Divorced and Done

We're back from a brief break, since we last talked, the tort of family violence has been overturned by the Ontario Court of Appeal.

Ontario trial level decision is 2022 ONSC 1303 - https://canlii.ca/t/jmpnf /

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Everything we talk about on this podcast is for your information, but it is not legal opinion or legal advice.

You don't need to be a gym rat to make progress in your overall fitness.  You just need the right fitness instructor, and this week we're speaking with one of the best, Nicole Pleasants.

Nicole is a fitness instructor based in the North Okanagan but she can assist anyone as a personal trainer over the internet.  Darren sat down with Nicole this week to discuss approaches to fitness and her philosophy of being an "anti diet" trainer.  You can find Nicole through her Instagram account: https://www.instagram.com/daily_movement_/ 

Find us online at DivorcedAndDone.com and our podcast email [email protected], send voicemails to SpeakPipe.com/DivorcedAndDone

We're a TOP 10 podcast as ranked by Feedspot, we recently ranked in the top 10 of the Best 100 Divorce Podcasts. Check it out https://blog.feedspot.com/divorce_podcasts/

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Please leave us a review on Spotify, Apple Music, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Everything we talk about on this podcast is for your information, but it is not legal opinion or legal advice.

Executive Producer/Sound Overlord: Jessica Murphy, https://www.instagram.com/_jessmurphyy/

This week we're learning more about Collaborative Law with Kelowna lawyer, Leneigh Bosdet. Leneigh is a family lawyer with the firm of Pushor Mitchell LLP, you can find Leneigh online at https://www.pushormitchell.com/leneigh-bodset/

Leneigh speaks about her specific work with the Okanagan Collaborative Family Law Group, which she chairs. The group has 10 lawyers, 4 financial professionals, 3 divorce coaches, and 4 child specialists. They work together on cases that are suitable for the collaborative process. You can find them online at https://collaborativefamilylaw.ca/

Find us online at DivorcedAndDone.com and our podcast email [email protected], send voicemails to SpeakPipe.com/DivorcedAndDone

We're a TOP 10 podcast as ranked by Feedspot, we recently ranked in the top 10 of the Best 100 Divorce Podcasts. Check it out https://blog.feedspot.com/divorce_podcasts/

See our TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@familylaw_darrenschmidt and Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcedanddone/

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Everything we talk about on this podcast is for your information, but it is not legal opinion or legal advice.

Executive Producer/Sound Overlord: Jessica Murphy, https://www.instagram.com/_jessmurphyy/

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In the podcast realm we dive into how to appeal divorce judgements and how to remove outside relief from your divorce process.

Have you ever thought about self-representing in court? Darren and Rob discuss what that looks like from a lawyer's perspective. They also discuss the differences between starting a court proceeding and filing an application. 

How do you feel about chamber music? Rob and Darren can confirm if music plays in the courtroom. Hold on tight because later in the episode they discuss the cost of court during your divorce.

And, finally, Darren and Rob discuss what happens if you ghost the sale of your matrimonial home - or get ghosted while selling. :(

Find us online at DivorcedAndDone.com and our podcast email [email protected], send voicemails to SpeakPipe.com/DivorcedAndDone

We're a TOP 10 podcast as ranked by Feedspot, we recently ranked in the top 10 of the Best 100 Divorce Podcasts. Check it out https://blog.feedspot.com/divorce_podcasts/

See our TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@familylaw_darrenschmidt and Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcedanddone/

Please leave us a review on Spotify, Apple Music, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Everything we talk about on this podcast is for your information, but it is not legal opinion or legal advice.

Executive Producer/Sound Overlord: Jessica Murphy, https://www.instagram.com/_jessmurphyy/

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This week we tackle 3 questions, first, what to do when your ex wants to push an agreement you just signed, with lawyers, back into Court, and how to prepare for a case conference. Additionally, we talk about valuing real property (the matrimonial home) appropriately to determine a fair settlement, and dealing with parenting issues and decision making, when your ex has basically disappeared and left the scene. 

Find us online at DivorcedAndDone.com and our podcast email [email protected], send voicemails to SpeakPipe.com/DivorcedAndDone

We're a TOP 10 podcast as ranked by Feedspot, we recently ranked in the top 10 of the Best 100 Divorce Podcasts. Check it out https://blog.feedspot.com/divorce_podcasts/

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Everything we talk about on this podcast is for your information, but it is not legal opinion or legal advice.

This week we're joined by Toronto Realtor, James in the City.  James is an incredibly fun, down-to-earth, real estate professional who has made a big name for himself in Canada's largest housing market.  He discusses the challenges of listing and selling a house while getting divorced, and buying a house with less dollars when your divorce is completed. Find James online: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejamesinthecity/?hl=en / TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jamesinthecity?lang=en / www.jamesinthecity.com 

Find us online at DivorcedAndDone.com and our podcast email [email protected], send voicemails to SpeakPipe.com/DivorcedAndDone

We're a TOP 10 podcast as ranked by Feedspot, we recently ranked in the top 10 of the Best 100 Divorce Podcasts. Check it out https://blog.feedspot.com/divorce_podcasts/

See our TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@familylaw_darrenschmidt and Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcedanddone/

Sign up for our Newsletter here: https://divorcedanddonet.substack.com/ 

Please leave us a review on Spotify, Apple Music, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Everything we talk about on this podcast is for your information, but it is not legal opinion or legal advice.

This week we address relocations under our family law legislation, when one parent wants to move, and the other contests the move. Who wins? Always ask why you want to move. Plus, counselling and therapy for children, when one parent approves, and the other disagrees. 

Thanks to Bob and Brad, the best physical therapists on the internet in their opinion, for their inspiration for our new intro. 

Find us online at DivorcedAndDone.com and our podcast email [email protected], send voicemails to SpeakPipe.com/DivorcedAndDone

We're a TOP 10 podcast as ranked by Feedspot, we recently ranked in the top 10 of the Best 100 Divorce Podcasts. Check it out https://blog.feedspot.com/divorce_podcasts/

We're also on TikTok: @familylaw_darrenschmidt and Instagram: @DivorcedAndDone

Please leave us a review on Spotify, Apple Music, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Everything we talk about on this podcast is for your information, but it is not legal opinion or legal advice.

Executive Producer/Sound Overlord: Jessica Murphy, https://www.instagram.com/_jessmurphyy/

This week we have a new intro - thanks to Darren, and our personal and professional friends, for their ringing endorsement of our show! Our community powers our podcast.

This week we're addressing THE most important issue of the next 20 years: parents on titles to matrimonial homes. Plus, keeping your address confidential when you serve pleadings and Court documents on the other party, and, repairing a bad parenting deal... before your children are adults.  

Find us online at DivorcedAndDone.com and our podcast email [email protected], send voicemails to SpeakPipe.com/DivorcedAndDone

We're a TOP 10 podcast as ranked by Feedspot, we recently ranked in the top 10 of the Best 100 Divorce Podcasts. Check it out https://blog.feedspot.com/divorce_podcasts/

We're also on TikTok: @familylaw_darrenschmidt and Instagram: @DivorcedAndDone

Please leave us a review on Spotify, Apple Music, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Everything we talk about on this podcast is for your information, but it is not legal opinion or legal advice.

Executive Producer/Sound Overlord: Jessica Murphy, https://www.instagram.com/_jessmurphyy/

This week we discuss a case on civil contempt: 2023 ABKB 58 https://canlii.ca/t/jv6jd In the case, the ex husband is found in civil contempt for failing to comply with a court order and arbitration award.  The problem?  He refused to remove a Certificate of Pending Litigation (lien) on title to one of the parties' real properties.  The court ordered that the ex husband be imprisioned until he purged his contempt (dischared the lien from title).  It's an extreme remedy for an extreme set of circumstances.  

Find us online at DivorcedAndDone.com and our podcast email [email protected], send voicemails to SpeakPipe.com/DivorcedAndDone

We're a TOP 10 podcast as ranked by Feedspot, we recently ranked in the top 10 of the Best 100 Divorce Podcasts. Check it out https://blog.feedspot.com/divorce_podcasts/

We're also on TikTok: @familylaw_darrenschmidt and Instagram: @DivorcedAndDone

Please leave us a review on Spotify, Apple Music, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Everything we talk about on this podcast is for your information, but it is not legal opinion or legal advice.

Executive Producer/Sound Overlord: Jessica Murphy, https://www.instagram.com/_jessmurphyy/

Does your cousin support your podcast? Rob's does! 

This episode kicks off with a personal question and then moves along with a question about a missing respondent where Rob reminds us that if you hear hoofbeats, think horses, not unicorns. What happens when you get a final order and it is time to collect? Rob tells us his experience. 

Darren answers a question about how long you need to live in a province to file for divorce in that region. Darren and Rob tackle how to deal with flaring emotions when a relationship ends and where the 6 steps to divorce help to resolve these issues.

Find us online at DivorcedAndDone.com and our podcast email [email protected], send voicemails to SpeakPipe.com/DivorcedAndDone

We're a TOP 10 podcast as ranked by Feedspot, we recently ranked in the top 10 of the Best 100 Divorce Podcasts. Check it out https://blog.feedspot.com/divorce_podcasts/

We're also on TikTok: @familylaw_darrenschmidt and Instagram: @DivorcedAndDone

Please leave us a review on Spotify, Apple Music, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Everything we talk about on this podcast is for your information, but it is not legal opinion or legal advice.

Executive Producer/Sound Overlord: Jessica Murphy, https://www.instagram.com/_jessmurphyy/