Direct Well-Being Podcast

Direct Well-Being Podcast

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Direct Well-Being Podcast episodes

  • Why Resilience Training Isn’t Working: And What Actually Works | Ep4

    Many physicians enter medicine as a calling, only to face barriers that lead to burnout and moral injury.

     In this powerful conversation, Dr. Anders Apgar reconnects with longtime colleague Dr. Ridgley Salter, who shares his personal burnout journey and how it led him to lead WellSpan Health’s comprehensive well-being program.

    Together they explore the evolution from individual “resilience training” to organizational well-being, why even the most resilient physicians still burn out, the impact of moral injury and second victim experiences, and how systems can support clinicians through peer programs and job crafting. This episode offers hope, data, and actionable strategies for physicians, leaders, and organizations committed to sustainable practice and rediscovering joy in medicine.

    Episode Highlights:

    • Why resilience alone is insufficient, even the most resilient physicians still experience 29% burnout
    • Dr. Salter’s personal burnout story and the moment he told his son not to go into primary care
    • Moving from “resilient individuals” to “resilient organizations”
    • How financial and systemic pressures contribute to moral injury in healthcare
    • The power of peer support programs and psychological first aid after adverse events
    • Second victim syndrome and why physicians need colleague-to-colleague processing
    • Job crafting: Why spending 20% of your time on meaningful work dramatically reduces burnout
    • Practical well-being practices: “Vitamin G” (gratitude), Three Good Things, and family rituals
    • Hedonia, the comfort and efficiency of life's pleasures, paired with Eudaimonia, the profound sense of meaning and purpose, together create the ultimate blend for holistic well-being 
    • About the Show:

      Direct Well-Being is hosted by Dr. Anders Apgar, MD, FACOG, M.S., An Ob/Gyn physician leader and nationally recognized voice in clinician well-being. The show is a trusted, peer-driven space for honest conversations about what actually supports physicians, beyond resilience training and surface-level wellness.

      Each week, Dr. Apgar sits down with physician leaders, partner organizations, and frontline clinicians to talk about the real drivers of distress: financial stress, mental and emotional health, family dynamics, and the systems in which physicians practice. Conversations are evidence-aligned, research-informed, and grounded in lived clinical experience,  never promotional, always physician-first.

      Produced as a Direct Self Care production in partnership with the Doctor Podcast Network, the show draws on insight from the Well-Being Index, Champions of Wellness, Tend Health, and the broader Direct ecosystem to move listeners from awareness to agency.

      About the Guest:

      Dr. Ridgley Salter is a board-certified family physician and Medical Director for Well-Being at WellSpan Health since 2015. He also serves as Chair of the WellSpan Medical Group Council. Ridgley oversees well-being initiatives for over 20,000 employees and has led the evolution of WellSpan’s program from resilience-focused efforts to a comprehensive, system-level well-being strategy. A passionate advocate for clinicians, he draws from both personal experience and organizational leadership.

      Connect with the Guest:

      • LinkedIn:  Dr. Ridgley Salter
      •  Website:  wellspan.org (Well-Being resources and programs)
      • About the Host:

        Anders Apgar, MD, FACOG, M.S., is a physician leader dedicated to transforming clinician well-being. As host of the Direct Well-Being Podcast, he leads honest conversations about the real drivers of distress : financial stress, mental health, family dynamics, and broken systems,  for physicians and the organizations that support them.

        A trusted voice in health care, Dr. Apgar blends lived clinical experience with evidence-aligned insights. He’s part of the Direct Ecosystem (Direct Self Care, Direct Wealth Care, Direct Practice Care), partnering with organizations like Tend Health, the Well-Being Index, and Champions of Wellness to move the conversation from awareness to agency.

        Connect with Dr. Anders Apgar:

        Websites:

        directwellbeingpodcast.com , dwbpodcast.com

        Emails:

        • For Host/business identity: [email protected]
        • General contact: [email protected] 
        • Listener feedback: [email protected] 
        •  Guest pitches: [email protected] 
        •  Sponsorship conversations: [email protected]
        • 40 min
        • The Hidden Driver: Financial Stress in Physicians | Ep3

          It starts in medical school with stacks of loan papers and the societal promise that “it’ll be fine.” But years later, many physicians wake up feeling trapped despite high incomes, crushed by debt, lifestyle creep, taxes, and the reality that personal finance was never taught.

          In this candid conversation, Dr. Anders Apgar sits down with Brian Case, CFP, to unpack the real drivers of financial stress in medicine; why high-earning physicians hide their struggles, how financial uncertainty shows up in clinical decisions and at home, and why breaking the taboo around money conversations is essential for well-being. Brian shares practical early-career advice, the power of building trust with a financial professional, and hopeful paths forward, including the importance of starting now, no matter where you are in your career.

          This episode is filled with honest reflections, hard truths, and actionable wisdom for residents, early-career physicians, and seasoned clinicians who want to move from financial anxiety to agency.

          Episode Highlights:

          • Why many high-income physicians still feel like “negative millionaires” years after residency
          • The hidden cost of deferring life and playing financial catch-up
          • How financial stress shows up clinically (shortcuts, extra shifts) and at home (relationships, sleepless nights)
          • The taboo of talking about money when society says “rich doctor, everything’s fine”
          • Practical early advice: disability insurance, small retirement contributions, and contract review
          • Why financial literacy feels like learning a new language, and why physicians are actually great at it once they start
          • Building trust and finding safe spaces to discuss personal finance
          • The long-game hope: it’s rarely too late, and the paycheck can fix many mistakes (to a point)
          • About the Show:

            Direct Well-Being is hosted by Dr. Anders Apgar, MD, FACOG, M.S., An Ob/Gyn physician leader and nationally recognized voice in clinician well-being. The show is a trusted, peer-driven space for honest conversations about what actually supports physicians, beyond resilience training and surface-level wellness.

            Each week, Dr. Apgar sits down with physician leaders, partner organizations, and frontline clinicians to talk about the real drivers of distress: financial stress, mental and emotional health, family dynamics, and the systems in which physicians practice. Conversations are evidence-aligned, research-informed, and grounded in lived clinical experience,  never promotional, always physician-first.

            Produced as a Direct Self Care production in partnership with the Doctor Podcast Network, the show draws on insight from the Well-Being Index, Champions of Wellness, Tend Health, and the broader Direct ecosystem to move listeners from awareness to agency.

            About the Guest:

            Brian Case is a Certified Financial Planner with decades of experience working with physicians and healthcare professionals. He first connected with the Apgar family during his wife’s OBGYN residency, where he began offering free financial literacy sessions. Brian is the CEO of Saveology and a key leader in Direct Wealth Care. He is passionate about breaking the taboo around personal finance for physicians and helping them move from financial stress to confidence and capability.

            Connect with the Guest:

            • Website: https://savology.com
            • Direct Wealth Care: Learn more at directwealthcare.com
            • About the Host:

              Anders Apgar, MD, FACOG, M.S., is a physician leader dedicated to transforming clinician well-being. As host of the Direct Well-Being Podcast, he leads honest conversations about the real drivers of distress : financial stress, mental health, family dynamics, and broken systems,  for physicians and the organizations that support them.

              A trusted voice in health care, Dr. Apgar blends lived clinical experience with evidence-aligned insights. He’s part of the Direct Ecosystem (Direct Self Care, Direct Wealth Care, Direct Practice Care), partnering with organizations like Tend Health, the Well-Being Index, and Champions of Wellness to move the conversation from awareness to agency.

              Connect with Dr. Anders Apgar:

              Websites:

              directwellbeingpodcast.com , dwbpodcast.com

              Emails:

              • For Host/business identity: [email protected]
              • General contact: [email protected] 
              • Listener feedback: [email protected] 
              •  Guest pitches: [email protected] 
              •  Sponsorship conversations: [email protected]
              • 40 min
              • The Cost of Two Medical Careers | Ep2

                Physicians often enter medicine as a calling, but what happens when two physicians build a life and family together? In this candid and vulnerable conversation, Dr. Anders Apgar sits down with his wife, Dr. Jacqueline Apgar, a practicing OBGYN of 22 years, to explore the real costs of dual-physician careers.

                They discuss how medicine dominated their home, the challenges of call schedules and exhaustion, shielding (or failing to shield) their children from the emotional burden, financial decisions around childcare, the disproportionate load often carried by female physicians, and what happens when one spouse steps away from full clinical practice. This episode offers raw honesty, practical reflections, and hard-won wisdom for any physician couple navigating the tension between medicine and family life.

                Episode Highlights:

                • The “happy disaster” of two OBGYNs building a life and family together
                • How medicine became the third person in their marriage and dominated daily life
                • The unique challenges of OBGYN call schedules and perpetual residency-like hours
                • Shielding children from trauma, HIPAA, and “talking shop” at home
                • The mental load, default parent role, and societal pressures on female physicians
                • What happened when one spouse stepped back from clinical practice
                • How dual-physician couples fill their cups differently
                • The importance of showing up for your kids and giving yourself grace
                • Why marriage in medicine often becomes a “100/100” effort rather than 50/50
                • About the Show:

                  Direct Well-Being is hosted by Dr. Anders Apgar, MD, FACOG, M.S., An Ob/Gyn physician leader and nationally recognized voice in clinician well-being. The show is a trusted, peer-driven space for honest conversations about what actually supports physicians, beyond resilience training and surface-level wellness.

                  Each week, Dr. Apgar sits down with physician leaders, partner organizations, and frontline clinicians to talk about the real drivers of distress: financial stress, mental and emotional health, family dynamics, and the systems in which physicians practice. Conversations are evidence-aligned, research-informed, and grounded in lived clinical experience,  never promotional, always physician-first.

                  Produced as a Direct Self Care production in partnership with the Doctor Podcast Network, the show draws on insight from the Well-Being Index, Champions of Wellness, Tend Health, and the broader Direct ecosystem to move listeners from awareness to agency.

                  About the Guest:

                  Dr. Jacqueline Apgar is a board-certified OBGYN with 22 years of clinical experience. She is the mother of four children and has navigated the unique challenges of practicing full-scope obstetrics and gynecology while raising a family alongside her physician husband.

                  About the Host:

                  Anders Apgar, MD, FACOG, M.S., is a physician leader dedicated to transforming clinician well-being. As host of the Direct Well-Being Podcast, he leads honest conversations about the real drivers of distress : financial stress, mental health, family dynamics, and broken systems,  for physicians and the organizations that support them.

                  A trusted voice in health care, Dr. Apgar blends lived clinical experience with evidence-aligned insights. He’s part of the Direct Ecosystem (Direct Self Care, Direct Wealth Care, Direct Practice Care), partnering with organizations like Tend Health, the Well-Being Index, and Champions of Wellness to move the conversation from awareness to agency.

                  Connect with Dr. Anders Apgar:

                  Websites:

                  directwellbeingpodcast.com , dwbpodcast.com

                  Emails:

                  • For Host/business identity: [email protected]
                  • General contact: [email protected] 
                  • Listener feedback: [email protected] 
                  •  Guest pitches: [email protected] 
                  •  Sponsorship conversations: [email protected]
                  •  

                    46 min
                  • How Did We Get Here? | Ep1

                    It hits early,  sometimes just two years out of residency, you’re no longer a trainee on paper, but the schedule still feels like one. Five shifts in a row. Nights. Weekends. Young kids at home. A mortgage and six-figure student loans that make you feel like a “negative millionaire.”

                    In this first full episode of Direct Well-Being, Dr. Anders Apgar sits with Dr. Daren Girard, as they unpack the early-career breaking point, the reality of shift work versus family life, and the practical steps that helped Daren reclaim sustainability, including a strategic move into administrative leadership that reduced clinical burden without sacrificing income. Together they explore why high-performing physicians often hide their stress, the power of building real connections beyond the bedside, the importance of remembering your “why,” and how to show up for your family even when the schedule fights against it. 

                    This episode is honest, hopeful, and filled with actionable wisdom for residents, early-career physicians feeling the squeeze, and seasoned clinicians looking for renewed purpose.

                    Episode Highlights:

                    • Why many physicians feel like they’re “still doing a residency schedule” years after graduation
                    • The financial and emotional weight of being a “negative millionaire” with young kids and crushing debt
                    • How a move into administrative leadership created breathing room without a pay cut
                    • The give-and-take of shift work in Emergency Medicine and protecting time with family
                    • The power of building connections through committees, projects, and non-clinical involvement
                    • Reframing burnout: returning to your “why” and remembering the privilege of caring for patients
                    • The long-game hope: it does get better as loans are paid and life seasons change
                    • About the Show:

                      Direct Well-Being is hosted by Dr. Anders Apgar, MD, FACOG, M.S., An Ob/Gyn physician leader and nationally recognized voice in clinician well-being. The show is a trusted, peer-driven space for honest conversations about what actually supports physicians, beyond resilience training and surface-level wellness.

                      Each week, Dr. Apgar sits down with physician leaders, partner organizations, and frontline clinicians to talk about the real drivers of distress: financial stress, mental and emotional health, family dynamics, and the systems in which physicians practice. Conversations are evidence-aligned, research-informed, and grounded in lived clinical experience,  never promotional, always physician-first.

                      Produced as a Direct Self Care production in partnership with the Doctor Podcast Network, the show draws on insight from the Well-Being Index, Champions of Wellness, Tend Health, and the broader Direct ecosystem to move listeners from awareness to agency.

                      About the Guest: 

                      Dr. Daren Girard is an emergency physician and Chief of Emergency Medicine at Kent Hospital in Warwick, Rhode Island. A former Wesleyan University wrestler and longtime friend/roommate of host Dr. Anders Apgar, he brings over 25 years of clinical experience. Early in his career (just two years out of residency) he transitioned into an assistant director role to reduce clinical shifts, gain administrative responsibilities, and achieve better work-life balance while raising a young family. He remains deeply involved in mentoring residents and supporting physician wellness.

                      About the Host:

                      Anders Apgar, MD, FACOG, M.S., is a physician leader dedicated to transforming clinician well-being. As host of the Direct Well-Being Podcast, he leads honest conversations about the real drivers of distress : financial stress, mental health, family dynamics, and broken systems,  for physicians and the organizations that support them.

                      A trusted voice in health care, Dr. Apgar blends lived clinical experience with evidence-aligned insights. He’s part of the Direct Ecosystem (Direct Self Care, Direct Wealth Care, Direct Practice Care), partnering with organizations like Tend Health, the Well-Being Index, and Champions of Wellness to move the conversation from awareness to agency.

                      Connect with Dr. Anders Apgar

                      Websites:

                      directwellbeingpodcast.com , dwbpodcast.com

                      Emails:

                      • For Host/business identity: [email protected]
                      • General contact: [email protected] 
                      • Listener feedback: [email protected] 
                      •  Guest pitches: [email protected] 
                      •  Sponsorship conversations: [email protected]
                      • 32 min
                      • The Breaking Point Is the Beginning — START HERE

                        It rarely announces itself. It arrives quietly — somewhere between the charting, the call, the prior authorizations, and the exhaustion — the first time the thought becomes words: I can’t do this anymore.For most physicians it isn’t one moment. It’s death by a thousand cuts. A thousand clicks. The missed birthday seen three hours late. 

                        The anniversary dinner canceled an hour in. The softball game watched from an iPhone in the call room. The child who says, “It’s okay, I know you’re busy” — and somehow that acceptance hurts most of all.

                        In this teaser for Direct Well-Being, Dr. Anders Apgar names what so many clinicians carry in silence. We were taught how to save many lives, he says — but never how to build and protect just one of our own. Physician burnout isn't a personal failure or a deficit of resilience; it’s the predictable result of a career that slowly dissociates clinicians from their families, their finances, their health, and their purpose.

                        But the breaking point, he argues, isn’t the end — it’s awareness, and awareness is the beginning. Real clinician well-being isn't pre-rounds yoga in the physician lounge — “a Band-Aid for a GSW.” It looks like autonomy, financial literacy, boundaries, and finally understanding that your worth is not measured in RVUs, productivity, or how much suffering you can tolerate. The goal was never to escape medicine. You’ve worked too hard to get here. The goal is to reclaim the life — to find the intersection of your career and your peace.

                        This is the show for every physician who deserves more than burnout, debt, exhaustion, and endless sacrifice. New episodes coming soon — because the life you’ve worked this hard to build deserves to feel like a life.

                         

                        KEY HIGHLIGHTS

                        • Why the breaking point is awareness, not failure— and why that single reframe changes the whole conversation.
                        • “Death by a thousand clicks”: how physician burnout accumulates in missed birthdays, canceled dinners, and call-room moments.
                        • The dissociation no one warned us about — from family, finances, health, and purpose.
                        • Why wellness isn’t “pre-rounds yoga in the physician lounge” — and what real clinician well-being actually requires.
                        • Reclaiming the intersection of career and peace: autonomy, financial literacy, and boundaries over RVUs.
                        • A first look at what Direct Well-Being will explore every week — and who it’s for.
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                          WHERE TO FIND DR. ANDERS APGAR

                          LinkedIn: Dr. Anders Apgar, MD, FACOG — https://www.linkedin.com/in/andersapgarmdfacog/

                          Show email: [email protected]

                          Pitch a guest: [email protected]

                          Sponsorships: [email protected]

                          Listener feedback: [email protected]

                          Listen: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • YouTube — search "Direct Well-Being Podcast"

                          Affiliations: Ob/Gyn physician leader • Direct Self Care • CCI Health Services

                           

                          ABOUT THE SHOW

                          Direct Well-Being is hosted by Dr. Anders Apgar, MD, FACOG, M.S. — an Ob/Gyn physician leader and nationally recognized voice in clinician well-being. The show is a trusted, peer-driven space for honest conversations about what actually supports physicians, beyond resilience training and surface-level wellness.

                          Each week, Dr. Apgar sits down with physician leaders, partner organizations, and frontline clinicians to talk about the real drivers of distress: financial stress, mental and emotional health, family dynamics, and the systems in which physicians practice. Conversations are evidence-aligned, research-informed, and grounded in lived clinical experience — never promotional, always physician-first.

                          Produced as a Direct Self Care production in partnership with the Doctor Podcast Network, the show draws on insight from the Well-Being Index, Champions of Wellness, Tend Health, and the broader Direct ecosystem to move listeners from awareness to agency.

                          4 min

                        About Direct Well-Being Podcast

                        From the publisher's feed

                        Welcome to the Direct Well-Being Podcast, hosted by Dr. Anders Apgar, MD, FACOG, M.S. — an Ob/Gyn physician leader and nationally recognized voice in clinician well-being. This show is a trusted, peer-driven space for honest conversations about what actually supports physicians — beyond resilience training and surface-level wellness.