Divorce Source Radio

The Intelligent Divorce lays out a blueprint that can teach you how to handle your divorce with grace, strength and wisdom. Based on hundreds of case studies and a decades of experience, it is designed with the health of your children in mind.

Our guest is the author of The Intelligent Divorce, Dr Mark R. Banschick, a diplomat of the American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology with over 20 years of experience in child and adolescent psychiatry.

Topics Addressed Include:

• How to parent better during turbulent times
• What type of feeling are your children going through
• What are the signs to look for that your child isn't handling the divorce that well.
• What type of behavior to expect from your child
• How divorcing couples in conflict can come together to form a United Front for the sake of their children.
• How to maintain open communication between your children
• and much more.

Our guest, Elaine Cole, is Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, with a Master’s in Psychology, is passionate about helping Grandparents offer their hope, care, wisdom and unconditional positive regard to their grandchildren, especially during a family’s divorce. (www.GreenMarriages.com). Become The Happiest Grandparents On The Block. Ms. Cole advises “The worse thing I can say to Grandparents is the truth about their warring progeny. It is what it is. You have next to no control over your child or the X. So, this is my unheard plea: Help our grandchildren navigate the turbulent waters of a family’s divorce” She believes this is a grandparent’s duty and their legacy to future generations.

Topics in this program include:

• How to be a Smart Grandparent
• How grandparents can stay involved during their adult child’s divorce
• Managing difficult conversations with grandchildren
• Managing difficult conversations with adult children
• Getting your chocolate hugs and kisses

Divorced mother of three Delaine Moore is an author, NLP Practitioner, speaker, and Licensed Mars Venus Life Coach, who specializes in divorce, dating, relationships and gender differences. Since her own divorce in 2007, she has inspired thousands of divorced women to grab the next chapter of their lives by the horn and pursue passion on their own terms on her website, I Am Divorced Not Dead. Her memoir, A Woman’s Body Never Lies – which chronicles her wild, yet profound, ‘body-driven’ awakenings in the first after her divorce, was recently purchased by the feminist publisher, Seal Press, and is slated for release in Spring 2012. dwol.com - Divorced Women online

Topics in the program include:

• When is the right time to begin dating after divorce?
• How not to make the same mistakes when seeking a new mate
• Internet dating services, are they a good idea?
• When to introduce your date to your children?
• key ingredients of a "keeper"
• Sex after divorce
• And much more

Divorce is a stressful and unsettling situation. Over 50% of first marriages end in divorce, and the number increases to 67% for second marriages.

Renowned psychologist, Dr. Larry Friedberg, is interviewed and we learn: How Communication Breaks Down in Relationships, How to Work Through your Divorce with Less Stress, How to Protect Your Children from Personal Arguments With Your Spouse and we discuss Controlling Personalities.

This program has been the most downloaded program on Divorce Source Radio since first airing in July of 2009 and is helping tens of thousands of individual get over their divorce and move on with their lives. This is a "Must Hear" program for anyone going through a divorce.

For more information on Dr. Larry Friedberg, visit www.DrLarryFriedberg.com. For more programs and information on our show, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com or email us at [email protected]

Our guest, Jeffery Landers advocates for women. Jeff is a Divorce Financial Strategist and the founder of Bedrock Divorce Advisors, LLC, a divorce financial strategy firm that exclusively works with women, who are going through, or might be going through, a financially complicated divorce. Jeff reviews the Top 6 Serious Financial Mistakes Women Make. But, men can learn some valuable lessons here as well. Jeff advises “put your emotions on the side and think financially.”

Topics in this program include:

· The top 6 serious financial mistakes made during divorce

· The important steps to organize your finances and maintain control

· Preparing for your financial future

· Financial considerations to ensure long term financial stability

· How to avoid divorce settlement mistakes

· Divorce proofing your business

In this episode, attorney Henry Gornbein and psychologist Dr. Larry Friedberg discuss what Henry perceives as a change for the worse with some attorneys practicing Family Law these days.

Topics in the program include:

• Has the level of professionalism amongst lawyers decreased over the years?
• Are attorneys part of the problem by ramping up their clients emotions during their divorce?
• Could a psychologist's child custody evaluation be swayed to meet the needs of the hiring attorney to bolster his case?
• And much more

Stacy D. Phillips, is a celebrity divorce lawyer extraordinaire. She is the author of the best-selling book Divorce: It's All About Control - How to Win the Emotional, Psychological and Legal Wars (http://www.controlyourdivorce.com); a certified family law specialist, and founder and the managing partner of Phillips Lerner & Lauzon LLP (http://www.plljlaw.com/Bio/StacyPhillips.asp). In this exclusive interview Stacy offers advice on how to cope with losing control and avoid common divorce battles.

Topics in this program include:

• An overview of the anatomy of control
• Managing and coping with control
• Dealing with the emotional, psychological and legal wars
• What’s a good client; and working more effectively with your lawyer
• The major divorce considerations and what to think about

Fighting just to win, is it worth it?

How to deal with an inflexible ex

Imagine being accused or hurting your wife or beautiful children when you know you hadn't done anything. Before you have a chance to tell your side of the story to a judge, your taken away in handcuffs and thrown in jail and now you are forced o pay tens of thousands of dollars to prove your innocence. And if you think this only happened to men, think again. Women are falsely accused as well and many times their lives are ruined forever because of an angry spouse or ex's wiliness to hurt you and take your children away from you forever.

No normal thinking person would approve of domestic violence or child abuse, but more times than you might imagine, during a high conflict divorce case, an angry spouse or ex may falsely accuse their partner of just such abuse as a way to get even. And although our criminal system is supposedly based on innocent until proven guilty, just the opposite is true for those falsely accused of domestic violence or child abuse.

Our guest is Dean Tong, a nationally known forensic trial consultant and Expert witness. He's appeared on national television and radio programs and is the author of Elusive Innocence. Dean spends his time protecting the falsely accused and is here today to help us better understand why someone might falsely accuse another of a crime they didn't commit and provide tips on how we might protect ourselves from this happening to us.

Topics discussed include:

• How Dean works with your attorney to clear your name of false charges
• What to do if a Personal Protection Order is filed against you
• How to fight back against false charges
• What to do if you have been accused of child abuse
• And much more

Divorce Source has grown immensely over the past year and a half. Tens of thousands of listeners from all over the world are turning to our podcasts for help and support during one of the most difficult times in their life; their divorce.

In this episode of The Pecking Order, Steve Peck reaches out to the Divorce Source Radio community and explores the possibility of taking DSR to the next level, allowing us to help even more people. Steve is looking first to the DSR community to see if there are any listeners that have the means to help grow DSR. Have you had experience building an internet business similar to DSR or are you an experienced media sales person who understands New Media and might have ideas regarding appropriate sponsors for DSR? Perhaps you are a radio programmer and might have advice on syndicating our program to local stations.

Or maybe you're a listener who believes in what we're doing and would be willing to promote DSR through word of mouth and through your Facebook and Twitter account, that would be helpful too. Whatever the case, Steve is looking for partners to help grow this radio program that helps so many people.

Roughly two million lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) individuals in the United States have married someone of the opposite sex. When these partners come out of the closet, one third of these relationships break up right away, a third stay together for a year and then separate, and another third commit to making it work - although three years later, only half of this last group of relationships are still intact. Our guest Amity Buxton. Ph.D. http://www.straightspouse.org/home.php , discusses the grieving and healing process the straight spouse experiences upon learning of this revelation. To read more about this topic, Deborah writes about it in more.ca.

Topics include:

• When a spouse comes out how it impacts the family
• The six stages of recovery
• Children’s reaction to a their parents disclosure
• Understanding the healing journey