In this episode, Sister Asiya shares her personal journey through marriage and divorce, discussing the challenges she faced, the decision to leave her marriage, and the impact of her experiences on her personal growth. She reflects on the expectations and standards in relationships, the stigma surrounding divorce, and the complexities of seeking a new partner as a single mother. The conversation also touches on the role of family in marriage decisions, the influence of marriage apps, and the broader marriage crisis within the Muslim community.

00:00 Introduction

01:10 Asiya's Divorce Story

06:19 Taking the Khula route

07:52 Experience of the Khula Process

09:45 Impact of Divorce

11:14 Mistakes made in the marriage

13:04 Bouncing back from divorce

15:38 Being a Single Mother and looking for marriage

18:37 General Questions

25:41 Family Involvement in Marriage Decisions

29:27 Stigma of Divorce in the Muslim Community

31:51 The Role of Fear in Marriage Decisions

33:01 Society Perception: Divorced Man v Divorced Woman

34:31 Red flags v Green Flags

35:03 Solutions

35:55 Game: Red Light / Green Light

35:59 Fun and Games: Red Light, Green Light

37:21 Rapid Fire Round

39:01 Farewell

In this episode we are joined by Radiya – a social media influencer. Radiya’s TikTok handle is @p.s.wegotthis

Radiya shares her personal journey through divorce, discussing the emotional impact it had on her mental health and the lessons learned. Radiya describes divorce as a shattering experience and for six months, she struggled to cope, questioning the path she had followed and the societal expectations that had shaped her decisions. This introspection opened her eyes to the importance of self-awareness and understanding one’s motivations, leading her to encourage others to reflect on their own lives.

The conversation explores the challenges faced by British Muslims in the marriage market, including cultural pressures, the stigma surrounding divorce, and the role of marriage apps. Radiya emphasises the importance of emotional maturity, understanding one's own needs, and the significance of green flags in relationships. The discussion also touches on the influence of family in marriage decisions and the need to redefine success beyond marital status.

00:00 Introduction

02:05 Radiya's Divorce Story

04:21 Impact of Divorce

05:53 Mistakes in the marriage

06:42 Bouncing back from divorce

07:25 Why are British Muslims finding it hard to get married

09:41 Older generation v new generation

11:50 Standards v Unrealistic Expectations

13:38 Paradox of Choice

15:35 Green Flags v Red Flags

17:55 Has marriage become an option rather than a priority?

21:54 Apps: Improved or damaged the marriage search?

25:03 Family involvement: Advice or Control?

28:05 Fear based marriages

31:22 "I was good enough to talk to but not good enough to marry"

33:17 The Stigma of divorce

36:06 Society Perception: Divorced Men v Divorced Women

37:56 When to reveal to a potential you are divorced

40:12 Solutions to the marriage search

46:22 Game: Red Light / Green Light

47:45 Rapid Fire Round

48:54 Farewell

In this episode, Imran shares his personal journey through divorce, discussing the prevalent issues within the Muslim community regarding marriage and divorce. He reflects on the causes of his divorce, the challenges of co-parenting, and the impact of divorce on personal identity. Imran emphasises the importance of community support, compassion, and empathy in navigating relationships post-divorce. He also addresses the stigma surrounding divorced individuals and the marriage crisis faced by British Muslims, advocating for the creation of safe spaces for singles to meet and connect.

Also Imran launched his own podcast to share experiences and support others going through divorce. Imran’s podcast is called ‘The Divorced Muslim Dad Podcast’.

00:00 Introduction

02:00 Imran's Divorce Story

15:12 Impact of Divorce

21:26 Bouncing Back from Divorce

28:56 Why are British Muslims finding it difficult to get married?

41:04 Delaying telling a potential that you are divorced

43:33 Society Perception: Divorced Men v Divorced Women

46:37 Game: Red Light / Green Light

47:22 Rapid Fire Round

49:53 Marriage Profile

52:01 Final Thoughts

In this episode, Sister Hasinah shares her personal journey through divorce, motherhood, and the challenges of co-parenting. She reflects on the impact of her divorce on her mental health and the lessons learned about relationships and expectations in marriage. Hasinah discusses the stigma surrounding divorce in the Muslim community and emphasises the importance of honesty and self-awareness in the marriage search. She also addresses the challenges of co-parenting and the need for strong family dynamics, while offering insights into the current marriage crisis faced by many British Muslims.

00:00 Introduction

00:59 Hasinah's divorce story

14:32 Impact of Divorce

16:44 Bouncing back from Divorce

21:42 Hasinah's marriage search

23:42 Hasinah shares an experience in her marriage search

25:14 Co-Parenting

30:38 General Questions

48:03 Did the trauma from the divorce cause Autism?

55:28 Game: Red Light / Green Light

56:30 Rapid Fire Round

57:27 Conclusion and Reflections

We continue our podcast into Season 3.

Season 3 is all about dealing with modern complexities of the marriage search.

This trailer gives a snippet of each guest on Season 3.

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All episodes will be released over the next month or so.

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In this episode we are joined by the host’s brother. He alongside the host, will discuss the recent death of their father.

If you want to be a guest on this podcast then please email us at [email protected]

We have a GoFundMe page to raise funds to help British Muslims find a spouse and our platform consists of two main projects:

1) Marriage events - these are events designed and structured to assist Muslims find a spouse

2) Our podcast which you're listening to right now. As you know it's called Divorced Muslims: A Second Chance.

If you want to donate please find the link to the GoFundMe page below:

https://gofund.me/a287df86

In this episode we are joined by the host’s mother. She will give her views about marriage and the marriage search based on her experiences. 

If you want to be a guest on this podcast then please email us at [email protected]

We have a GoFundMe page to raise funds to help British Muslims find a spouse and our platform consists of two main projects:

1) Marriage events - these are events designed and structured to assist Muslims find a spouse

2) Our podcast which you're listening to right now. As you know it's called Divorced Muslims: A Second Chance. 

If you want to donate please find the link to the GoFundMe page below:

https://gofund.me/a287df86

In this episode we are joined by Brother Mostafa and Brother Enigma. Both of these brothers have experienced divorce.

If you fit the criteria of the guest today and if you are interested in considering the guest for marriage then please email us the following details: Your name, age, location, height, occupation, ethnicity, marital status, family contact name and details. 

Our email address is [email protected]

Remember the golden rule only family details will be exchanged. If we have no family details then the request will be ignored.

If you want to be a guest on this podcast then please email us at [email protected]

We have a GoFundMe page to raise funds to help British Muslims find a spouse and our platform consists of two main projects:

1) Marriage events - these are events designed and structured to assist Muslims find a spouse

2) Our podcast which you're listening to right now. As you know it's called Divorced Muslims: A Second Chance. 

If you want to donate please find the link to the GoFundMe page below:

https://gofund.me/a287df86

In this episode we are joined by Sister Fiaza and Sister Amaira. Both of these sisters are divorced single mothers. 

If you fit the criteria of the guests today and if you are interested in considering the guests for marriage then please email us the following details: Your name, age, location, height, occupation, ethnicity, marital status, family contact name and details. 

Our email address is [email protected]

Remember the golden rule only family details will be exchanged. If we have no family details then the request will be ignored.

If you want to be a guest on this podcast then please email us at [email protected]

We have a GoFundMe page to raise funds to help British Muslims find a spouse and our platform consists of two main projects:

1) Marriage events - these are events designed and structured to assist Muslims find a spouse

2) Our podcast which you're listening to right now. As you know it's called Divorced Muslims: A Second Chance. 

If you want to donate please find the link to the GoFundMe page below:

https://gofund.me/a287df86

In this episode we are joined by Brother Abullah and Sister Noor. Both of these guests are married. They will discuss events leading up to their marriage and they will also give their opinions about the marriage search from the perspective of being married.

If you want to be a guest on this podcast then please email us at [email protected]

We have a GoFundMe page to raise funds to help British Muslims find a spouse and our platform consists of two main projects:

1) Marriage events - these are events designed and structured to assist Muslims find a spouse

2) Our podcast which you're listening to right now. As you know it's called Divorced Muslims: A Second Chance. 

If you want to donate please find the link to the GoFundMe page below:

https://gofund.me/a287df86