In this episode, we go into how we struggle with time as dads. What kind of commitments we make, how they serve us and how we ultimately choose. Apart from that, it's also full of random dad chat and an invasion from Neils kids lol

In this episode, we explore how having kids changes the way you think. The decisions you make in your twenties can be so much freer and even wasteful. As a dad, there's a clear choice. You either spend your time with your kids and partner or you don't. When you don't it better be worth it.

In this episode, we discuss what our retirement looks like. What do we dream about it and what are we practically doing to get there? We also discuss a number of other aspects of dad life with Olivia taking her first steps and Neil managing to party until 1 am.

In this episode we discover Neil manage to save BrewDog James's life. Well not quite but he certainly helped him when he had a pretty awful accident. We also run through a bunch of random dad chats we have been thinking about recently. From never setting goals to the crazy thing that is Tik Tok and how it compares to YouTube.

In this episode we discuss whether or not we are ok putting our kids out on the internet. From the risks to the benefits. We even stretch into the idea that kids in the future might end up sueing their parents.

In this episode, we explore how we've assessed risk before kids vs now having a family. Looking at things like buying your first house, living with more pressure and tips for breaking things down.

In this episode we explore the first year as a dad. Olivia (Gordon's daughter) has turned 1 so we go through how things have been. From intial shock through to stuff we've prioritised in the first year.

In this episode we explore mental health. After Paddy 'the baddy' Pimblett heart warming speech following his UFC win about his friend committing suicide. Mental health is something we've both never knowingly suffered with. That being said we go into our history with mental health and when we, perhaps have suffered with our own mental health. From Neil going from 1 to 3 kids in one swoop and how Gordon has had some pretty tough lows.

In this episode we discuss Neils journey losing his job in 2013 after the oil crash in Aberdeen. From having 30-days to figure out what he was going to do to what it feels like being a dad and facing this kind of adversity.

In this episode we explore what we think our current purpose is, how we've defined it and what we are doing to work toward it. We also try to help understand how purpose has changed throughout our lives from unencumbered 20 somethings to now dads.