Matching Your Attorney with Your Goals – Episode 236 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When someone is searching for an attorney to handle their divorce and/or child custody case, it is common for that person to be in somewhat of an emotional crisis given the breakdown of their family. Often we rely on friends and family for a referral. But even if the attorney was a good choice for your friend or family member, that does not mean the attorney is a good fit for you. So, how do you choose the right attorney for you? For more information, please visit www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Ex Parte/Emergency Child Custody Hearings: To File or Not to File – Episode 235 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. The decision on when and if to file for an emergency hearings in child custody cases is a difficult decision not only for parents, but for attorneys as well. In this episode, we'll talk about the reality of the statistics and how to evaluate whether or not it's appropriate for your situation. We'll share our process for evaluation these choices that has come from 15 years of dealing with these types of situations. For more information, please visit www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Mediation with a High Conflict Ex – Episode 234 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. We frequently get asked if mediation will work with a high-conflict personality such as a narcissist or borderline. In fact, most of the time, it works better than the Court process. In this episode, we'll share strategies on how to negotiate with a high conflict person and tips to help ensure you get the best result possible? For more information, please visit www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Move Away and Relocation Requests in Child Custody – Episode 233 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Move away (also called Relocation in some states) requests are complicated. In this episode we'll discuss the factors the court considers and what you can do to strengthen your case, whether you're the parent that wants to move or the parent who wants to stop the move. Join us for a deep dive on this complex issue. For more information, please visit www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Killer Strategies for Custody Motions – Episode 232 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When we think of child custody motions we tend to think of preparing our documents and declaration as well as presenting in Court or communicating with our attorney on what to expect. But crafting a winning motion starts far in advance of actually filing the motion. You need to build your case through long-term strategies to increase your odds for a win when you finally get your day in court. For more information, please visit www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Child Custody: Bonding vs. Discipline – Episode 231 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Co-parenting situations often make parents feel as if they are in a competition with the other parent for their child's affection. We see parents try to deal with this in a number of ways, some over discipline, some talk to the child about the other parent, and others don't discipline at all. And yet, all of these approaches create a whole list of unintended consequences, not the least of which is poor outcomes in Court. In this episode, we'll discuss how to find the appropriate balance between bonding and discipline. For more information, please visit www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Happiness: Your Moral Obligation to Your Children – Episode 230 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. During divorce and child custody issues, many parents worry about their children's happiness. But we often forget about our own happiness. Your happiness, or lack thereof, is a continuous daily example for your kids. So, it's important to be the best example you can be. Going through a negative life experience can make it near impossible. In this episode, we'll share tips to help you be happier, for you and your kids. For more information, please visit www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Co-Parent Communication: Mom vs. Dad – Episode 229 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Communication with your co-parent is a struggle for many people after a divorce or break up. Not only do we come at things differently as a mother or father, but we also must consider how the Court views our communication. In this episode, we'll share the top mistakes people make and how you can modify your communication to have peace with your co-parent and gain credibility with the Court. For more information, please visit www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Are You Addicted to Drama? – Episode 228 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. The patterns that occur during relationships often continue long after the break up. Most people tend to focus on the other person and what the other person is "doing to them". But the other person and their behaviors are out of our control. So, how do you stop the patterns of emotional abuse, attacks, manipulation, hysteria and drama? For more information, please visit www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Are You Relying on Your Children for Your Happiness? – Episode 227 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When you experience a divorce or breakup and have to start sharing your children between two households, it can be devastating. Suddenly, yourself home alone with no idea what to do. Don't get us wrong, the quiet can be nice, the extra time for sleep is a bonus and the chance to do things you can't do with the kids is a perk. But, it can also be emotionally difficult to be away from your kids. And, if you start to put those feelings on your children's shoulders, it can not only harm them but also your court case. For more information, please visit www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!