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Today I am talking with Dr. Shawn Horn who is a licensed psychologist, author, and inspirational speaker.

In addition to her private practice in Spokane WA, she serves as faculty at the University of Washington’s Medical School (Spokane’s Psychiatric Residency Program), provides clinical supervision and mentoring to medical providers.

Dr. Horn is also a Columnist for TOI magazine, hosts Inspired Living Podcast, is a media consultant, founder of Instagram's The Psychology Directory, host of YouTube’s Digital Practice and author of Shame-Buster!

With over 27 years’ experience in the mental health field she is now bringing the wisdom of the therapy room to larger audiences. Her mission is to bust through shame, ignite hope and inspire wholehearted living! Her moto, “Transform from the person you were programmed to be into the person you were designed to be!”

Tune in today to hear our conversations around courage. Why you should be taking courageous imperfect action, what causes perfectionism and learning where shame comes from.

There is great value in doing something you’ve never done before which we chat about as well as why and when you need to uplevel.

Setting intentions is so important. You just must trust and faith in the process. There is power in being still which we share on as well.

How to turn your pain into purpose, leaning into our truth, journaling it out, creating affirmations and putting a value on our own words.

All this and so much more today on today’s episode. Once you listen, you’ll know why I had to have Dr. Shawn Horn back on!

Did you love this episode? Let me know by leaving me some buzz on Apple Podcasts. While you’re there be sure to rate, review and subscribe so you don’t miss a thing! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cup-of-joy-the-podcast/id1486352885?mt=2&ls=1

Are you looking to WIN the food and body battle and reclaim your joy? Grab your FREE Five-Day Body Joy Planner here: https://joyfullybee.com/

To learn more about my Joyful Services visit https://joyfullybee.com/

Join The Body Joy Collective Today! We’ll have morning sessions including breath, intention setting, energy work and movement plus interactive group sessions (4) times in the next 3 months, using the Hungry for Happiness Book by Samantha Skelly as the guide. Join here: https://gum.co/WYVyY

*Use code cupofjoy50 for 50% off when you join today!

Note: Group opened on Monday, September 21, 2020 and all Morning sessions are recorded for you to access at your convenience throughout your membership!

CONNECT WITH HEIDI

Join The Joy Vibe Tribe: https://www.facebook.com/groups/joyvibetribe/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joyfullybee/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Heidibeesfitness

Show Notes: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/listen/

Website:  https://joyfullybee.com/

Email List: https://linktr.ee/joyfullybee

Cup of Joy Store: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/shop/

CONNECT WITH DR. SHAWN HORN

Website: www.drshawnhorn.com

Inspired Living Podcast on Apple Podcasts:

https://pcr.apple.com/id1409283742

Inspired Living Podcast on Google Podcasts: https://play.google.com/music/m/I3dnkzsogoz6kpvupg7qfa2axsy?t=Inspired_Living

YouTube: www.youtube.com/c/drshawnhorn

YouTube: www.youtube.com/c/theshamesisters

Instagram: www.instagram.com/drshawnhorn

Facebook: www.facebook.com/drshawnhorn

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Jamie Lerner, co-author of the book The Ever-Loving Essence of You, can put a fresh spin on just about anything that anyone throws her way. Her unique and masterful ability to re-frame even the most difficult situations is astounding.

All of a sudden, your biggest nightmare becomes your greatest pleasure as she lovingly helps you sift through the contrast and find that small opening of light that quickly becomes your greatest jumping off point for clarity.

Unassuming, reassuring and seemingly without any sense of ego, Jamie Lerner is able to put everyone and everything at ease. Jamie Lerner is an asset to any corporate setting. She is easily able to untangle the issues at hand and move right along into helping facilitate a solution-based platform for creative, productive, good-feeling collaboration and change.

Jamie can most often be seen working with individuals, children, adults and couples as well as with small groups. She never positions herself as the expert of anything and is always reminding you that it is you who knows best for yourself ALWAYS.

Tune in today to hear Jamie share with us why it is important to sit quietly with ourselves and have self-love and enjoy this self-care for ourselves and why releasing in laughter is needed.

Jamie also shares why we need to step into power and have control. Jamie also talks about her relationship with her mother and the transitions that happened with her.

The purpose of life is joy and we need to tap into that and be able to manage our thoughts and walk in with deliberate creation. Jamie and I go deep into these conversations today and we cannot wait to hear your thoughts on these topics…

Did you love this episode? Let me know by leaving me some buzz on Apple Podcasts.

While you’re there be sure to rate, review and subscribe so you don’t miss a thing! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cup-of-joy-the-podcast/id1486352885?mt=2&ls=1

Are you looking to WIN the food and body battle and reclaim your joy? Grab your FREE Five-Day Body Joy Planner here: https://joyfullybee.com/

To learn more about my Joyful Services visit https://joyfullybee.com/

Join The Body Joy Collective Today! We’ll have morning sessions including breath, intention setting, energy work and movement plus interactive group sessions (4) times in the next 3 months, using the Hungry for Happiness Book by Samantha Skelly as the guide. Join here: https://gum.co/WYVyY

*Use code cupofjoy50 for 50% off when you join today!

Note: Group opened on Monday, September 21, 2020 and all Morning sessions are recorded for you to access at your convenience throughout your membership!

CONNECT WITH HEIDI

Join The Joy Vibe Tribe: https://www.facebook.com/groups/joyvibetribe/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joyfullybee/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Heidibeesfitness

Show Notes: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/listen/

Website:  https://joyfullybee.com/

Email List: https://linktr.ee/joyfullybee

Cup of Joy Store: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/shop/

CONNECT WITH JAMIE

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamie_lerner/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lerner.jamie

Website: http://www.jamie-lerner.com/

Special Offer: Free 15 minutes of Jamie's The Quickie: A Lovely Texting Option:
http://jamie-lerner.com/quickie-texting.html

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In today’s solo jam I am sharing more on breathwork. What it is, how to use it, the benefits and simplicity of it.

As I am going through my breathwork facilitator program right now, I thought it would be good to share with you all the joy the breath can bring.

This episode has been repurposed from a Facebook live I did the other day because I knew more people needed to learn more on breath.

Also, did you know you can now ask Alexa to play Cup of Joy The Podcast. That’s right. Amazon Music is now spreading some of this podcast joy over on Amazon Music. How exciting is that?

Tune in today to hear how breath can help you move your emotions, help heal from trauma, be added to your daily routine and how breath is actually the body’s natural way of healing itself.

I also share how consumption without integration equals frustration. I will be diving into this more on this week’s solo jam.

Did you love this episode? Let me know by leaving me some buzz on Apple Podcasts.

While you’re there be sure to rate, review and subscribe so you don’t miss a thing! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cup-of-joy-the-podcast/id1486352885?mt=2&ls=1

Are you looking to WIN the food and body battle and reclaim your joy? Grab your FREE Five-Day Body Joy Planner here: https://joyfullybee.com/

To learn more about my Joyful Services visit https://joyfullybee.com/

Mentioned Today: Join The Body Joy Collective Today! We'll have morning sessions including breath, intention setting, energy work and movement plus interactive group sessions (4) times in the next 3 months, using the Hungry for Happiness Book by Samantha Skelly as the guide. Join here: https://gum.co/WYVyY

CONNECT WITH HEIDI

Join The Joy Vibe Tribe: https://www.facebook.com/groups/joyvibetribe/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joyfullybee/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Heidibeesfitness

Show Notes: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/listen/

Website:  https://joyfullybee.com/

Email List: https://linktr.ee/joyfullybee

Cup of Joy Store: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/shop/

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Today I am talking with Kim Bassett, Certified FASTer Way to Fat Loss Coach. Kim shares her junk to joy story with us that revolves around years of unsuccessful fertility treatments which ultimately led to adoption.

Kim chose to reclaim her positive body image after gaining weight from shots and eating to hide pain. She also made a mental mindset shift after coming to terms with knowing that her body could not produce a baby.

She also shares that adoptive moms can have postpartum and it's normal. Kim has also found her purpose in a lifestyle that will keep her around as an older mom and shares all the details on that today. You can connect with Kim and her program below in the notes.

Tune in today to hear more on Kim’s faith, family and why she chose to finally ditch the scale.

Did you love this episode? Let me know by leaving me some buzz on Apple Podcasts.

While you’re there be sure to rate, review and subscribe so you don’t miss a thing! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cup-of-joy-the-podcast/id1486352885?mt=2&ls=1

Are you looking to WIN the food and body battle and reclaim your joy? Grab your FREE Five-Day Body Joy Planner here: https://joyfullybee.com/

To learn more about my Joyful Services visit https://joyfullybee.com/

CONNECT WITH HEIDI

JOIN the Joy Vibe Tribe TODAY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/joyvibetribe/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joyfullybee/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Heidibeesfitness

Show Notes: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/listen/

Website:  https://joyfullybee.com/

Email List: https://linktr.ee/joyfullybee

Cup of Joy Store: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/shop/

CONNECT WITH KIM

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/threadbylove/

Website: https://www.fasterwaycoach.com/community#kimbassett

Link to receive more information on the FASTer Way to Fat Loss program: https://forms.gle/4HpveaTYSbCqwDrJ9

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Dr. Asha Bauer is a psychologist, holistic success coach, and founder of The Consistent Creative. She's dedicated to helping creatives and entrepreneurs trade in the hustle and overwhelm mentality for more flow, productivity, and joy.

Dr. Bauer has over a decade of experience studying flow, mindfulness, and resilience, and helping high performers to clear mental blocks, clarify their values, and define their own version of success, through the right strategy, the right systems, and the right mindset.

When she isn't conducting research or working with clients, Dr. Bauer enjoys travel, design, yoga, extra spicy chai tea lattes, and snugs with her tabby cat, Sati.

When Dr. Bauer was getting her doctorate degree in psychology, she saw a lack of connection to the work within her peers. They were studying topics like mindfulness, motivation, flow, and emotional wellbeing, but encouraged to work in ways that burned us out.

She decided to do things her own way, and found she was much more productive and able to get much more out of life when she prioritized her energy and joy. Now she has embraced a big, bold, multi-passionate career as a research psychologist, yoga instructor, therapist, business consultant, and a holistic success coach for creatives and entrepreneurs.

Dr. Bauer believes that success can FEEL like success, and that the idea that we need to pass through a period of total burnout on the way is a destructive myth in our society. We can develop a more gritty, flowing, and joyful way of working through the right strategy, the right systems, and the right mindset.

This process requires you look within and use your own inner wisdom rather than relying on external messages you are receiving, glorifying the hustle, making you feel like there is a formula you need to follow or that you need to find the answers in someone or something outside of you.

Tune in to hear more on Dr. Asha Bauer’s healing journey, how we met, why following generic formulas will not work and why you need to hold your own energy and listen with your body and not your head.

How do you define success? Let us know over on Instagram. Our links are below.

Did you love this episode? Let me know by leaving me some buzz on Apple Podcasts.

While you’re there be sure to rate, review and subscribe so you don’t miss a thing! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cup-of-joy-the-podcast/id1486352885?mt=2&ls=1

Are you looking to WIN the food and body battle and reclaim your joy? Grab your FREE Five-Day Body Joy Planner here: https://joyfullybee.com/

To learn more about my Joyful Services visit https://joyfullybee.com/

CONNECT WITH HEIDI

JOIN the Joy Vibe Tribe TODAY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/joyvibetribe/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joyfullybee/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Heidibeesfitness

Show Notes: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/listen/

Website:  https://joyfullybee.com/

Email List: https://linktr.ee/joyfullybee

Cup of Joy Store: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/shop/

CONNECT WITH DR. ASHA BAUER

Instagram: www.instagram.com/consistentlyasha

Website: www.theconsistentcreative.com

Facebook: www.facebook.com/groups/consistentcreativecollective

Find more flow in your life with the free Vision and Flow Meditation Bundle.

It comes with a visualization meditation to help you tap into a flow state, and journal prompts to help you integrate and find more flow in your life today.

Pick your bundle up here: https://www.subscribepage.com/visionandflow

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In today’s solo jam I am talking about how life can be an adventure. How our brain sometimes works over our body as our navigator. How are we going to play this game of life?

Today I am sharing my thoughts on the differences between adventurers and racers and how we must manage our internal state to handle our external world.

Racers must prove themselves. They like to win and usually run on ego, where adventurers connect with their mind, body and soul and usually reward themselves with life experiences. I’m getting into this today!

I also chat about JOY. Just Own You! Being EPIC and how adventures usually require a true pace and presence.

You have the desire to design a love yourself healthy lifestyle and I am here to show you how.

We are all built to thrive not survive. All this and more on today’s show…

Did you love this episode? Let me know by leaving me some buzz on Apple Podcasts. While you’re there be sure to rate, review and subscribe so you don’t miss a thing! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cup-of-joy-the-podcast/id1486352885?mt=2&ls=1

Are you looking to WIN the food and body battle and reclaim your joy? Grab your FREE Five-Day Body Joy Planner here: https://joyfullybee.com/

To learn more about my Joyful Services visit https://joyfullybee.com/

CONNECT WITH HEIDI

JOIN the Joy Vibe Tribe TODAY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/joyvibetribe/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joyfullybee/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Heidibeesfitness

Show Notes: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/listen/

Website:  https://joyfullybee.com/

Email List: https://linktr.ee/joyfullybee

Cup of Joy Store: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/shop/

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In today’s episode I am sharing an incredible conversation with my friend Kari Mischell. You may remember her from Episode 35. Willpower is Wack. I left you the link below to catch up on that episode after this one.

She is an entrepreneur, motivational speaker, mother of four, food and body freedom coach and an emotional eating expert who has created a coaching program helping women reconnect back into their bodies to heal the root cause of why they diet or overeat.

Kari has completed the Mind/Body Wellness certification through Southwest Institute of Healing Arts and as well as the Food and Body Freedom coaching certification through Hungry for Happiness, a company that has revolutionized the diet industry.

She currently runs an online intimate 1:1 coaching program, group coaching programs and works as a Hungry for Happiness mentor for their coaching certification.

Kari’s passion and mission are to help women end their battle with food and heal their relationship with their bodies so that they can live a life full of peace, presence, and happiness!

Today we are chatting about finding your feminine and being able to feel true pleasure.

Kari shares with us how we can feel comfortable and own our own feminine divinity and how we can feel safe while doing so.

We also get into some religious beliefs, the gilt and shame around this topic as well as how to look one way and feel like another.

From body shaming to stepping into your queen energy and beliefs. We are getting into it all today…

Did you love this episode? Let me know by leaving me some buzz on Apple Podcasts. While you’re there be sure to rate, review and subscribe so you don’t miss a thing! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cup-of-joy-the-podcast/id1486352885?mt=2&ls=1

Are you looking to WIN the food and body battle and reclaim your joy? Grab your FREE Five-Day Body Joy Planner here: https://joyfullybee.com/

To learn more about my Joyful Services visit https://joyfullybee.com/

CONNECT WITH HEIDI

JOIN the Joy Vibe Tribe TODAY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/joyvibetribe/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joyfullybee/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Heidibeesfitness

Show Notes: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/listen/

Website:  https://joyfullybee.com/

Email List: https://linktr.ee/joyfullybee

Cup of Joy Store: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/shop/

CONNECT WITH KARI

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kari.mischell/

Website:  www.starlight-coaching.com

Facebook: https://facebook.com/karimischell/

Books Mentioned in the Show

PUSSY: A Reclamation by Regena Thomashauer

https://www.amazon.com/dp/1401950264/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=Pussy+book&qid=1597427702&sr=8-1

Vagina by Naomi Wolf

https://www.amazon.com/Vagina-Revised-Updated-Naomi-Wolf/dp/0061989177

Listen to Kari’s previous episode here: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/2020/05/28/35-willpower-is-wack-with-kari-mischell/

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Today I am talking with Steph German all about how we can tap into trauma. You may remember Steph from a previous episode where we she shared with us the difference between coaching versus therapy.

If you haven’t listened to that episode yet I linked it for you below.

Steph is a Life Coach who specializes in self love and body image and she helps trauma survivors find their freedom and step into their purpose.

On today’s show we get to hear the science behind how trauma lives and the steps we need to take in order to heal from it.

Trauma is an experience that humans go through when something happens too much, too fast, too soon, too little or too late. Now that may seem a bit intense, but Steph goes over all of this with us today.

From where the trauma lives in our brain to the connection with our nervous system to finding our own window of tolerance. You are going to learn all the science behind this.

Steph also shares the meaning of SIBAM as well as why we have to feel safe to feel and heal and why breath, sound, movement and touch play a very large role in the healing process.

Let you body do as it needs to do. All this and so much more discussed with Steph today. Tune in and share with a friend who may need to hear this kind of content today to benefit in their own healing journey.

Did you love this episode? Let me know by leaving me some buzz on Apple Podcasts. While you’re there be sure to rate, review and subscribe so you don’t miss a thing! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cup-of-joy-the-podcast/id1486352885?mt=2&ls=1

Are you looking to WIN the food and body battle and reclaim your joy? Grab your FREE Five-Day Body Joy Planner here: https://joyfullybee.com/

To learn more about my Joyful Services visit https://joyfullybee.com/

CONNECT WITH HEIDI

JOIN the Joy Vibe Tribe TODAY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/joyvibetribe/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joyfullybee/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Heidibeesfitness

Show Notes: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/listen/

Website:  https://joyfullybee.com/

Email List: https://linktr.ee/joyfullybee

Cup of Joy Store: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/shop/

CONNECT WITH STEPH

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephthegerman/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pages/category/Personal-Coach/Steph-German-Coaching-861571404183309/

Website: https://stephgermancoaching.com/

EPISODE 9: THERAPY VERSUS COACHING: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/2019/12/24/9-therapy-versus-coaching-with-steph-german/

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It is my birthday week! Woo Hoo!

I cannot be any more excited to share this solo jam episode with you. When I sat down to create the content for this show I wasn’t quite sure what I wanted to say or talk about. Then I quickly realized that what I should share are the important life lessons I have learned over the past year.

I feel like not sharing would not be the right thing to do. I am here to help you on your journey and these lessons will absolutely do just that!

Tune in today to hear me get into why loving yourself fully is the first and most important thing you can do.

From desiring to deserving to then designing. I am going to be sharing what I have been able to do with my tools.

Having fun is great. However, please remember that you must always be putting in the work at the same time. Slowing down, learning how to breathe and the daily #joyspotting are also super important. If you don’t believe me check out my Instagram Stories.

Investing in yourself, finding a community and practicing a gratitude practice are also a few things you should be aligned with when you want to be the best.

We are all here on purpose and for a purpose and it all gets to be easy if we allow it to be.

Please let me know your thoughts on this solo jam. I would love to continue this conversation with you. My links are below, so let’s connect!

Did you love this episode? Let me know by leaving me some buzz on Apple Podcasts. While you’re there be sure to rate, review and subscribe so you don’t miss a thing! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cup-of-joy-the-podcast/id1486352885?mt=2&ls=1

Are you looking to WIN the food and body battle and reclaim your joy? Grab your FREE Five-Day Body Joy Planner here: https://joyfullybee.com/

To learn more about my Joyful Services visit https://joyfullybee.com/

CONNECT WITH HEIDI

JOIN the Joy Vibe Tribe TODAY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/joyvibetribe/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joyfullybee/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Heidibeesfitness

Show Notes: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/listen/

Website:  https://joyfullybee.com/

Email List: https://linktr.ee/joyfullybee

Cup of Joy Store: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/shop/

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In today’s solo jam episode, I am sharing a video I live streamed on my Facebook and Instagram. It was so good I simply had to share with you here today.

Today I am talking all about our love language and why it is so important. The power of our thoughts, how they create our reality as well as our belief systems and patterns.

Words are SO powerful, and we must be aware when we are using them especially when we are shifting and changing our energy and trying to better ourselves.

Below are some of the words that I go over on today’s show.

Why is this happening to me?

I have to do this!

I think…

Enjoy.

I feel lost…

I don’t have time for this…

Soon.

Hope.

Tune in to hear all the tools and thoughts surrounding them and how you can reframe your own way of thinking and changing today.

What tools are you currently using? What did you lean into most today? Let me know on Instagram. Click the link below to connect with me today.

Did you love this episode? Let me know by leaving me some buzz on Apple Podcasts. While you’re there be sure to rate, review and subscribe so you don’t miss a thing! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/cup-of-joy-the-podcast/id1486352885?mt=2&ls=1

Are you looking to WIN the food and body battle and reclaim your joy? Grab your FREE Five-Day Body Joy Planner here: https://joyfullybee.com/

To learn more about my Joyful Services visit https://joyfullybee.com/

CONNECT WITH HEIDI

JOIN the Joy Vibe Tribe TODAY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/joyvibetribe/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joyfullybee/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Heidibeesfitness

Show Notes: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/listen/

Website:  https://joyfullybee.com/

Email List: https://linktr.ee/joyfullybee

Cup of Joy Store: https://cupofjoythepodcast.blubrry.net/shop/

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