee, aka the Secretary of Joy, has nine spots available for one-on-one joy exploration and three spots for couples. Contact Thea for more details.

EPISODES MENTIONED/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:

🎙️DBM Ep 61 Joy and Black Motherhood 🎙️DBM Ep 54: Birth Justice, Liberation & the Power of Black Midwives w/ Jamarah Amani & K.Sanderson

✨PATREON BONUS CONTENT - Pre-Show Shenanigans✨

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For all links, full show notes & transcript, check out our website: demblackmamas.com