He who hates, disguises it with his lips, and lays up deceit within himself; when he speaks kindly, do not believe him, for there are seven abominations in his heart; though his hatred is covered by deceit, his wickedness will be revealed before the assembly. (Proverbs 26:24-26)
Sometimes we read or watch in the news certain hate crimes committed against certain group of people. We are appalled by these displays of hatred, often find them beyond comprehension.
Hate crimes or the display of hatred did not happen overnight. Hatred found its way into man’s hearts by way of offences, hurts, injustice, oppression, betrayal, rejection and loss. Responses to all these, and more, that belittle our self-worth, identity, deprive us of what is rightfully ours, rob us of dignity and destroy our dreams and hope, could have easily come from the flesh. Anger, revenge and aggression harboured in the hearts, makes fertile soil for hatred to take root and grow. The Proverbs writer rightly warned us that hatred opens the door to errors, entertains lies from the enemy, aim at destruction, not just the one who hates, but all those around him. The heart becomes deceitful once hatred is allowed to dwell. Hatred infiltrates into the soul of the hater, and modifies rationale, emotional responses, decision making. Fed by the carnal nature of the flesh, it brews wickedness and schemes evil. Hatred leads to evil.
When evil muddles the heart, it is filled with abominations. The way to overcome evil is with good (Romans 12:21) “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” That decision to choose good must come right at the onset of responding to offences, hurts, injustice, oppression, betrayal, rejection and loss. Nib it at the bud, as we say. Then, hatred would have no conducive seedbed to grow.
What if we failed to overcome evil intent and captured by hatred? The antidote is love, God’s love. Let love be genuine. Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good.(Romans 12:9). This genuine love is from God, who Himself is love (1 John 4:8). God’s love can be experienced and received only when the Holy Spirit pours it into our hearts. “because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us.” (Romans 5:5b).
Love heals. Love overcomes hate. Love frees us from the tyranny of hate. Love leads us to trust in the Loving God who will avenge the wrongs we suffer.
Invite the Holy Spirit to examine your heart. Acknowledge every hidden hatred, resentment, unforgiveness, bitterness, anger etc., ask for God’s forgiveness. Choose to forgive those who have caused your pain. Take time to say it out to the Lord: “Lord, I choose to forgive (names of person)…”
Reject every evil thought. Ask the Lord to heal you from the wounding of the past (maybe even as recent as yesterday). Refuse to let evil finds a spot in your heart.