Divorce Rich with Jacki Roessler, CDFA

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One of the most frustrating divorce moments is looking at your settlement and thinking, “How am I the higher earner and still the one who feels broke?” We get it, and we see it all the time. Jacki Roessler sits down with Nick Defenthaler, CFP and partner at the Center for Financial Planning, to map out the top financial mistakes men make in divorce and the simple blind spots that can wreck cash flow, trigger tax surprises, or send money to the wrong person years later.

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You can reach Nick at the link below at Center for Financial Planning.

How to Reach Jacki

Visit the new Divorce Rich Podcast page on Jacki's website to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case.  Divorce Rich - Roessler Divorce Consulting.

If you wish to schedule a free 30-minute initial consultation, you can reach Jacki at Roessler Divorce Consulting.

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Center for Financial Planning

The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/

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The moment the decree is signed, real life begins. We walk through the first months of financial independence after a divorce and show how small, steady actions create relief fast. Our guest, Angela Cipriano, a financial coach who rebuilt her own life post-divorce, explains how to move from overwhelm to ownership with checklists, simple systems, and a mindset that actually sticks.

We start by demystifying the roles: a financial coach handles what most advisors skip—beneficiary updates, utility transfers, passwords, bill flow, and day-to-day budgeting—so you can arrive at your planner’s office organized and confident. 

We also tackle the emotional side of money. If you’ve heard “you’re bad with money,” we show how to replace that script with data and small wins. Then we get tactical: why your emergency fund belongs in a high-yield savings account, how to sanity-check a 401(k) allocation, and where to look for signs of hidden accounts using pay stubs, bank statements, and tax schedules. In our mailbag, we answer two big questions: who pays old medical bills after the divorce, and can a “vibes-only” budget work? Spoiler: numbers give you choices, and your decree often decides the bills.

• Reach out to Angela by clicking this link https://www.aiocoachingmi.com/
• To review and download Jacki's post-divorce game plan form, click below: https://www.roesslerdivorce.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/09/post-divorce-gameplan-fillable.pdf
• Listen to the Divorce Rich podcast episode, "Ready, Set, Go" so you can create your post-divorce Game Plan https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ready-set-go-post-divorce-gameplan-divorce-rich-snacks/id1735150222?i=1000691831731

How to Reach Jacki

Visit the new Divorce Rich Podcast page on Jacki's website to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case.  Divorce Rich - Roessler Divorce Consulting.

If you wish to schedule a free 30-minute initial consultation, you can reach Jacki at Roessler Divorce Consulting.

DIVORCE RICH PODCAST SPONSORS

Center for Financial Planning

The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/

DAWN
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We’re joined by Dave Roessler, owner of Divorce Solutions and one of Michigan’s go-to QDRO drafting experts, to unpack the real-world problems he sees each year. We talk about timing mistakes and the language landmines that trigger rejections and unexpected dollar amounts.  We also get specific about loan balances and why “include the loan” can mean the opposite of what you think. Then we move into pension division, survivor benefits, and what can happen if the participant dies or retires before the QDRO is entered. The theme is clear: QDRO drafting is precision work, and doing it sooner protects your money and your peace of mind.

Dave's contact information is below if you wish to work with or if you have questions about your pension or QDRO.

• CLICK HERE to start the QDRO process with Divorce Solutions https://www.divorcesolutionsllc.com/qdros/qdro-forms-and-getting-started/
• Reach out to Dave Roessler of Divorce Solutions, LLC at 248-354-0495 or [email protected]

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How to Reach Jacki

Visit the new Divorce Rich Podcast page on Jacki's website to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case.  Divorce Rich - Roessler Divorce Consulting.

If you wish to schedule a free 30-minute initial consultation, you can reach Jacki at Roessler Divorce Consulting.

DIVORCE RICH PODCAST SPONSORS

Center for Financial Planning

The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/

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Unlock the secrets to regaining financial control after divorce with insights from our special guest, Karen Schultz-Tarnopol, the mastermind behind Heirloom Consulting. Karen offers her wisdom on the often neglected yet vital realm of estate planning and legacy management, shedding light on the intense responsibilities a trustee carries and the sometimes staggering 500 hours it can take to settle an estate. This episode is a treasure trove of advice for single individuals aged 40 to 65, who strive to protect their children and secure their financial future post-divorce. We promise a deep dive into the complexities of estate planning, ensuring you walk away with the tools to maintain control over your financial and personal decisions beyond your lifetime.


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How to Reach Jacki

Visit the new Divorce Rich Podcast page on Jacki's website to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case.  Divorce Rich - Roessler Divorce Consulting.

If you wish to schedule a free 30-minute initial consultation, you can reach Jacki at Roessler Divorce Consulting.

DIVORCE RICH PODCAST SPONSORS

Center for Financial Planning

The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/

DAWN
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Child support sounds like it should “cover everything for the kids,” until prom season hits, it's time to buy your child their first phone, not to mention "back to school" clothes and supplies. I’m Jackie Roessler, a certified divorce financial analyst, and I’m walking you through the gap between what child support guidelines are built to handle and what divorced parents actually pay for in real life, from that first car to summer camps.

We dig into the planning mistakes that trigger repeat conflict; such as failing to forecast life stage expenses.  I explain why many of these costs only get addressed if you negotiate them during the divorce settlement phase. We also talk about the hardest part that nobody wants to face: the conversation with your children. Then we compare options to track receipts and reimbursement. 

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How to Reach Jacki

Visit the new Divorce Rich Podcast page on Jacki's website to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case.  Divorce Rich - Roessler Divorce Consulting.

If you wish to schedule a free 30-minute initial consultation, you can reach Jacki at Roessler Divorce Consulting.

DIVORCE RICH PODCAST SPONSORS

Center for Financial Planning

The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/

DAWN
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The scariest moment in divorce is realizing you might not even know what you’re negotiating. When accounts “disappear,” income suddenly looks smaller, or the lifestyle never matched the paycheck, the problem isn’t just stress, it’s missing data. We want you to have a way to get your footing back.

We’re joined by Michele Laws, a highly specialized CDFA and forensic professional who works with divorce cases involving businesses, complex records, and serious red flags. Michele breaks down what a forensic analyst actually does in a divorce and how that role supports you and your attorney.  Michelle explains how tactics such as diverted payroll, redirected bonuses, and fake invoices can look legitimate until you trace them. 

If you’re navigating divorce financial planning, business valuation, or you simply feel like the numbers don’t add up, this conversation will help you spot the signals and ask better questions. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find the clarity they deserve.

• To learn more about Michele please visit her website https://turningpointfinancialgroup.com/

How to Reach Jacki

Visit the new Divorce Rich Podcast page on Jacki's website to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case.  Divorce Rich - Roessler Divorce Consulting.

If you wish to schedule a free 30-minute initial consultation, you can reach Jacki at Roessler Divorce Consulting.

DIVORCE RICH PODCAST SPONSORS

Center for Financial Planning

The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/

DAWN
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Divorce can flip your life overnight, and the scariest part is how fast money, custody, and control can slip away when you are making decisions on the fly. Jacki Roessler, a certified divorce financial analyst, sits down with Texas attorney Hannah Hembree Bell to talk about what it really means to “divorce rich” by building access to resources, solid information, and a plan you can defend.

Hannah shares how her own divorce and custody journey shaped her practical approach to family law, including what happens when you walk into the process strategically unprepared. Jacki and Hannah dig into why parenting continuity matters, and how high-stakes custody fights can unfold.

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For more information about Hannah and her law practice, please visit Hembree Bell Law Firm or My Confident Divorce Law Firm

How to Reach Jacki

Visit the new Divorce Rich Podcast page on Jacki's website to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case.  Divorce Rich - Roessler Divorce Consulting.

If you wish to schedule a free 30-minute initial consultation, you can reach Jacki at Roessler Divorce Consulting.

DIVORCE RICH PODCAST SPONSORS

Center for Financial Planning

The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/

DAWN
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Most people think divorce “has to” look like a court fight, but that assumption can quietly drain your time, money, and emotional bandwidth. Jacki Roessler sits down with Michigan family law attorney and domestic relations mediator Xavier Prather to break down what divorce mediation actually is, how it differs from traditional litigation, and why the best outcomes often come from better communication rather than better arguments.

We get practical about the two major mediation styles listeners will run into, facilitative mediation versus evaluative mediation, as well as which couples are best suited for mediation. 

Then the conversation takes a fascinating turn: Xavier shares how winning Big Brother sharpened skills that matter in mediation, reading people, staying calm, and reframing emotional statements into something the other side can receive.

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How to Reach Jacki

Visit the new Divorce Rich Podcast page on Jacki's website to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case.  Divorce Rich - Roessler Divorce Consulting.

If you wish to schedule a free 30-minute initial consultation, you can reach Jacki at Roessler Divorce Consulting.

DIVORCE RICH PODCAST SPONSORS

Center for Financial Planning

The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/

DAWN
Divorce Attorneys for Women: Michigan's Original Divorce Attorneys for Michigan.  DAWN - Michigan's Original Divorce Attorneys for Women

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 The first question people ask me, almost without fail, is “How do I pick an attorney?” And I get it. Divorce already feels like your life got flipped, and the legal side can feel like a maze where one wrong turn gets expensive fast. That’s why I brought on Kelsey Minor, Esq. Managing Partner at DAWN in Bingham Farms, Michigan, a firm that has focused on women’s needs for decades. We get specific about what to look for when you’re interviewing a divorce lawyer, what questions to ask, and what “fit” really means when the stakes include your home, your retirement, and your long-term financial stability.

We talk about why family law specialization matters, and why local experience still counts even after the shift to virtual hearings. Kelsey explains how different judges and referees can have different courtroom protocols, scheduling rules, and filing requirements, and how hiring someone who already knows the landscape can save time and legal fees. We also dig into the less talked about part of hiring counsel: emotional support, responsiveness, and whether your attorney helps you understand the timeline and next steps so you’re not left guessing.

Click below to schedule an initial consultation with Kelsey, https://womensrights.com/law-firm/our-lawyers-staff/

How to Reach Jacki

Visit the new Divorce Rich Podcast page on Jacki's website to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case.  Divorce Rich - Roessler Divorce Consulting.

If you wish to schedule a free 30-minute initial consultation, you can reach Jacki at Roessler Divorce Consulting.

DIVORCE RICH PODCAST SPONSORS

Center for Financial Planning

The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/

DAWN
Divorce Attorneys for Women: Michigan's Original Divorce Attorneys for Michigan.  DAWN - Michigan's Original Divorce Attorneys for Women

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High-conflict divorce is rarely just “fighting.” Sometimes it’s grief, fear, shutdown, or subtle power dynamics that make every money or parenting decision feel impossible. We’re joined by Siedah Spencer-Ardis, a Michigan mental health professional and the founder of Focus Therapy Clinic, to talk through what really happens inside a collaborative divorce and why the mental health neutral can be the difference between progress and chaos.

• To schedule a consult with Siedah, CLICK HERE
• To listen to Siedah's last guest appearance on this podcast, CLICK HERE

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How to Reach Jacki

Visit the new Divorce Rich Podcast page on Jacki's website to learn more about Jacki's practice and to find valuable resources for your case.  Divorce Rich - Roessler Divorce Consulting.

If you wish to schedule a free 30-minute initial consultation, you can reach Jacki at Roessler Divorce Consulting.

DIVORCE RICH PODCAST SPONSORS

Center for Financial Planning

The Divorce Rich podcast is proudly sponsored by Center for Financial Planning: Striving to Improve Lives through Financial Planning Done Right! https://www.centerfinplan.com/

DAWN
Divorce Attorneys for Women: Michigan's Original Divorce Attorneys for Michigan.  DAWN - Michigan's Original Divorce Attorneys for Women