It's also not about testing your partner's  love for you or doing something in order to analyze their  reaction. These type of "tests" may actually be manipulative and they can lead to toxicity in your relationship over time.

The way we often carefully select a job, a house or process a business proposal should be the exact way we search for and acquire peace. You need to validate yourself FIRST before anyone else can validate you. You must prioritize your happiness, peace and sanity above everything else. Do not seek approval of anyone to start anything. Just do it because it's for you and YOU'RE AMAZINGLY ALL THAT!

.... Often times, women put themselves in situations they can't get themselves out of, for the sake of dating. Dating is not marriage, hence it needs to be handled with a lot of caution to avoid long term suffering. We make messiahs out of men that might not stay in our lives permanently, and when they leave... IT REALLY HURTS.

Look at your filled out relationship application form. Do you like what it says? Or wait, you don't have a form? Please get one.

Soulmates don't drop out of the sky. They are people that had always been with you since the beginning, you just missed the signs.

If you think your partner is mature enough to handle such details, do it at your own risk. If you are unsure, it is not advisable to divulge information that does not grow your Relationship. " What you don't know can't kill you.

What kind of person are you building your life with? Here, i discussed some fractions to how to prevent an abusive spouse.

Decided to feature an old friend because i was excited, not only to have being able to reconnect with him but also to hear from a male (his experience with cheating). **There are two sides to every story**

Learn about yourselves. Improve communication skills and Forgive each other.

For love to last and blossom in a marriage, it requires a lot of work, just like a rose garden.