Desperately Seeking Senior Living

By Valerie Lynn Borgman

Desperately Seeking Senior living is for all the sons, daughters, grandkids, spouses and ALL caregivers who suddenly find themselves tangled in the search for senior living and care. Join us for Doabl... more

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The podcast currently has 162 episodes available.

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August 04, 2025 EP 160 Missouri Senior Living & Care Options with Guest Erin Dwyer
In this episode, we explore senior living in Missouri with Erin Dwyer of Senior Care Authority, who shares her vast knowledge of the state’s senior care options, including the challenges families face when funds run low. We discuss the financial limitations of Medicaid in Missouri, the differences between assisted living and skilled nursing, and how planning ahead can help families make the best decisions. Erin also sheds light on the work being done to pass the Family Choice Act, which aims to give families more control and transparency in their care decisions. Plus, we dive into the complexities of online lead aggregators and how they can complicate the search for the right care.
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July 07, 2025 EP 159 Colorado Senior Living & Care with Guest Jan Peterson
If you're exploring senior living options in Colorado—or even just wondering what makes this state different—we've got you covered. In this episode, I’m joined by Jan Peterson, a Certified Senior Advisor and founder of Blossoms Senior Placement in Denver. With deep roots in Colorado and years of hands-on experience, Jan walks us through the wide variety of care types available—from senior living communities to memory care and private care homes. We dig into pricing, Medicaid, PACE programs, and how Colorado supports families at every income level. You'll hear tips on finding the right fit, what questions to ask, and how to avoid surprises—plus why Jan says her city is a hidden gem when it comes to healthcare and aging support. Whether you're a family caregiver or just planning ahead, this episode makes it doable!
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Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY!
We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live!
www.clearpathsls.com
Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show?
Guest Application
Email us at [email protected] with your senior living questions.
www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com
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June 02, 2025 EP 158 The Senior Living Amenities Trap: Are You Falling for It?
It’s easy to get swept up in the shiny stuff—movie theaters, cafés, even tanning beds! And honestly? There’s nothing wrong with loving those features. But when it comes to choosing a senior living community, your expectations (and theirs) need to align. In this episode, we explore how to tell the difference between what you love and what your loved one will actually use, how to spot red flags, great questions to ask yourself and the community and why the vibe of a community beats the bells and whistles every time!
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Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY!
We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live!
www.clearpathsls.com
Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show?
Guest Application
Email us at [email protected] with your senior living questions.
www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com
Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣
Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode!
THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!!
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May 05, 2025 EP 157 Florida Senior Living & Care with Guest Carline Cadet Francois
When you're sandwiched between raising kids and caring for aging parents, the stress can feel overwhelming—especially in a state like Florida, where senior living options are vast but complex. In this episode, I’m joined by Carline Cadet Francois @FloridaALFConsulting, a dynamic healthcare entrepreneur and visionary leader in Florida’s senior care scene. As the founder of Florida Assisted Living Consulting (FALC), Carline has become a trusted resource for ALF owners, caregivers, and senior care professionals across the state. We explore everything from in-home care and assisted living to respite options, adult family care homes, and Medicaid. Carline brings both compassion and clarity—reminding us that support might be just around the corner, and that you don’t have to do this alone.
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Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY!
We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live!
www.clearpathsls.com
Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show?
Guest Application
Email us at [email protected] with your senior living questions.
www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com
Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣
Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode!
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April 07, 2025 EP 156 Hospice, Dementia, Dying and Games to Spark the Conversation with Guest Lisa Pahl
Let’s be real—no one’s excited to talk about death or senior living, but waiting until there’s a crisis just makes it harder. In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, Lisa Pahl and I peel back the layers of fear, guilt, and denial that so often block these conversations. With humor, honesty, and a whole lot of insight, we explore creative tools like The Death Deck, the emotional realities of caregiving, and how just starting the conversation (even at game night!) can empower families to plan with love—not panic. If you’ve ever felt stuck on how to talk about the end, this episode is your gentle nudge forward.
Lisa Pahl, LCSW and Hospice & Emergency Medicine Social Worker @thedeathdeck
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Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY!
We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live!
www.clearpathsls.com
Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show?
Guest Application
Email us at [email protected] with your senior living questions.
www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com
Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣
Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode!
THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!!
@desperatetodoable
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March 03, 2025EP 155 Why Do Memory Care Communities Have a Bad Reputation? Is This Just How Dementia Looks? How to Tell & How to Advocate.
Memory care can feel overwhelming—especially when you’ve heard horror stories or toured a community that didn’t feel right. But not all memory care communities are the same, and knowing what to look for can make all the difference. In this episode, I answer Jan’s question: Why do I hear so many bad things about memory care? I share real-life stories, common concerns, and most importantly—how to advocate for your loved one.
We talk about creative care solutions, how to spot red flags, and why staff training is critical. You’ll learn what questions to ask, when to trust your gut, and when it might be time to walk away. Dementia care is challenging, but with the right knowledge, you can find a community that truly supports your loved one’s dignity and well-being.
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Episode 62 – What a memory care community is like
Episode 68 – Who to take your complaints to in a community setting
Episode 99 – How to choose the right community
Episode 110 – Tips for choosing a memory care community with Leslie Fuller of Inspired Senior Care
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Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY!
We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live!
www.clearpathsls.com
Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show?
Guest Application
Email us at [email protected] with your questions about senior living.
www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com
Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣
Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode!
THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!!
@desperatetodoable
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February 03, 2025 EP 154 Guest Hospice Nurse Penny on Hospice & Prayer, Cultural Traditions, Misconceptions, Family Dynamics & Advanced Planning
I’m so excited to welcome Hospice Nurse Penny back to the show! In this episode we're talking about her new book Influencing Death: Reframing Dying for Better Living.
In this episode, we discuss:
11:19 Advanced Planning
15:00 Cultural Traditions & Prayer
29:05 Misconceptions About Hospice
41:53 Advocating for Hospice
44:01 Hospice & Humor
And so much more!!!
Did you miss my previous interview with Penny? Check out EP 145 for more from Hospice Nurse Penny!
Penny Hawkins Smith aka Hospice Nurse Penny is a nationally certified hospice & palliative care registered nurse with over 18 years of experience. As a social media influencer on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook and through her new book Influencing Death, Penny is working to dispel the mysteries and myths around dying and the stigma of hospice. @hospicenursepenny
CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES
Follow us on INSTAGRAM for more doable tips!
Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY!
We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live!
www.clearpathsls.com
Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show?
Email us at [email protected]
www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com
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www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com
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January 06, 2025 EP 153 Are Assisted Living and Dementia Care Communities Safe?
All assisted living and dementia care communities have to be safe...right?
In this episode, Valerie Lynn walks you through everything you need to know about evaluating safety in senior living—from essential physical features like fall prevention and security systems to medical care and emotional well-being because senior living communities are NOT created equal. With real-life stories and practical tips, you'll learn what questions to ask, what red flags to watch for, and how to trust your instincts to make the best decision. Whether you're starting your search or actively touring communities, this episode will empower you with the tools and confidence to find a place where your loved one can not only stay safe but truly thrive. Listen in... because this episode could help you go from desperate to doable!
00:09 - SAFETY FEATURES TO LOOK FOR
06:21 - A Family Decides Their Dad Needs a Memory Care or Assisted Living
10:30 - Physical Safety
20:23 - Emotional Safety
21:43 - State Reports & Inspections
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Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY!
We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live!
www.clearpathsls.com
Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show?
Email us at [email protected]
www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com
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www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com
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December 23, 2024 EP 152 Why Any Holiday is the Perfect Time to Talk Senior Living
Many families share that being home for the holidays prompted siblings and other family members to finally see what they were seeing all along. Mom might need more help. The holidays bring families together, making it the ideal time to start conversations about senior living. In this episode, I share why any holiday is perfect for these discussions, practical tips for approaching the topic with care, and strategies for making it a collaborative effort. From recognizing the signs of needed support to showcasing what senior living has to offer, this episode equips you with tools to navigate this journey with compassion and confidence. Listen in... because this episode could help you go from desperate to doable!
CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES
Follow us on INSTAGRAM and YouTube for more doable tips!
Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY!
We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live!
www.clearpathsls.com
Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show?
Email us at [email protected]
www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com
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Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣
Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode!
THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!!
www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com
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December 09, 2024 EP 151 Family Talk with Guest Ginni Ryan: Hospice, Family Dynamics, Guardianship & Self Care
I was so excited to welcome back Ginni Ryan, who worked in the senior living industry has for over 25 years. She is currently with Revel Communities. We had such a great conversation in my previous episode, about making that move to an independent living community and how difficult the decision can be, but also all the benefits of making the move. It’s a really great episode so be sure to check it out if you haven’t already. This was one of those interviews that ended up being an interview inside an interview and that was because Ginni started sharing her own personal experiences with her parents, her in-laws and those family dynamics. I knew immediately that I had to have a separate family talk episode with Ginni. We’re talking hospice, family dynamics, denial, Dementia, guardianship and self-care. Don't miss this episode!
03:13 - Hospice
05:59 - Family Dynamics
17:00 - Dementia Moving - Packing & Navigating the Airport
19:13 - Dementia & Denial
20:08 - Guardianship
CLICK HERE for our DOABLE DOWNLOAD with FULL SHOW NOTES
Follow us on INSTAGRAM and YouTube for more doable tips!
Need help finding senior living or care? BECOME A CLIENT TODAY!
We can help with your search for senior living & care wherever you live!
www.clearpathsls.com
Would you like to share your story and be a guest on our show?
Email us at [email protected]
www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com
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Hit subscribe ✅ and spread the word! 📣
Listen wherever you listen to podcasts! Don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode!
THANK YOU for listening in 🎧commenting, liking 👍, telling others 📣about the show!!
www.desperatelyseekingseniorliving.com
@desperatetodoable
#desperatetodoable
...more
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FAQs about Desperately Seeking Senior Living:

How many episodes does Desperately Seeking Senior Living have?

The podcast currently has 162 episodes available.