Disciple Talk with Brandon Werner

God designed fatherhood on purpose and He chose you for the role. In this episode, Brandon and Jeremy talk candidly about the pressures, insecurities, and emotional weight of being a dad. Together, they unpack what it means to be the first and best example of God to your children, not through perfection, but through presence, consistency, and humility. If you’re a father (or know one), this is an episode you won’t want to miss.

📖 Key Topics Covered

✔️ Why God intentionally gave children their specific fathers

✔️ The emotional burden of performance-based parenting

✔️ How to respond to your kids with love, not just discipline

✔️ What it means to be “secure in Christ” as a father

✔️ The dangers of inconsistency and how to course-correct

✔️ How other fathers and discipleship relationships can help

💬 Discussion Questions

1. How does knowing God as your Father change the way you parent?

2. What areas of fatherhood make you feel most insecure?

3. When are you most likely to react from emotion instead of love?

4. What does it practically look like to be a “compass” for your kids?

5. Who in your life can help you become a more Christlike father?

📝 Life Application

➡️ This week, take one moment of emotional parenting and pause. Ask, “How would my Heavenly Father respond to me right now?” Then, lead your child with that same love and consistency. Also, identify one father you can encourage or open up to. Discipleship is better together.

🔗 Learn more about Together Church at togetherokc.church

In this episode, we talk about what it really looks like to make disciples when life is full. Between jobs, families, and packed calendars, it can be easy to set relationships aside. But what if the busyness is the context for discipleship? We share real stories and practical wisdom about how discipling others can happen as you go, through shared meals, small group setups, and the honest moments in between.📖 Key Topics Covered✔️ What “disciple-making as you go” looks like in real life✔️ How transparency and trust form the foundation for discipleship✔️ Why relationships—not curriculum—are the heart of disciple-making✔️ How to overcome insecurity and find your security in Christ✔️ Practical rhythms to build deeper connections during busy seasons✔️ The power of going with the goers and living life on mission together💬 Discussion Questions1. What keeps you from being transparent in your relationships with other believers?2. How can you integrate discipleship into your current daily routines and responsibilities?3. In what ways has insecurity affected your ability to disciple or be discipled?4. What does it mean to “go with the goers” in your current context?5. How has adversity or conflict shaped your closest spiritual relationships?📝 Life Application➡️ Identify one relationship where you've been keeping things surface-level. This week, take one step toward greater authenticity. Share a struggle, ask a deeper question, or invite them into part of your everyday life.🔗 Learn more about Together Church at togetherokc.church

Discipleship isn’t just about being friends. It’s about spiritual growth, intentionality, and helping others become more like Jesus. In this episode, we explore how to move from casual friendships to purposeful relationships rooted in the gospel. Whether you’re reaching out to someone far from God or walking alongside a new believer, this conversation will help you take courageous next steps in discipleship.📖 Key Topics Covered✔️ Why discipleship must be rooted in friendship—but go beyond it✔️ How to share the gospel naturally and without fear of rejection✔️ Questions that open the door for spiritual conversations✔️ How to disciple new believers through relationship and rhythm✔️ What the F.A.T.T. framework looks like in real life✔️ The importance of being intentional, not just available💬 Discussion Questions1. What fears do you have about sharing your faith with others?2. How can you detach your self-worth from others’ responses to the gospel?3. What’s the difference between friendship evangelism and casual friendship?4. What questions could you ask to open up spiritual conversations?5. Who in your life might be ready for a formal discipleship relationship?📝 Life Application➡️ Identify one non-believer and one believer in your life this week. Ask the non-believer thoughtful questions about their spiritual background, and with the believer, consider having a direct conversation about walking together in discipleship.🔗 Learn more about Together Church at togetherokc.church

The Goal Of Discipleship:

Everyone talks about making disciples, but do we really know where we’re going? Without a clear destination, spiritual growth can feel confusing, even frustrating. In this episode, we break down the true goal of discipleship: to grow into maturity in Christ.

Using the analogy of a road trip, we explore the essential elements of intentional discipleship and how Jesus modeled a relational, reproducible process for spiritual development. Whether you're just starting your faith journey or already discipling others, this episode will help you see the road ahead more clearly.

📖 Key Topics Covered:

✔️ What it means to be “mature in Christ”

✔️ Why good sermons and spiritual habits aren’t enough without a destination

✔️ The 3 key ingredients for spiritual growth: leader, environment, and process

✔️ How Jesus discipled through relationships, not just teaching

✔️ The “Share → Connect → Minister → Disciple” framework

💬 Discussion Questions:

1️⃣ How do you currently define spiritual maturity?

2️⃣ What’s the difference between casual Christian friendships and intentional discipleship?

3️⃣ Do you have an intentional leader guiding your growth, or are you helping someone else grow?

4️⃣ How could you apply the Share → Connect → Minister → Disciple process today?

📝 Life Application:

➡️ Identify where you are in your spiritual growth journey. Then, pray about someone who could either mentor you or someone you could begin discipling. Take one step this week toward turning that relationship into a friendship with a purpose.

🔗 Learn more about Together Church at https://togetherokc.church

One Church, Many Expressions | Unity & Discipleship in ActionWhat if churches stopped competing and started collaborating? What if local churches could link arms—not to build a brand—but to build the Church?

In this episode, we explore the biblical vision for church unity and how partnerships like the Relational Discipleship Network (RDN) help local congregations work together to reflect Jesus more clearly. We dive into what it means to be a local expression of the one true Church, how the shift from programs to discipleship changes everything, and why Together Church has chosen to walk alongside other churches on the same mission: to make disciples who make disciples.

📖 Key Topics Covered: ✔️ The difference between one global Church and local expressions

✔️ Why collaboration matters more than competition

✔️ What the “discipleship shift” looks like in real church life

✔️ How Together Church became a coaching church with RDN

✔️ The power of partnering with other churches for kingdom impact

💬 Discussion Questions: 1️⃣ What does it mean to reflect Jesus’ Church in your local context?

2️⃣ How can we collaborate with—not compete against—other churches?

3️⃣ Why is discipleship more than just a program?

4️⃣ How could our church benefit from kingdom partnerships like RDN?

📝 Life Application: ➡️ Take one step this week toward building unity in the body of Christ. Pray for a neighboring church, reach out to a believer from another congregation, or join a discipleship group that prioritizes authentic relationships and growth.

🔗 Learn more about Together Church at https://togetherokc.church

Managing Money God's Way | Biblical Stewardship and Freedom

Money is one of the biggest sources of stress and conflict—not just in marriages, but in every area of life. But what if managing your finances wasn’t about fear, guilt, or confusion? What if it was about freedom and faithfulness?

In this episode, we dive deep into the biblical perspective on stewardship. We talk about how everything we have belongs to God and why transparency, budgeting, and putting God's priorities first can transform your financial life—and your relationships.

📖 Key Topics Covered:✔️ Why God calls us to be stewards, not owners✔️ The four biblical priorities for money management✔️ How financial transparency impacts discipleship and marriage✔️ Building margin for generosity and relationships✔️ Breaking free from fear, shame, and secrecy about money

💬 Discussion Questions:1️⃣ What does it mean to view yourself as a steward instead of an owner?2️⃣ What changes would you need to make to align your finances with God's priorities?3️⃣ How can you build transparency into your marriage or discipleship relationships?4️⃣ Where have fear or pride kept you from managing money God's way?

📝 Life Application:➡️ Track your spending this week. Categorize every expense under God's priorities: Giving, Obligations, Necessities, and Savings. Pray about where adjustments need to happen and take one step toward greater faithfulness in managing God's resources.

🔗 Learn more about Together Church at togetherokc.church

Should Christians Tithe? Understanding Biblical Giving in the New Testament

Is tithing still required for Christians today? In this episode, we explore what the Bible actually says about the tithe—and why the New Testament calls us to something even deeper. While the Old Testament introduces the concept of giving 10%, Jesus teaches that 100% of what we have belongs to God.

So how do we give in a way that honors Him? We dive into the heart behind generosity, the role of the local church, and how to move from obligation to cheerful, Spirit-led giving.

📖 Key Topics Covered:✔️ The origins and biblical definition of the tithe✔️ What the New Testament says (and doesn’t say) about giving✔️ Why generous, cheerful giving matters more than a set percentage✔️ The importance of supporting the local church first✔️ How giving reflects our faith, trust, and worship

💬 Discussion Questions:1️⃣ What's the difference between giving out of obligation vs. cheerfully?2️⃣ How does the idea that everything belongs to God shift your mindset?3️⃣ What role does faith play in how and where you give?

📝 Life Application:➡️ This week, prayerfully examine your giving habits. Are they rooted in trust or fear? Legalism or worship? Ask God to shape your heart toward joyful generosity and consider creating a consistent, intentional plan for giving.

🔗 Learn more about Together Church at togetherokc.church

Many churches have vision and mission statements—but are they biblical? In this discussion, we unpack the purpose behind church vision and mission and how they align with God’s greater plan. Looking at examples from Scripture—Abraham, Moses, and Jesus Himself—we explore how God gives His people a vision that’s bigger than themselves and a mission they can faithfully follow.

At Together Church, our vision is to develop people who radically impact the world for Jesus Christ—a task only God can accomplish. Our mission? To create relational environments where disciples of Jesus are made. But what does that look like in real life? How can we stay committed to discipleship even when it gets tough? Let’s dive in.

📖 Key Topics Covered:✔️ Why vision and mission statements aren’t in the Bible—but the principles are✔️ How biblical figures like Abraham, Moses, and the early church followed God's vision✔️ The difference between religious tradition and biblical conviction✔️ The power of authentic discipleship relationships in spiritual growth✔️ How to stay faithful to the mission even when it’s difficult

💬 Discussion Questions:1️⃣ Are you following church traditions or biblical principles? How do you tell the difference?2️⃣ How have discipleship relationships shaped your spiritual journey?3️⃣ What steps can you take to be more intentional about creating relational environments for discipleship?

📝 Life Application:➡️ Identify one person ahead of you or behind you in their spiritual journey this week. Invite them for coffee or a meal with the specific purpose of strengthening your discipleship relationship.

👥 Join the Conversation!Drop your thoughts in the comments—how has a vision or mission helped shape your spiritual growth? Like, subscribe, and share this video to help others grow in their discipleship journey!

🔗 Learn more about Together Church at togetherokc.church

#ChurchVision #Discipleship #MissionAndVision #TogetherChurch

How can moms with young children stay engaged in discipleship while navigating the demands of motherhood? In this discussion, we explore practical ways for moms to embrace their role as disciple-makers—starting in their homes and extending beyond.

The Great Commission doesn’t exclude moms, and discipleship isn’t a “one-size-fits-all” model. Whether through daily conversations with your kids, intentional relationships with other believers, or creative ways to connect despite a full schedule, you can live on mission right where you are.

📖 Key Topics Covered:

✔️ The role of motherhood in discipleship

✔️ Practical ways to disciple your children intentionally

✔️ How to engage in discipleship beyond your home

✔️ Using technology and flexibility to build disciple-making relationships

✔️ Encouragement for moms who feel overwhelmed or stretched thin

💬 Discussion Questions:

1️⃣ Are you being intentional about discipling your children, or just hoping they "catch it"?

2️⃣ How can you create margin in your life for disciple-making without neglecting other responsibilities?

3️⃣ What simple, everyday ways can you use to encourage and disciple others?

📝 This week, consider these questions:

➡️ How are you maintaining your personal relationship with Jesus during busy seasons?

➡️ What are some creative ways you can incorporate discipleship into your daily routine?

➡️ How can you better balance your responsibilities while still prioritizing spiritual growth?

If this video encourages you, like, subscribe, and share to help others grow in their discipleship journey! Have questions or thoughts? Drop them in the comments; we’d love to continue the conversation.

#Discipleship #Motherhood #ChristianParenting #MakingDisciples #TogetherChurch

Are both large church gatherings and small groups necessary for spiritual growth? In this discussion, we explore how the early church in Acts met daily—both in the temple and house-to-house—and why both settings serve unique but complementary purposes.

As church gatherings have evolved over time, one thing remains unchanged: the biblical call to encourage one another daily (Hebrews 3:13). Why did the early church meet so often? What benefits come from both large and small gatherings? How can we apply these principles today?

📖 Key Topics Covered:

✔️ The role of large church gatherings in discipleship

✔️ The unique benefits of small groups

✔️ How daily encouragement strengthens faith

✔️ Biblical insights from Acts 2 and Hebrews 3

✔️ Practical ways to stay connected as believers

💬 Discussion Questions:

1️⃣ Are you fully participating in both large and small group gatherings?

2️⃣ What spiritual growth opportunities are you missing by neglecting either type of gathering?

3️⃣ How are you encouraging other believers daily?

If this video encourages you, like, subscribe, and share to help others grow in their discipleship journey. Have questions or thoughts? Drop them in the comments. We’d love to hear from you.

#Discipleship #TogetherChurch