Ditch The Script

Ditch The Script

By Alex Scot & Brianna DachisenSociety & CultureRelationships
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Ditch The Script episodes

  • Set Up or Split Up?

    In this weeks episode Bri & Alex unpack Married At First Sight's Season 14 Episode 1. 

    We go through a quick analysis of each couple & then unpack Mark & Lindsey's initial meeting or shall we say marriage? We discuss different concerns around boundaries at strip clubs, signs of unresolved trauma, misogynistic behaviors, attachment style clues & more! Buckle up because this episode is jam packed with golden nuggets of wisdom! 

    We end the episode with a Reddit question that discusses dating after 30! Is it bad to be picky & not settle? How do we know when someone is stuck in victim mindset? 

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    1 hr 23 min
  • The Trouble With Trusting Your Heart

    In this episode we discuss the difficulties between following your heart or listening to your logical mind while dating & looking for "the one". Michelle Young's final decision caught many by surprise & we are here to break down exactly what happened & what led her to choosing Nayte in the end! 

    The Bachelorette's "After The Final Rose" exposed more concerns around the dynamic between Nayte & Michelle, and we also discuss Brandon's exit & the contrast between the final 2 contestants. 

    Then we have a listener Q that asks: how do you leave a casual relationship with grace once you realize you don't want the same things?! 

    Plus we HAD to do a little something for the holidays, so check out our 12 DATES of Christmas ideas! 

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    1 hr 43 min
  • F***boy Fantasies!

    In this weeks episode Bri & Alex discuss THE BIGGEST curve ball of the season. We did NOT see this coming, did you?! Michelle Young's (ABC's Bachelorette) remaining suitors get their nights in the Fantasy Suite! We both saw a LOT of red flags and also a LOT of green flags, but the biggest surprise of it ALL is .... you'll have to listen to find out. 


    We also have a follow up Q from a Listener this week! This listener asks: can you be friends with an ex even when your dating/in a relationship with someone else? .......Relatable AF, right? We unpack ALL the angles to this question to give a well rounded answer on how to navigate this within romantic relationships! 


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    Timestamps:

    Intro: 00:27

    Bach Breakdown: 23:05

    Red Flag & Green Flag: 01:25:50

    Listener Q: 01:31:16

    1 hr 42 min
  • The Pizza Peace Deal

    This week Michelle Young's suitors dish on ABC The Bachelorette episode of, "The Men Tell All"! In this episode of Ditch The Script, we discuss the BIGGEST red flags spotted during this very dramatic evening of gossip. 

    We discuss gaslighting, manipulation, fake apologies, & so much more! 

    We also point out some serious GREEN FLAGS from men whom Michelle sent home far too early (in Alex's opinion at least 😝). One thing is for sure, pizza is the #1 conflict resolution tactic, as proven by this weeks "Men Tell All" episode! 

    In addition we answer a listener Q on unhealthy fighting tactics like yelling & swearing at our partner's during heated events & what to do about it! 

    Screenshot the episode & tag us on IG story @ditchthescriptpod if you're listening! 

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    Timestamps:

    Catchup & Updates: 00:27

    Bach Breakdown: 29:20

    Red Flag & Green Flag: 01:01:40

    Listener Q: 01:05:16

    1 hr 17 min
  • Meet Mom & Go To Prom

    In this episode, we unpack each hometown, family dynamic, & remaining suitor as they chase after Michelle Young’s heart on ABC’s The Bachelorette!

    We also DEEP DIVE into the age old question, “Can men & women, really be just friends?”

    Brianna updates us on her dating life & what she is experiencing as she looks for her match!

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    1 hr 45 min
  • Grateful Dates & Full Plates 🦃

    In this episode of Ditch The Script turkey day edition, Bri & I discuss some of our favorite Thanksgiving traditions, memories & foods! You have to hit us up on the gram on your thoughts of "The Great Potato Debate"! 

    Then we jump right in & get down & dirty as we discuss our thoughts on this weeks episode of Michelle Young's The Bachelorette. We spotted some NASTY toxic behavior from Martin, so we discuss the details on the lying, blame shifting, & manipulation! 

    We also have a listener question on height dynamics within relationships & the dating scene! 

    Rate & Review our show if you love it! Your support means so much to us. 

    And Have A HAPPY THANKSGIVING! 💖

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    Timestamps: 

    Intro: 00:27

    Holiday: 13:30

    Bach Breakdown: 35:04

    1:1 Clayton: 43:09

    Group Date: 53:30

    1:1 Brendon???: 1:06:39

    Rose Ceremony: 1:12:51

    Listener Q: 1:19:20

    1 hr 28 min
  • Whiny B*tches & Dating Standards

    Ready to hear what whiny manipulation sounds like?! In this episode, Bri & Alex unpack the interactions of Michelle Young's remaining suitors. From thoughtful interactions to victimhood, this episode is packed full with all the words & behaviors you should be keeping an eye out for when looking for a long-term relationship! 

    The Reddit Q of the week is SOOO relatable. Dating rules? Which ones are legit & which ones are bull s***? Bri & Alex give their honest opinions! 


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    1 hr 18 min
  • Finding Love In The Hard Conversations

    In this week's episode of Ditch The Script, the suitors of Michelle Young, The Bachelorette, are called out for their lack of communication skills! 

    We discuss how to spot when someone is dysregulated, loads of communication tips, as well as point out the few green flags we spotted in this weeks Bachelorette episode! 

    We also answer 2 listener questions: 

    1) He wants kids & she is on the fence, they've been together for almost 3 years, what do they do?! 

    2) She's been dating this guy & wants to discuss exclusivity but doesn't want to sound clingy. How soon is too soon to ask for exclusivity? How do you bring it up without sounding like a clinger?! 

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    Time Stamps: 

    Bach Breakdown: 10:33

    1:1 Martin - 12:94

    Group date - 25:27

    1:1 Rick - 44:48

    Reflag/greenflag- 5933

    Listener Qs? - 1:02:55

    1 hr 21 min
  • Liar Liar Pants On Fire 🔥 & Is Cheating A Dealbreaker?

    In this episode Bri & I break down The Bachelorette week 4 & unpack Peter's vindictive behavior, Jamie's web of lies, & we cap the episode with a question on infidelity from Reddit! 

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    Show Timestamps:

    Group Date #1: 11:40 

    Rodeny's 1:1 Date: 25:47

    Group Date #2: 37:03

    Cocktail Party/Rose Ceremony: 50:14

    Red Flag & Green Flags Of The Week: 56:38

    Reddit Q: 1:00:09

    1 hr 9 min
  • Contempt, Fights, & Classroom Etiquette

    In Michelle Young's 2nd Bachelorette episode a lot came to the light! 

    Bri & I unpack the good, the bad, & the absolute most ugly that we saw. Get ready to learn how to spot it all! 

    From contempt to healthy fighting skills, Bri & I point out the "red flags" & what to look for instead. 

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    1 hr 6 min

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