Experiencing divorce, navigating its aftermath, and opening up to the possibility of love again—these steps carry a profound significance for men, often requiring them to face emotions they’ve long buried. It’s more than just rebuilding; it’s about redefining who they are as individuals and as partners. For many men, the journey to healing involves embracing vulnerability, overcoming fears of repeating past mistakes, and rebuilding trust in themselves and others. This transformation is essential for establishing genuine connections and rediscovering love.

The end of a marriage can trigger intense feelings of shame, failure, and deep grief. Societal expectations frequently pressure men to suppress these emotions, leading them to face their pain in silence and sometimes adopt unhealthy or isolating coping mechanisms. We often overlook that men are dealing with more than just a loss of family structure and limited access to their children; they’re also facing a fractured sense of identity and, for some, the fear of entering a new marriage in the future.

In this week's episode, join me as I sit down with Shon Hyneman—a seasoned pre-engagement coach, YouTuber, and host of It’s Scary to Remarry podcast. Shon shares his personal journey through divorce, healing, and his path toward embracing love again.

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As we close out the month of October, it’s essential to shine a light on an issue impacting millions across the globe—domestic violence. October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, a time to recognize the profound impact domestic violence has on individuals and families and to support survivors in their journey to healing and freedom.

The statistics are staggering: in the United States alone, nearly 1 in 4 women and 1 in 9 men will experience severe intimate partner violence in their lifetime. Every minute, 20 people fall victim to physical abuse by an intimate partner—amounting to over 10 million individuals each year. These numbers represent real lives, with stories often hidden behind closed doors, filled with resilience, heartbreak, and bravery.

Domestic violence isn’t limited to physical harm; it includes emotional abuse, financial control, and psychological manipulation, all designed to keep victims isolated and powerless. Breaking free from these circumstances can feel impossible, yet many survivors do find the strength to leave, rebuild, and ultimately, to thrive.

In honor of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, this episode serves as a reminder of the need to support survivors, raise awareness, and educate ourselves on the realities that victims face.

On this week’s podcast, join me as I sit down with Executive Director Lisa Thiombiano, a survivor and advocate who shares her journey from victim to victor. Lisa opens up about the challenges survivors face, what people should understand about victims, and how one can thrive after abuse. She also shares invaluable insights on planning a safe exit and building a life of freedom and hope.

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Divorce can be a challenging and emotional time, not only for the parents but especially for the children. While there are many concerns parents have regarding their children's well-being, what can easily get overlooked are the subtle emotional impacts this transition can have on them. Parents may focus on practical aspects like custody, finances, and new living arrangements, but it’s essential not to lose sight of the emotional and psychological needs of the children during this time.

In this week's episode, I highlight 7 critical mistakes parents should avoid before, during, and after divorce to ensure their children receive the love, stability, and support they need throughout the process. Tune in for valuable insights on navigating this challenging time with care and intention.

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When someone spends a large part of their adult life in an unhealthy marriage, feelings of regret often surface. They might feel as though they sacrificed what society deems their "best years" or "youth," and this regret can become overwhelming, leading to emotions like guilt, shame, embarrassment, and even anger.

When dealing with the grief of a divorce, regret is a common feeling to experience. However, what becomes problematic is when that regret starts to dominate your thoughts and actions, preventing you from moving forward. It can keep you stuck in the past, replaying decisions over and over, and robbing you of the chance to heal and create a future that aligns with who you are now. The challenge is learning to acknowledge the regret without letting it control your present or dictate your future.

On this week's podcast, join me as I give four powerful ways that you can break free of regret, reclaim your life and start moving forward.

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We officially wrapped up our 7-Day "Beyond The Breakup" Workshop, and during that time, we hosted a Live Q&A to address some of the most pressing questions and challenges our participants faced. In this episode, we discuss the realities of moving on from a cheating boyfriend, the preparation of exiting a long-term marriage, and financial abuse. We also touch on the temptation to keep tabs on an ex-partner through social media, exploring the impact this can have on your healing process.

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When it comes to "healing" from a previous relationship, questions such as:

Often come up, but the answer isn’t always straightforward.

The truth is, everyone’s healing process is unique, but there are signs that can indicate you're making progress.

In this week’s podcast, join me as I discuss common misconceptions about healing and share my top five signs to help you determine if you’re moving forward on your journey.

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When a marriage ends, you're often encouraged to "live your best life," but what does that really mean when your identity has been deeply tied to your marriage?

When you're used to a certain dynamic, the idea of redefining your best life can easily get overlooked. It's not because you don't desire something better; it's because anything outside of your familiar routine can feel unnatural, making it easy to fall back into the safety net of survival mode.

To truly live your best life, you must be intentional. This requires deep reflection on your decisions and the direction you're heading to ensure they align with the future you want to create.

In this week's podcast episode, join me for a conversation with one of my former clients to explore her journey of feeling stuck four years after divorce, her changing perspective on men, the transition from parallel parenting to co-parenting, and the cultivation of peace.

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When you first start the journey of healing from a relationship, it's common to have many concerns.

You might ask yourself: How long will this take? Why isn’t it happening faster? What will my life look like after this? Will I ever feel like myself again? Why do I feel good one moment then the next moment, I feel frustrated, sad, and overwhelmed?

This is because, in the early stages, healing can be unpredictable and emotionally intense. On this week's podcast, join me where I'll share my top 7 tips to guide you through your healing journey.

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Infidelity is indeed a form of trauma. When someone has been betrayed in this manner, it severely impacts their psychological well-being. This act can alter a person's self-esteem, develop trust issues, and lead to feelings of anxiety, depression, and emotional instability. It can make it difficult for individuals to form healthy relationships in the future and may cause them to question their self-worth and ability to trust others again.

According to statistics, 55% of divorces are due to infidelity, and infidelity occurs in 30-40% of non-marital monogamous relationships.

When infidelity happens, the question becomes: how do you recover? How can you prevent an experience like this from keeping you stuck in the past, and how do you move forward with strength and resilience in a way that enables you to embrace your next chapter?

On this week's podcast episode, join me as I talk with Infidelity Recovery Coach Briaina LaTrice as she shares of experience of recurring infidelity in her marriage, finding the courage to leave, why you must heal, and the importance of releasing the shame of leaving or staying.

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