Detours

How do you usually begin your prayers?

For many of us, prayer starts with requests—needs, worries, burdens, and long lists of things we hope God will do. And while God absolutely invites us to bring those things to Him, the early church showed us a different starting point.

In Acts of the Apostles 4:24, after being threatened by the Sanhedrin, the believers gathered together to pray. But before they asked for protection… before they asked for boldness… they began with worship:

“Sovereign Lord, you made the heavens and the earth and the sea, and everything in them.”

In this episode of Detours, we explore why adoration is such a powerful starting place for prayer and how beginning with worship can completely shift our perspective. You’ll also be introduced to the simple and helpful ACTS model of prayer—Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, and Supplication—not as a rigid formula, but as a gentle guide to deepen your conversations with God.

Whether your prayers feel rushed, repetitive, or uncertain, this episode offers encouragement and practical reflection to help you slow down, lift your eyes, and remember who you’re speaking to.

Because sometimes the most powerful change in prayer happens before we ask.

To avoid the "disappointed wife look", here's Deb's devo we based our episode on: https://docs.google.com/document/d/11f60uJNoRDVvfJWnx9NutwZcLscUPWvw1dmdAaNVaMo/edit?usp=sharing

What does it mean to say that God chose humility?

In The Humility of God, we examine one of the most uncomfortable images in Scripture: the worm. Drawing from Psalm 22, Isaiah 66, and Jesus’ own words in Mark 9, this episode explores how the Bible uses an image of weakness, decay, and insignificance to reveal something shocking about God’s character.

We look closely at the crimson (coccus) worm—a tiny creature whose life cycle involves self-giving, suffering, and a blood-red stain—and why ancient readers would have immediately understood its symbolic weight. Far from being accidental or grotesque, this imagery points to a God who does not cling to power, but willingly lowers Himself for the sake of others.

This episode invites us to reconsider greatness, strength, and glory—not as domination or distance, but as sacrificial love. The humility of God is not a contradiction. It is the revelation.

In this episode, we explore the tension between ambition and calling and why confusing the two can lead to burnout, frustration, and misplaced identity. Is ambition inherently bad, or can it coexist with a God-given calling? How do you discern whether you are pursuing something because it fuels your ego or because it aligns with God’s purpose for your life?

We unpack the differences between personal ambition and spiritual calling, how culture often rewards achievement over obedience, and the subtle ways ambition can masquerade as faith. This conversation dives into biblical perspective, practical self-reflection, and real-life examples to help you evaluate your motivations and realign your pursuits with what truly matters.

If you’ve ever wrestled with questions about purpose, success, career, ministry, or direction, this episode will challenge you to slow down, listen closely, and ask whether you are chasing what you want or responding to what God is calling you to do.

In this episode of Detours, we sit down with some in Gen Z for an honest, eye-opening conversation about faith, doubt, purpose, and what following Jesus looks like in today’s world. Her questions are bold, their perspectives are refreshing, and their desire for authenticity challenges all of us to think differently about how we engage the next generation.

Whether you’re a parent, a pastor, a young adult, or simply someone who wants to understand the heart of Gen Z, this episode offers a candid look at what matters most to them—and what the Church can learn when we stop talking at them and start listening to them. Join us for a conversation full of honesty, hope, and the reminder that God is moving in every generation.

Singleness is often treated like an in-between stage—something to rush through or “fix.” But what if God sees this season as a place for deep purpose, growth, and joy? In this episode of Detours, we explore what it truly means to thrive as a single Christian. We’ll talk about identity, calling, community, and the lies culture tells us about worth and relationships. Whether you’re happily single, struggling with loneliness, or simply trying to make sense of this chapter of your life, this conversation will remind you that you are not waiting to become whole—you already are. With God, singleness isn’t a setback; it’s a sacred opportunity.

The holidays promise joy, celebration, and togetherness… but for many, they also bring tension, unresolved conflict, and emotional landmines. In this episode of Detours, we take an honest look at what it means to navigate family dysfunction during the most “wonderful” time of the year.

We’ll explore why old patterns resurface, how to set healthy boundaries without guilt, and protecting our peace. With practical strategies, this conversation equips you to enter the holiday season with clarity, grace, and emotional resilience.

Whether your family gatherings leave you drained, anxious, or simply overwhelmed, this episode offers hope and tools to not just survive—but find meaning and strength in the midst of the chaos.

Making a career change at 40 can feel overwhelming—filled with doubts, fears, and questions about purpose. In this episode of Detours, we explore what it means to trust God when He leads you down an unexpected path later in life. Whether you’re thinking about a new direction or already in the middle of a major transition, we’ll talk about how to navigate uncertainty, listen for God’s voice, and find courage in the calling He places on your heart. This conversation is for anyone who feels stuck, restless, or unsure of what’s next—and needs a reminder that with God, it’s never too late to begin again.

In this episode of Detours, we explore how a thankful heart can transform the way we see God, ourselves, and the world around us. Gratitude isn’t just a polite response or a seasonal practice—it’s a powerful spiritual posture that brings clarity, peace, and joy, even in life’s hardest moments.

We’ll look at why Scripture calls us to “give thanks in all circumstances,” how gratitude reorients our hearts toward God’s goodness, and the practical ways a thankful spirit can reshape our thoughts, relationships, and daily rhythms. Whether you’re walking through a season of blessing or battling discouragement, a thankful heart can open the door to deeper peace and renewed trust.

Join us as we discover how cultivating gratitude can change your perspective, strengthen your faith, and help you experience God’s presence more fully in every detour of life.

In this episode of Detours, we take a closer look at what might be quietly destroying our relationships — the way we talk (and don’t talk) to each other. From topping other people’s stories to scrolling on a phone while someone’s sharing their heart, these small habits send a loud message: you don’t matter. We’ll explore how true friendship isn’t about fixing or advising, but about showing up, listening well, and making people feel seen.

If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation feeling unheard — or worried you’ve made someone else feel that way — this one’s for you.

What does it mean to truly walk beside someone in their faith journey? In this episode, we explore the call to Christian mentorship—why it matters, how it reflects the example of Jesus, and the legacy it leaves behind. We’ll look at biblical models of mentorship, the qualities that make a godly mentor, and practical steps you can take to pour into others. Whether you feel “qualified” or not, God can use your story to impact lives for His kingdom. Join us as we ask challenging questions, share encouragement, and invite you to step into the role of a mentor who multiplies disciples.