Discombobulated with Bobby Jaycox

Fifteen years into stand-up comedy feels both like a lifetime and the blink of an eye. From my first nervous open mic at the Funny Bone in St. Louis at 19 to celebrating what Cactus Tate dubbed my "comedy quinceañera" on our current tour, the journey has been filled with unexpected twists, meaningful connections, and moments of pure joy.

The road hasn't always been smooth. On our recent tour stops, I battled a nasty ear infection that left me feeling like I had "water in my head" – a condition that became contagious when Cactus and I shared a vape (lesson learned). The experience prompted me to quit nicotine entirely, something I wish I'd never started in the first place. If you've never smoked, trust me: stay right where you are. There are infinitely cooler ways to waste your time.

What makes this milestone special isn't just the years accumulated, but the extraordinary experiences along the way. I've been fortunate enough to meet and work with comics who inspired me from the beginning – sitting down one-on-one with Dane Cook, being taken on the road by Nikki Glaser, and recently performing a guest spot for Rory Scoville in Houston. These moments remind me how lucky I am to live within this creative community, even when my credit score doesn't qualify me for the dirt bike I sometimes daydream about.

Between apartment flooding disasters, cross-country tours, and philosophical musings about whether baby Jesus cried and needed diaper changes, this episode captures the beautiful chaos of a life dedicated to making people laugh. Looking back at that kid who first heard stand-up and thought "You knew about this and never told me?!", I can't help but feel profound gratitude for every step of this 15-year adventure.

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Two comedians sitting by a lake, desperately thirsty, manifesting water into existence – the perfect metaphor for the creative comedy life. Bobby J. Cox welcomes LeMayr Lee to Discombobulated for a sprawling conversation that's as refreshing as the water they eventually receive from a kind stranger.

The episode begins with unexpected revelations about their religious backgrounds, with LeMayr sharing stories of being a "fun Christian kid" who wore chicken suits for fundraisers and learned life lessons from the church uncles who cycled between jail and scripture. Both comedians confess their surprisingly late introductions to substances – LeMayr didn't drink until 21 (starting with a triple shot of Hennessy after a Burger King shift), while Bobby didn't try marijuana until 25.

Their discussion takes fascinating turns through pre-show rituals (LeMayr blasting WWE entrance music), the weird dynamics of comedy green rooms, and the creative projects they're developing. When LeMayr pitches his action-comedy movie concept "Legal Guardian" about a spy becoming guardian to his deceased wife's children while solving her murder, you can feel the creative wheels turning between these performers who clearly want to make more than just stand-up.

The episode's highlight comes when a stranger named Tyler appears on his bike, offering water and unexpected wisdom: "Make your life about being nice to other people, and you're going to wake up every morning with something to do that isn't superficial." It's a perfect moment of synchronicity that showcases what makes this podcast special – authentic conversation that finds profound moments within the seemingly ordinary.

Catch LeMayr Lee at Small Time Comedy Heist at Roscoe's on March 26th and follow both comedians as they continue bringing their unique perspectives to stages across the country. Just don't drink lake water, no matter how thirsty you get.

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Bobby J's comedic genius shines in this hilarious episode that transforms ordinary moments into laugh-out-loud reflections on modern life. Fresh off tour and reunited with his "own stinky bed," Bobby takes listeners on a journey through his Catholic upbringing with sharp observations about communion rituals that somehow blend irreverence with nostalgia. "I get to drink the blood," he jokes, while dissecting the peculiar practice of sharing wine cups during mass.

The podcast shifts to Bobby's dating adventures in Austin, where he finds himself tongue-tied during a grocery store encounter with a beautiful woman. His internal monologue captures the universal awkwardness of modern dating: the fear of making someone uncomfortable versus the desire to connect. "I'm not scared," he insists, "I just don't want to make someone feel uncomfortable while they're shopping for butter." This segment resonates with anyone who's ever overthought a potential meet-cute.

One of the episode's most relatable moments comes when Bobby questions why people wait in hour-long lines for barbecue. "At some point, it's just a rack of ribs," he observes with refreshing practicality. His refusal to join the queue speaks to a larger philosophy about valuing time and questioning hype culture.

The episode culminates in a masterclass on self-advocacy when Bobby recounts his frustrating experience signing up for TSA PreCheck. When a representative attempts to upsell him without clear explanation, Bobby demonstrates the delicate art of standing up for yourself without being unreasonable. "To be Zen, sometimes you gotta be a little crazy," he concludes, offering a surprisingly profound takeaway wrapped in comedy.

Follow Bobby on tour with Cactus Tate throughout March and April, with shows across the country from New York to California. Check bobbyjcox.com for tickets and dates, and don't miss his headline performances at the Velveeta Room in Austin this summer!

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What happens when you mix a comedy tour, a laid-back diabetic roommate, and the chaos of late-night gaming? You get a whirlwind adventure that promises laughs and some unexpected life lessons. Join me, Bobby J Cox, as I hit the road with my pal Cactus Tate, navigating cities from Miami to Sacramento. Along the way, I grapple with the joys and challenges of touring, quitting nicotine, and the art of meal prepping. My trusty companion Zach adds his own spice to this journey with his unique approach to managing diabetes, resulting in some truly hilarious predicaments—like the time we ended up in a surreal late-night emergency involving Madden and mysterious shouts of doom.

Imagine being jolted awake by your roommate's cries of impending doom, only to discover the real emergency might just be the gaming console. Listen as I share the wild tale of a supposed diabetic crisis that left me ready to take on imaginary intruders, all while entangled in the confusion of learning Madden's controls. Zach's stubbornness in the face of a real medical emergency makes for a comedic yet tense tale, filled with cockroach conspiracies and hospital refusals. It's a rollercoaster of emotions that highlights the unpredictability of life when health scares collide with sleep-deprived imaginations.

But it’s not all chaos and cockroach capers. I also reflect on the beauty and madness of pursuing a comedy career, from watching the SNL 50th anniversary special to the joy of performing at iconic comedy clubs. There's a shared camaraderie in this world, whether it's spotting old friends like John Lovitz and Nate Bargatze or appreciating the humor of a New Zealand comic. As the tour approaches, I ponder the struggles of job satisfaction and the unique path that led me here—from firefighting to the comedy stage. Dive into this episode for a hearty mix of humor, heartfelt moments, and a reminder that life’s chaos can be the best punchline.

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Ever thought your dad wrote a Metallica song? I sure did, and it was those quirky family moments that shaped my love for music and comedy. Join me on a hilarious journey from my Texas roots to the vibrant city life of Austin, where the art of people-pleasing reached new heights—literally—when a friend's mishap led to my broken arm. Laughter is our guide as we explore the peculiar blend of Southern charm and modern living, all wrapped up with an invitation to my live shows at the famous Velveeta Room.

What if we stopped booing and started celebrating success? Let's challenge the norm by rethinking the way we view public figures, from athletes to pop sensations like Taylor Swift. Reflect on how our identities and upbringing shape the way we engage with sports and entertainment. Through a playful look at childhood dreams and societal expectations, we'll question why negativity often overshadows dedication and passion.

Speaking of legends, imagine sharing a stage and sushi with Jon Lovitz! Hear tales from my unforgettable weekend performing alongside this comedy icon, including his priceless advice on navigating the entertainment industry. From the thrill of a clean set to the joy of making Jon laugh, it's a story of growth, gratitude, and unexpected camaraderie. As the episode wraps up, I express heartfelt thanks for your support through Patreon and merchandise purchases, cherishing the connection and laughter we share.

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Our latest episode reveals the chaotic realities of January and the importance of laughter in overcoming sadness. Through personal anecdotes and reflections, we explore themes of vulnerability, community, and the creative power that arises from challenging emotions.

• How January often feels like a high-speed roller coaster 
• The role of humor in navigating life's hardships 
• Personal anecdotes about comedy and mental health 
• Navigating cooking mishaps as a humorous metaphor 
• The complexities of ADHD and its impact on daily life 
• Emphasizing community support and connection 
• Finding resilience amidst difficult circumstances 
• Encouragement to embrace both light and dark feelings

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What if your body runs on electricity and your brain is just meat with sparks? Join us as we embark on a whimsical journey through the unexpected snowfall in Texas, parenting quirks, and the strange societal norms that often leave us scratching our heads. From our musings on political antics to our tongue-in-cheek take on religion and the everyday essentials, we promise a blend of humor and thoughtful reflection. Plus, get our amusing take on the internet's peculiar power to resuscitate past trends like TikTok, and why we believe we might just be modern-day witches for predicting its comeback.

Late-night hunger pangs often lead to culinary creativity, which is exactly why we're sharing our chaotic adventures in the kitchen. From bizarre food combinations like raw pasta and peanut butter to the challenge of making meals with leftover groceries, we explore the absurdity of daily routines with a nostalgic nod to Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen. We even question the age-old mantra about breakfast being the most important meal of the day. So, hold on tight as we turn the mundane into the extraordinary and revel in the shared laughter over those quirky life moments.

What's life without a little ambition, some stand-up comedy dreams, and a dash of nostalgia? Join us as we reminisce about childhood shows like Zoom, battle it out over video games with friends, and share personal tales of aspiring to be in a band like Story of the Year. Facing life's challenges with humor, we liken our comedy pursuits to a never-ending vacation where life is the manager. Whether you're a fan of comedy, music, or just need a hearty laugh, we're here to remind you of the camaraderie and passions that unite us all.

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Ever found yourself pondering the absurdity of everyday life? Join us for a wild ride as we embrace our inner assholes and laugh at the quirks of being unapologetically human. From the futility of New Year's resolutions to the odd satisfaction of vaping, we take a playful jab at modern life's peculiarities. Somewhere between existential musings and random rants about bartenders and toenails, we find humor in the chaos that everyone faces, nudging you to do the same.

Picture this: you’re in a new town, staring bewildered at a flat tire, and the only friend you can rely on is a local Discount Tire shop. We take you through this unplanned adventure, highlighting the challenges of getting the right tires on short notice and the comedic chaos that ensues in the waiting room. As we juggle ride-sharing and beating the clock to make it to a show, patience becomes more than a virtue—it’s a punchline! With each mishap and small victory, we explore the humor woven into life's everyday trials.

The laughs don’t stop as we navigate the eccentricities of life in Austin, where unexpected encounters with cockroaches and awkward Facebook dating moments abound. Reflecting on the privilege of being exceptionally good-looking, we share tales of unforgettable interactions with stunning show-goers. With gig announcements, humorous anecdotes, and a nod to future escapades, we wrap everything up on a high note. Join us for a fun-filled romp through life's oddities, and engage with our community as we celebrate the chaos together!

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Ever wondered why New Year's resolutions seem to fizzle out faster than a New Year's Eve sparkler? Join me on a hilarious journey where I share my own escapades, like the time I found myself napping in my car between shifts as a ride-share driver. Adulting is a circus act, and I'm the clown juggling work, personal life, and the absurdities of our day-to-day routines. From the comedy club where patrons struggle with phone etiquette to the relatable struggle of choosing stability over passion, there's no shortage of laughs as we navigate the often chaotic reality of adulthood.

Let's not forget the quirky world of community college life, where being valedictorian is a title as unexpected as the peculiar campus smells. We'll poke fun at societal misconceptions, like the "blue blood" myth, and explore the random hilarity of social interactions in 2025. Caught up in the ever-chaotic world, humor is our refuge, especially within Austin's vibrant comedy scene. With tales of awkward mishaps and the art of calling out nonsense, you'll find yourself laughing and nodding along. Stick around for a giggle-filled ride and connect on social media for even more comedic insights and upcoming shows.

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