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  • It's All About to Flip Upside Down | How Opposites Define Our Reality

    Don't you get this feeling that something is about to flip upside down on the world stage? Like things are about to change in a rather drastic way?


    Well, I have some possible, rudimentary analysis taking inspiration from Surah Kahf, Surah Waqiah, and the works of the likes of Ibn Khaldun and Shaykh Abdul Qadir Jilani


    How do opposites define our reality? I delve into the concept of inversion as seen in religious texts and our society.


    Drawing insights from Surah Kahf and the works of Sheikh Abdul Qadir Jilani, I explore how what appears on the outside often contrasts sharply with the inner reality. High and low statuses are not as they seem—those who are downtrodden may actually be honored, and vice versa.


    Join me as I unravel how these themes of inversion and perception play out in today's world. Reflect on whether those at the peak of success are genuinely in favor with Allah or merely conforming to a flawed system. It's time we stopped taking outward appearances at face value and started seeking deeper truths.


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    Dive into this insightful discussion and let's bridge spirituality with critical social commentary.


    #IslamicPerspective #Collapse #SystemCritique #InwardSuccess #Corruption


    CHAPTERS:

    0:00 - The world is due a reset

    0:37 - The concept of opposites in Surah Kahf

    4:47 - The concept of inversion in society today

    10:15 - Signs of the Unraveling

    11:28 - The Unraveling Has Already Started

    12:00 - Looking Forward to the Other Side


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    14 min
  • ADHD, Autism, and the Struggle with Social Masks ft. Faisal Hussain

    Living with ADHD and autism presents unique challenges, especially when it comes to wearing social masks. In this video, Faisal, a 3rd generation British Muslim and an ADHD coach delves deep into the struggle of masking ADHD and autism. Reflecting on cultural expectations, trauma, and neurodiversity, he shares personal stories and insights into how these factors shape our daily lives.


    Maybe it's the societal pressure or the fear of rejection, but many of us feel compelled to hide our true selves. Faisal discusses the journey of stripping away these social masks, the importance of self-reflection, and how ancestral trauma impacts our present.


    Join us as we explore the complexities of ADHD, autism, and the reality of social masks. How do these elements affect our interactions and relationships? What can we learn from our past to improve our future?


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    #ADHD #Autism #BritishMuslims #Trauma #SocialMasks #Neurodiversity #PeakPerformance #ReligiousManipulation


    #AdhdAndTrauma #SocialMasksTrauma #AdhdSymptoms #LifeWithAutism #AdhdJourney


    CHAPTERS:

    0:00 - Intro

    1:35 - Your Ancestral Journey

    3:35 - Intergenerational Trauma

    6:02 - How Trauma Impacts You Physiologically

    12:06 - The Mask

    15:12 - Why Did You Have to Mask Yourself

    20:29 - The Education System

    23:20 - People with Masks

    25:26 - The Mechanic

    27:27 - How to Regulate Emotions

    28:48 - Conversations with Nature

    33:00 - Seeing Past the Mask

    34:00 - The Problems with Taking Your Mask Off

    39:40 - Allah Exposing You for Who You Really Are

    45:56 - The Facade of the World We Live In

    50:03 - Dodging Taxes

    52:35 - Earthing the Body

    54:32 - Tupac Shakur

    57:54 - How Do You Ground Yourself

    1:00:22 - Grounding Techniques

    1:02:05 - Importance of Community

    1:04:04 - Sunnah Sports

    1:06:23 - Importance of Speaking the Truth

    1:09:00 - The Older Generation

    1:13:12 - Removing the Mask and Surah Waqiah



    So many of us are walking around wearing masks we don't even know we have on. Intergenerational trauma leads to other mental health issues such as ADHD and Autism which in turn can also lead us to wearing masks we can't even perceive ourselves.



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    1 hr 20 min
  • 12 Hours Unplugged: My Unexpected Joy and Clarity

    Maybe the only way to quiet the chatter in our minds and to achieve a state of natural abundance and euphoria is to put away our mobile phones and do away with all screens and just be out in nature with the elements.


    In this video, I tell the story about how I made this possible discovery that might be the simplest answer that we need.


    Join me on a surprising journey in "12 Hours Unplugged: My Unexpected Joy and Clarity," where I explore the profound effects of disconnecting from our digital chains. Let's be honest, we've all felt the overwhelming grip of social media addiction and the constant barrage of notifications. But what happens when you go completely off-grid for a whole day?


    In this video, I share a personal story that unfolded on a seemingly ordinary weekend, which turned into an extraordinary revelation about happiness, presence, and the simplicity of life without screens. It's time we stopped allowing our gadgets to dictate our emotional states. Maybe it's the serene disconnection, or perhaps it's the joy of being truly present that brings us back to our center—what do you think?


    This experience made me question: Could stepping back from our devices be the key to peak performance in our personal lives? How does spiritual and emotional clarity influence our overall well-being?


    Let's dive deeper into these questions together. Watch the video to uncover how small changes can lead to monumental shifts in our state of being. And if you're seeking to engage more actively with these topics, join us in Discord by signing up via Patreon: [Patreon Link] Join the conversation and let's navigate the path to a more mindful, connected life together.


    #MobilePhone #TechnologyDetox #EscapingScreenTime #SensoryOverload #CampingWithoutPhone


    CHAPTERS:

    0:00 - Sensory Input Emotional Impact

    0:49 - Life-Changing Personal Story

    4:31 - Sensory vs Emotional State

    5:45 - Overcoming Mental Overload

    6:32 - Relaxation Techniques at Home




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    8 min
  • Balancing Worldly Goals with Spiritual Needs

    Have we made all our preparations for the day we meet Allah, or are we busy preparing for everything in this life and very little for the hereafter?


    Balancing worldly goals with spiritual needs is a challenge we all face, but have we paused to reflect on its impact? Let's be honest, we often find ourselves prioritizing the mundane—renovations, career advancements, and even our children's education—over our spiritual growth. Maybe it's the constant hustle that distracts us from what truly matters. In this thought-provoking video, I dive into the pitfalls of allowing these distractions to dominate our lives and the profound effects on our relationship with Allah.


    It's time we stopped and asked ourselves: Are we merely filling our days with tasks to avoid facing the bigger, more eternal questions? Are these activities bringing us closer to spiritual fulfillment or just temporary satisfaction? Join me as we explore how even "harmless" distractions can veer us away from meaningful self-reflection and spiritual enlightenment.


    This reflection is particularly poignant for us, British Muslims, as we navigate our dual identities in a world that relentlessly pushes towards peak performance. From the nuances of religious manipulation to the subtle pressures of societal expectations, the discussion is both critical and enlightening.


    If this resonates with you, let's continue the conversation. Join us in Discord by signing up via Patreon: [Patreon Link]


    #AddictionToBusyness #MindfulnessPractice #InnerStrength #SocietalPressures #SpiritualDistractions


    CHAPTERS:

    0:00 - Pre-cap

    2:00 - Perfectionism Culture

    4:00 - Economic Crisis Impact

    4:28 - Ramadan Reflections

    4:44 - Geopolitical Event Lessons

    6:16 - Strengthening Heart Clarity

    7:20 - Societal Ills and Weak Hearts




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    10 min
  • From Sugar Highs to Salad Days: The Shift That Changed Everything ft. Ibrahim Hussain

    Navigating the complexities of modern life, especially as young British Muslims striving for peak performance while upholding our values, is no small feat. In this illuminating conversation, we delve deep into the heart of societal issues that not only affect us personally but also shape our collective future. From the overindulgence in sugar and its stupefying effects to the silent epidemic of screen addiction that's disconnecting us from each other, we cover it all.


    But it's not all doom and gloom. Amidst the challenges, there's a glimmer of hope and transformation. The journey from succumbing to unhealthy temptations to embracing a more mindful and fulfilling lifestyle is nothing short of revolutionary. It's time we stopped letting screens dictate our interactions and started valuing the simple, yet profound, moments of connection.


    Ibrahim is in his adolescent years but has profound wisdom on his hands. He has had some acute experiences that have profoundly changed the way he views the world and I wanted to capture that for us all to benefit from.


    Ibrahim is the son of Ateeq Hussain who was on the previous episode.



    Maybe it's the silent battles fought in the privacy of our homes, like overcoming the lure of Nutella for breakfast, that lead to the most significant victories. Or perhaps it's recognizing the power of water, exercise, and a healthy diet in achieving not just physical, but mental clarity and peak performance.


    This isn't just about diet and screen time; it's about redefining what it means to live a good life in the modern world, free from the clutches of sugar rushes and screen glares.


    Let this video be a starting point for deeper reflection and conversation. How are we, as a community and as individuals, responding to these challenges? Are we succumbing to ease and comfort, or are we willing to make the tough changes necessary for our growth?


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    Your thoughts, experiences, and insights matter. Together, let's navigate from the sugar highs to the salad days, forging a path towards better health, deeper connections, and a more meaningful life.


    #ParentteenRelationships #SaladDays #WellnessJourney #TeenMentalWellbeing #MindfulLiving


    #WellnessJourney #TeenMentalWellbeing #TeenHealthAndNutrition #FamilyDynamics #RaisingHealthyTeens


    CHAPTERS:

    0:00 - Pre-cap

    1:55 - Sugar Impact on Intelligence

    6:44 - Teen Issues Today

    9:42 - Current Global Events

    12:42 - Global Decline Concerns

    17:17 - Solutions for Global Issues

    19:53 - Advice for Peers

    21:22 - Youth Stress Factors



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    23 min
  • Feeling Heard by Allah: A Journey in Dua

    My dua has changed over the last few weeks and now I feel far more contentment and peace in making dua and actually feel heard in a way that I have never done before.


    In "Feeling Heard by Allah: A Journey in Dua," I delve deep into the essence of supplication and connection. Let's be honest, how often do we find ourselves reciting a 'shopping list' of desires in our Duas, questioning if we're truly being heard? It's time we stopped treating these sacred moments as a one-way wish list and started embracing them as a profound dialogue with the Divine.


    In this reflective video, I share a transformative experience that shifted my perspective on Dua from mere requests to a vulnerable, open-hearted conversation with Allah. Discover how, by embracing vulnerability and addressing Allah with His beautiful names, we can feel genuinely heard, even if our Duas aren't answered in the ways we expect. Maybe it's the act of pouring our hearts out that brings us closer to our Creator, offering solace and understanding in ways we hadn't imagined.




    Whether you're seeking solace, guidance, or a deeper understanding of your spiritual journey, this video is for you. Let's navigate the complexities of connection and supplication together, finding comfort in being truly heard by Allah.


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    #Prayer #DistillByKhuramMalik #Supplication #JourneyInDua #RationalDua


    #SeekingRelief #SupplicationTechniques #FeelingHeard #MakeDua #Salah


    CHAPTERS:

    0:00 - Pre-Cap

    0:24 - Learning to Make Dua

    3:05 - Recent Dua Experiences

    6:36 - Vulnerability in Supplication

    9:15 - Prophets' Duas

    9:55 - Heartfelt Dua Importance




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    12 min
  • Escaping the Sweet Trap: Practical Steps to Better Health ft. Ateeq Hussain

    Ateeq had a thriving ice cream parlour business doing what he loves with very satisfied customers, yet he still chose to shut the business down. Why?


    Let's be honest, the allure of sweetness has ensnared many of us in a cycle detrimental to our well-being. In "Escaping the Sweet Trap: Practical Steps to Better Health," we delve into the stark reality of sugar's grip on our health and the transformative journey of overcoming it. It's time we stopped equating happiness with harmful indulgences. Maybe it's the pervasive myths we've been fed, or perhaps it's the comfort we find in the familiar taste of sugar. But at what cost? From discussing the profound impacts of sugar on men's health to the deceptive comfort food provides in times of distress, this video is a wake-up call. It's not just about cutting down on sweets; it's about reclaiming control over our health and making informed choices that nourish rather than harm. Join us as we explore alternatives that not only satisfy the palate but also heal the body and soul. It's a journey towards better health, one step at a time. Ready to break free from the sweet trap? Join us in Discord by signing up via Patreon: [Patreon Link]


    Listen to Ateeq's story about how we clawed himself back from diabetes and is now trying to educate others in the dangers of a bad diet.


    #SugarAndIntelligence #SugarAndBrainFog #BalancedDiet #SugarAndCardiovascularHealth #SugarAndArthritis


    CHAPTERS:

    0:00 - Intro

    1:39 - Impact of Deaths on Personal Life

    3:38 - Entrepreneurial Journey in Wellness

    8:44 - Transition to Alternative Medicine

    11:17 - Critique of Private Healthcare Systems

    17:03 - Cognitive Effects of Sugar Consumption

    18:56 - Sugar Addiction Crisis

    21:05 - Empowerment Through Dietary Choices

    23:20 - Profit-Driven Health Destruction

    27:18 - Capitalism Critique: Health Perspective

    29:43 - Historical Context of Sugar Consumption

    31:58 - Valuing Time and Health

    34:05 - Personal Growth Through Adversity

    38:35 - Learning Life Lessons from Everyone

    42:16 - Prioritizing Health in Life

    43:18 - Dealing with Imposter Syndrome

    49:30 - Lifestyle Changes for Better Health

    50:24 - Healthy Morning Routine Insights

    54:10 - Breakfast Choices for Optimal Health

    1:03:26 - Hydration and Nutrition Essentials



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    1 hr 6 min
  • NLP & Islam: Transforming Lives Beyond Limits ft. Shahid Abu Yusra

    Embarking on a journey of transformation where the profound teachings of Islam intertwine with the innovative techniques of NLP, we delve into a narrative that challenges the bounds of personal and spiritual growth. In "NLP & Islam: Transforming Lives Beyond Limits," we uncover the resilience and metamorphosis of individuals facing life's tumultuous storms. Through a tapestry of powerful stories, we explore how Neurolinguistic Programming, when harmonized with the rich values of Islam, becomes a catalyst for overcoming adversity, achieving peak performance, and embarking on a path of success and enlightenment.


    Let's be honest, in our quest for personal development, we often overlook the spiritual dimensions that ground us. It's time we stopped. Join Shahid and Khuram as they navigate the intersections of faith and psychology, shedding light on how embracing our spiritual identity can amplify our capacity to thrive in the face of challenges. From tales of loss and despair to narratives of revival and triumph, this dialogue invites us to reimagine the contours of our potential.


    Brother Shahid Abu Yusra is a certified trainer and coach in the practice of NLP: Neuro Linguistic Programming. A set of tools that help us re-wire our brains and hack our mindsets for positive growth and success.


    Shahid shares his own struggles in this video along with how NLP helped him and is now helping many others. Shahid is responsible for training many well known names in the British Muslim Diaspora.


    Maybe it's the wisdom ingrained in the teachings of Islam or the transformative power of NLP; this video is an invitation to witness how blending ancient wisdom with modern techniques can illuminate the path to personal mastery and spiritual fulfillment. Whether you're navigating the waters of British Muslims' identity, seeking peak performance, or wary of religious manipulation, this conversation offers insights that resonate with the core of our being.


    Join us in Discord by signing up via Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/khurammalik. Let this be the beginning of a journey where we unravel the layers of our existence, guided by faith and empowered by the science of change.


    #Mindset #Success #Transformation #NlpInsights #PersonalGrowth


    CHAPTERS:

    0:00 - Intro

    1:30 - Shahid Abu Yousaf's NLP Journey

    3:53 - Understanding NLP Basics

    6:16 - Islamic NLP Course Success Story

    9:55 - NLP for Dawah Purposes

    11:32 - Shaykh Akram's Dawah Experiences

    12:55 - Identifying Dangerous Narcissists

    14:57 - Assisting the Unwilling to Change

    18:54 - Questioning Techniques for Self-Help

    21:02 - Transforming Personal Thought Processes

    23:18 - Analysis of Tony Robbins' Techniques

    29:30 - Sharing Personal Growth Struggles

    31:35 - Shahid's Early Life Challenges

    33:03 - Educational System Challenges

    37:24 - Overcoming Educational Barriers

    40:17 - The Significance of Perception

    42:40 - Media Impact on Mindset

    44:40 - Overcoming Personal Hardships

    47:15 - Sole Reliance on Allah

    51:09 - Exploring the Power of Faith

    52:55 - The Role of Forgiveness in Growth

    55:50 - Late Parenthood Insights

    57:00 - The Value of Being Present

    1:02:54 - Last Words from a Father

    1:09:40 - The Concept of The Inverse Society

    1:11:50 - Building Personal Capacity

    1:13:46 - The Aversion to Critical Thinking

    1:17:34 - Dangers of Instant Gratification

    1:19:50 - Combatting Inaction Excuses

    1:22:13 - Understanding The Interregnum

    1:24:57 - Pursuing Beneficial Knowledge

    1:27:35 - Outro



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    1 hr 29 min
  • The Lost Art of Guilds: Thriving in Modern Entrepreneurship

    Discover the "Lost Art of Guilds: Thriving in Modern Entrepreneurship" and reclaim the camaraderie and support that once flourished within the ancient guilds. In a world where the line between the security of employment and the freedom of entrepreneurship blurs, the resurgence of guilds could be the haven we've been seeking. Let's be honest, the journey of an entrepreneur can be a solitary one, fraught with challenges that often feel insurmountable alone. But what if there was a way to blend the best of both worlds? Imagine a space where innovation meets tradition, where you're part of a team yet fully independent, where your creative aspirations find both the support and the freedom they need to flourish. Maybe it's time we stopped accepting the dichotomy of employment versus entrepreneurship as an absolute and started exploring the rich potential of guilds in our modern economy. Join us as we delve into the history, the benefits, and the undeniable charm of guilds, and how they could be the key to not only surviving but thriving in today's entrepreneurial landscape. Let this video be your guide to understanding how you can be part of a collective that emboldens your individual strengths, fosters community, and paves the way for a new era of collaborative success. Join us in Discord by signing up via Patreon: [Patreon Link]


    #FinancialStability #EntrepreneurialJourney #GuildSystem #CooperativeLearning #EscapeThe95


    #Guilds #BusinessStrategy #Selfemployment #GuildMembership #GuildRevenueSharing


    CHAPTERS:

    0:00 - Salaried vs Entrepreneurship vs Guilds

    2:14 - Salaried Employment Benefits & Drawbacks

    4:25 - Entrepreneurship Advantages & Challenges

    5:34 - Guilds Pros & Cons

    7:57 - Infrastructure as a Service Explained

    8:58 - Guilds & IaaS Integration

    9:49 - Entry Barriers in Business

    10:23 - Education & Apprenticeship Importance

    10:39 - Crafting the Ideal Economic System

    12 min
  • Prophetic Legacy: The Honour in Being an Outcast

    People get labelled as weird for the smallest of things and often, just because they go against the grain or the status-quo, they're considered weird. But what is normal even?


    In this video I embark on a reflective journey, confronting the unsettling truth about societal norms and the valour in being deemed 'strange' by those very standards. Let's be honest, in a world where following the crowd is seen as the path of least resistance, making choices that deviate from the status quo can often label one as an outcast. But maybe it’s the outcasts, those who embrace the strangeness of Islam, who are truly aligned with the most authentic version of themselves and, indeed, the most beloved by Allah.


    Through the lens of history and the teachings of Islam, this video delves into the essence of what it means to challenge the prevailing narrative. It's time we stopped to question: What does it mean to be normal in a society that often goes against the very nature of man? From the Mongol era to today's complex societal structures, the pursuit of staying true to one's fitra (innate nature) amidst an unnatural economy and societal expectations is a courageous act of defiance.


    Featuring insights on how Islam views the concept of 'strangeness' and the historical context in which being apart from the norm was seen as a position of honour, this video is a call to deeper understanding and acceptance of one's path, even when it diverges from the mainstream.


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    Whether you're grappling with the challenges of being a British Muslim striving for peak performance in a society rife with religious manipulation, or simply seeking to understand the wisdom behind the prophetic sayings about being 'strange,’ this video offers a beacon of hope and solidarity. I explore the profound implications of embracing Islam's strangeness in the quest for personal and spiritual growth.


    Remember, the journey of self-discovery and spiritual awakening is often a solitary one, but it is also marked by the promise of divine companionship and ultimate redemption. Join us as we uncover the courage it takes to defy norms and celebrate the strangeness that brings us closer to our Creator.


    #IslamicPrinciples #Normal #IslamicTeachings #Courage #SocietalRejection


    CHAPTERS:

    0:00 - Intro

    0:13 - Defining Normality in Society

    4:17 - The Impact of Emotional Isolation

    5:42 - Blessings for the Strangers in Islam





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    8 min

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Talking Money, Masculinity and Medicine.

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