Is you, or is you ain’t my baby? A simple question to answer if your relationship is clearly defined. But, hey, what do a bunch of Middle Schoolers know about relationships? He may go around telling other boys to stop bothering you because you belong to him, but to you he’s just a friend. 

Do you or don’t you take advantage of the opportunities presented to you? Chances to do things come few and far between, especially when you’re a teen. So when given that “lucky” break what would you do?  

At what age do you learn to handle a break up, the "right" way? Well it's definitely not in Middle School. Broken hearts and broken friendships, it's apparently very hard to keep things together when you're a young teen.

After Christmas break, middle school hallways turn into runways, as students show off the gifts they got. My talent is my creativity, and it shines brighter than anything they got under their trees. And his surprise to me? Learning my name. It only took him till 8th grade to find it out.

Letter writing is an art. Boys always wanted letters, but rarely wrote back. And just what were they doing with all of those perfectly crafted, well thought out letters I wrote to them?

"And now it's time for the break down." Try and try as some boys might, they just don't have what it takes to get in the draws. He was looking to bone, and I was looking for a way to get out of it. Going over to his house probably wasn't the right way to convey that message.

How many times were you invited over a boys house as a teen, with them expecting for something to happen? Yet it never did. Definitely not by his choice, but hey your have the right to change your mind.

Before the term “Spin The Block” was a thing, middle school boys of the 90s were participating in the practice. If given the opportunity would you give an ex the chance to come back? How hard would you question the reasons for their return?  

Best friends are hard to come by, so if you find one that is your best, hold on to them. And if there is a new one that you want to be down with, chase him until he notices you. Find out if you’re the kinda girl he could be down for, then make your move. 

Losing your virginity is suppose to be special… but sometimes it’s just about knocking’ boots and getting it over with. The boy craziness of 7th grade wraps up, and I go into the summer before 8th grade de-virginized and with my eyes set on some new prospects.