Divorce University Online

Welcome to Episode 32 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 32, The Number One Divorce Secret: It Will Be Better Tomorrow, we talk about the crisis of divorce that almost every single person experience including the strong illusion that your current misery will last forever. Fortunately, it won't. Divorce is a transition to a new life. But how do you get to that new life? What steps can you take to get out of the misery and get excited about your future? Join us as we help you connect with family, friends, and maybe a new version of yourself that you never knew existed! For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening! Episode 32 Resources: www.divorcebusting.com and book Divorce Busting by Michele Weiner-Davis

Welcome to Episode 31 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 31, Four Weapons That Demolish Post-Separation Negativity, we talk about the common cycle of negativity often see in newly separated people. Hurt, anger, and resentment are common emotions in divorce and unfortunately, many people stay stuck in those emotions for extended periods of time. Often our exes are the target of these negative feelings but staying stuck actually hurts you way more than it hurts them. But unless you have a magic wand, you may be like us and struggle to move forward in a positive way that helps you reclaim your life and your happiness! In this episode, we'll give you four key tools to help you put the past behind you and move forward to find your post-divorce joy. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Welcome to Episode 30 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 30, How to Turn Around a Bad Child Custody Situation, we talk about what to do if you have a restraining order, are on supervised visitation, or just have less parenting time than you wanted. Thomas always says child custody is a marathon not a sprint and we're going to help you run that marathon in a way that will help you get more parenting time. We'll discuss how to build a closer relationship with your child with the time you currently have and how to increase the trust between you and your co-parent. We'll even discuss strategies for shifting the "black hat" from you to your co-parent in your court situation if the court is currently seeing you as the problem. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Welcome to Episode 29 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 29, The Secret to Healthy Post-Divorce Relationships, we talk about what caused the misery in our previous relationship, how we can get ourselves emotionally healthy, and how not to get ourselves into the same situation all over again! If you're anything like us, you definitely have no desire to repeat the past! Understanding dependence, independence, and interdependence and how they all work together to form a healthy relationship is the first step. Join us this week for an in-depth discussion on how to create your emotionally healthy post-divorce life. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Welcome to Episode 28 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 28, Five Resolutions to Transform You After Divorce, we talk about how maddening the divorce process is for most people. It is inherently negative and therefore, easily framed in negative ways by those of us going through it. Unfortunately, the Court process only perpetuates more negativity. But what if there was a way to turn the tables on that process and find your joy again? Divorce is an opportunity to find yourself or even reinvent yourself. What is important to you? What do you enjoy? Join us as we discuss how to find the positive even in this negative situation. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Welcome to Episode 27 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 27, Courts Can't Change Your Ex, we talk about most peoples' desire for the Court to know what's going on in their situation. Courts are really good at managing big issues but not so good at managing the day-to-day aspects of relationships. So, what do you do? Join us as we talk about solutions to the day-to-day issues and steps you can take to help you manage aspects of your case and dealing with your ex even when the Court can't really help you. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Welcome to Episode 26 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 26, The Shot Heard 'Round the World, we talk about how an aggressive stance is a recipe for heartache and expense in any divorce case. A conflict of interest exists for an attorney in any divorce case because the more conflict there is, the more money they make. How well do you know your attorney and understand what motivates their decision making? Breaking up is difficult for almost everyone but the choices you make at the outset can have a lasting impact on your divorce matter. You need to develop the appropriate strategy before you start "firing" the bullets in your gun. Listen now to find out what strategy will best serve you and your family. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Welcome to Episode 25 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 25, Step-Parenting, Family Life's Most Thankless Gig we talk about the difficulty of incorporating new mates into a divorced family. We share some of our own experiences and discuss common questions. How much authority should your new mate have with the kids? How do you get the kids and your ex-spouse on board with the new relationship? Join us as we share our own mistakes and help you avoid common pitfalls. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Welcome to Episode 24 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 24, Communication 201 - Examples of Effective Communication we dive into concrete examples of communication between coparents and explain how we would revise the communication and why we recommend the changes. These examples are designed to help you model your own communication and create more cooperative and peaceful communication with your coparent. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Welcome to Episode 23 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 23 we discuss "Communication, A Vital Co-Parenting Skill". Are you wearing the black or white hat in your custody case? In this episode, we discuss how to eliminate conflict, defensiveness, and how to let your ex "be the crazy one". We'll also dive into ways you can get the parenting schedule you really want! For more information please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!