Why we believe that we're right even when being "right" isn't what we need, what does it rally mean to "put your kids first", and what's the biggest advice for dads? In this episode, Andy Heller , a successful businessman, talks about his separation story and the book that came after: Take the High Road.
Andy Heller is not a divorce professional such as a divorce attorney, mediator, therapist, co-parenting counsellor, or the host of other professionals that support and service those going through divorce.
Among his professional accomplishments, Andy co-authored two best selling real estate investment books in the 2000s. While the books were well received, Andy had no interest in writing another book.
That decision changed after his own divorce.
While navigating through his own divorce Andy read countless support books to help him navigate through the process. While helpful, Andy identified a crucial hole in the self-help space for men and women navigating through divorce. Andy’s book “Take the High Road, Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family” is his give back with a stated goal of making the divorce process easier for those who are considering or who are on the divorce path.
Several factors make his book truly groundbreaking.
First, Andy brings a businessman’s objective perspective into his counsel. Andy interviewed attorneys, divorcees, therapists, co-parenting counselors, mediators, special masters, and others to arrive at advice and guidance from the leading industry experts. Andy presents the guidance in 46 strategies, tools, and tips that armed with the experience and counsel of these experts, the readers can themselves, hopefully their former spouses, and most importantly their children land in a healthier place in the months and years after the conclusion of their divorces.
Shortly after the launch of his book Andy was asked what he is most proud of upon releasing his book.
Andy highlighted the varied glaring reviews from other divorce book authors and expert therapists that serve the divorce community. Such accolades and reviews validated the 8-year project and hours of research that went into the creation of “Take the High Road, Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family”.
I'm Tamir Berkman, a relationship and separation coach for men.
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