Discombobulated with Bobby Jaycox

Welcome to another belly-laugh packed episode of Discombobulated! Picture this: you're in NYC, in the midst of a stand-up routine, the crowd's laughter echoing off the walls. As we navigate the comedic jungle of playing dumb, slaying our stand-up acts and even thrifting, we're also shining some light on the darker undertones of comedy. Confidence - or the lack thereof - can make or break the scene, but it's also about finding comfort in our own skin, even under the unforgiving spotlight.

The fun doesn't end there though. We've got some mind-boggling tales from the wild side, including a bear fight and an encounter with a cowboy hat-wearing stranger. Maybe it was the heat, maybe it was the alien encounter, but things took quite a turn when an ill-considered parking choice had us facing the grim reality of impound. But, hey, it's all part of the show's discombobulation, isn't it? From the sweet rush of a successful gig to the sour sting of unexpected challenges, we explore the very essence of comedy on the road.

Join us as we take a detour into the world of music, aesthetics, and, surprisingly, iced coffees. Learn about our thrilling experience at a Slipknot concert and hear the shocking revelations about our favorite chilly brew. As we wrap up, we'll look at the importance of supporting our friends' craft, whether they're in a band or launching a Patreon. So, buckle up and get ready for a rollercoaster ride through laughter, life, and a little bit of chaos.

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Ever dream of attending Story of the Year's 20th anniversary show for their Platinum album, Page Avenue? What if you could relive the thrill of such a concert, right from the heated excitement of Austin and Tampa, to the camaraderie at a concert, and even the backstage action? Brace yourselves! This episode is a time capsule, transporting you to the heart of live music and the intoxicating energy that comes with it.

We're not just any spectators though, we're your backstage pass to the hustle and bustle behind the scenes. We navigate through the language barriers with some new friends, band members, and crew, all united by our shared love for music. But the band is not the only star of the show. Melissa, a hilarious comedian  who brings an extra dose of laughter to the weekend. We delve into the role of comedians in hosting shows and even share a friendly debate about the age limit of confidently boasting about physical capabilities. 

The episode winds down with some post-concert anecdotes that are sure to keep you entertained. From a spontaneous casino adventure to a foot injury mishap with Adam, the bass player, there's never a dull moment. So, join us as we relive the magic of this memorable night, filled with music, laughter, and a dash of chaos. Because at the end of the day, isn't that what the best concerts are all about?

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Have you ever wondered about the liberating power of self-love and the unconventional aspects of life? Well, we were fortunate enough to have the witty and insightful Zach Noe Towers, who led us through a fascinating journey into these often overlooked realms. Together, we unveiled the importance of putting oneself first, the intriguing perspective of singleness as a choice, and the intricate dynamics that casual sex brings to relationships. 

Venturing further, we took on societal pressures and expectations, a battle that many of us often find ourselves entrenched in. We discussed the balancing act between conforming and protecting our invaluable time. On a lighter note, we also delved into the mystic world of astrology and crystals with Robbie, sparking a lively debate about their potential to bridge communication gaps and manifest our desires. The conversation took a deeper turn as we tackled topics around morality, sex work, and their intersections, advocating for safe spaces and innovative ways to reduce societal violence.

In the latter part of our chat, we broached the realms of trust, jealousy, and setting boundaries in relationships. We shared insights on how our upbringing can influence these aspects and how we can foster healthier interactions. We also discussed the challenge of navigating societal privilege while advocating for the less privileged. Furthermore, we shared a laugh over our names, interests, personal experiences, and reminisced about our childhood scary stories. Lastly, I shared my experiences from comedy clubs and a memorable visit to Nashville. Join us for an episode filled with laughter, profound insights, and captivating stories.

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How often do you have serious bouts of laughter when you listen to a podcast? Get ready for a laughter riot as we welcome the incredibly talented comedian Aaron Brooks in our latest episode of Discombobulated. 

As we journey through the world of stand-up comedy, we tackle the highs and lows that come with the gig. We discuss the art of crafting a joke, sometimes plucked right out of thin air, and how supportive mentors and peers have played a pivotal role in shaping us as comics. We also reminisce about classic movies, VHS tapes, and the nostalgia that comes with it. 

But there's more, we dive into our awkward childhood memories, including the transition from black and white to color films. We also chat about our experiences with the Texas Grocer, HEB, and the fascinating and sometimes bizarre world of off-the-grid comedy shows. Finally, we discuss the importance of being authentic, not just in comedy but in life, and how music has been instrumental in helping us relax and stay grounded. So, tune in and join us for a laughter-filled journey with Aaron Brooks!

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Ever wonder about the invisible expectations of a stand-up audience? Join us as we dive behind the scenes with the incredibly talented comedian, Ryan Stout. We discuss the complexities of stand-up comedy, from hosting open mic nights to handling a wide variety of audience dynamics. Ryan shares his insights about the often unspoken expectations of the audience and the art of conversationally pitching something to the listeners.

Our chat isn't just about comedy. We also open up about the intimate dynamics of our personal lives. We examine the mechanics of our relationships and how we support our partners. Ryan talks about his marriage, revealing how he and his wife Stacey use their strengths to complement each other. We also touch upon the importance of empathy, understanding, and emotional connection in maintaining healthy relationships.

The journey of a stand-up comedian is not easy, but the importance of constant learning and growth cannot be overstated. Together, Ryan and I express gratitude for the generosity of mentors and the comedy community. We explore the journey from being a beginner to having a serious career in comedy, touching upon the importance of feedback and building confidence on stage. With plenty of laughs and valuable insights, this episode promises to offer something for every comedy lover. Tune in and immerse yourself in the fascinating world of stand-up comedy with Ryan Stout.

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Imagine swapping pants with a fellow comic just to get some stage time! The world of stand-up comedy is full of such hilarious and sometimes bizarre experiences, stories that Jeremy Essig and I have lived and laughed through. From the time I switched trousers to make it to the Funny Bone stage to Jeremy's unexpected encounter with a knight-in-shining-armor at the Helium Comedy Club, we've seen and shared it all. 

Stand-up comedy is not just about the laughs we bring to others, but also about the emotional roller coaster we ride ourselves. The most rewarding part of being a comic is also the most challenging - constantly questioning our jokes, fearing the call-outs, and struggling to strike a balance between personal life and comedy. It's an addictive journey that has led us all to a suspension of adolescence, yet it's a journey we wouldn't trade for anything. This episode shares insights into the evolution and addictive nature of comedy, and how it shapes us, both as performers and individuals.

But what happens when the curtain falls, and it's time to bow out? Jeremy and I sit down to discuss the bittersweet experience of quitting comedy and moving on to other pursuits. It's about acknowledging the end of an era, thanking the craft that's been an integral part of our lives, and bravely stepping into the unfamiliar. Join us as we celebrate the highs, lows, and everything in between in our comedy careers and as we bid farewell to a chapter that's been every bit as rewarding as it's been challenging.

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Ever found yourself in a humorous predicament while traveling? Imagine trying to fit your life into three bags and having an unexpected encounter with a one-of-a-kind canine all in the same day! This episode is all about embracing the awkward hilarity of life on the road as a stand-up comic, as I recount my misadventures from my hotel room in Raleigh, North Carolina.

Strap in to hear some comedic tales from my travels, including an amusing incident involving my premonition of forgetting my belongings and the ensuing chaos. You'll also get a glimpse into my spiritual journey in the world of stand-up comedy, where I mix with legends I've admired for years. Want to hear my take on spotting the beauty in the mundane? Imagine a pink car with a sketch of Sheniqua on the hood - it's the little things that make life's journey a riot!

Finally, I'll share why I'm scheming to bring my roommate's dog to my comedy shows and my thoughts on life's hacky moments. Also, hear my take on embracing life, having a good time, and staying alive. So, if you're ready to find the humor in everything from airport mishaps to dealing with the TSA, come along on this journey of laughter and discovery! You won't want to miss these tales of hilarity, the absurdity of life on the road, and a dog named Lenny who may just become a comedy star.

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Lights, sparklers, action! This episode of Discombobulated is a vibrant explosion of memories and learnings, celebrating the much-loved 4th of July. I recount my fun-filled childhood antics with fireworks and the reckless thrill of lighting them. Amidst the smoke and sparklers, we pause to reflect on the importance of Independence Day and the deep-seated significance it holds for all of us.

But it's not all nostalgia and fireworks! We navigate the labyrinth of customer service, as I share my recent trials with a Microsoft 365 subscription. The ordeal of endless phone calls, store visits, and a suspicious store manager was a true test of patience. However, this complex story serves as a reminder of the often misunderstood art of customer service and the challenges it presents. A seemingly simple product return also turns into a lesson in patience and understanding. 

Finally, we journey through some of my most humorous and insightful personal experiences. An awkward 4th of July party thanks to surprise armpit hair, to the highs and lows of a Vegas hotel stay, we cover it all. We end on a high note - discussing the power of croquet to foster connections and the importance of choosing our own paths. So, buckle up and join me in this rollicking ride filled with nostalgia, customer service sagas, and unconventional life lessons.

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Just when you thought life as a comedian was all fun and games, my thrilling episode will make you rethink! Let's unravel the rollercoaster ride of my life as a stand-up comedian living with ADHD, peppered with hair-raising skateboarding adventures and a bit of bird-watching tranquility. Having opened for big fish like Ron Funches at the Flyover Comedy Festival, I've had my fair share of exciting encounters and belly-laughs. But hold on, it's not all smooth sailing! 

Have you ever broken a body part? I've been there, done that - with my elbow while skateboarding! From my body's 'freeze' mode to the laughable quest of diagnosing my own elbow, it's a hilarious tale that will tickle your funny bone. Trust me, having a broken arm and negotiating an early hospital discharge, just to get to a stand-up show is a story worth a listen. And yes, there's even a light-hearted take on Lewis Capaldi and a Peloton thrown in for good measure.

As I wrap up my tales of comedy, ADHD, and skateboarding with a broken elbow, you'll also get to hear my theological theory about God's animosity towards roller bladers. Ever wondered about the changing cool factor of Satan? I've got some thoughts on that too. So, tune in for a laughter-filled, unpredictable, and insightful episode that packs a punch! Let's get ready to laugh, cringe, and maybe even sigh a little as I share a sneak peek into my rollercoaster life as a stand-up comedian with ADHD. Buckle up - it's going to be a wild ride!

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