Divorcing Well

In this week’s episode of Divorcing Well, I chat with fellow family law lawyer, Darlene Rites, about the new tort of domestic violence that was found by an Ontario court recently in the case of  Ahluwalia v. Ahluwalia, 2022 ONSC 1303 (CanLII), https://canlii.ca/t/jmpnf. 

Darlene and I discuss the importance of the Ahluwalia case and the repercussions for victims of domestic violence who want to obtain compensation from their abuser for their years of abuse.  Victims finally have a financial remedy that recognizes the damage of domestic violence on a victim.  Both Darlene and I are working with victims of abuse who want to make a claim for damages under this new tort. In addition, to practicing family law, Darlene is also a well respected mediator.

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In this week’s episode of Divorcing Well, I chat with Certified Relationship Coach, Roy Biancalaba, about attracting lasting love.  After divorce, so many people fear that they will never attract love again.  Roy discusses how to attract the love that you deserve and want.  He helps clients break free from past patterns of behaviour that led to the same results in relationships over and over again.  If you have a “type”, you may learn through divorce healing that there was a reason that you were always drawn to certain types of people, and through hard work, you can learn not to repeat negative patters that caused you to settle for less than you deserved in relationships.  Roy offers a great message of hope for post-divorce listeners who are hoping to find true love. 

Roy also has a great book called Relationship Bootcamp which offers a startling truth: The types of people we attract, and the quality of our intimate relationships, are a direct reflection of our relationship “fitness.” Therefore, Roy contends that we shouldn’t be concerned about where or how to find a partner. Instead, we should focus on getting ourselves into the best relationship shape of our lives, and that’s what this book is all about.

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Join me on this week’s episode of Divorcing Well where I chat with Wayne Rudson, of Rudson Valuation Group (RVG). Wayne is President of RVG and has been involved in business valuations, income assessments, litigation support and forensic accounting since 1984.  Wayne discusses 5 points that everyone should know about before separation.  These tips are invaluable for anyone who is about to separate or in the process of separation from their spouse.  You won’t want to miss this.

To contact Wayne Rudson, please visit:

https://www.rvg.ca/#professionals

Join us for this week’s episode of Divorcing Well, where I chat with life coach, Julie Starr, and she answers the question, which is also the title of her book, “Your husband left, now what?”.  Julie shares her own story and provides listeners with tools to help get them through this life shattering situation.  If your spouse has recently left you, you won’t want to miss this episode.  Julie is very supportive.

If you would like to contact Julie Starr, you can find her here:

https://starrcoaching.co.uk/team/julie-starr/

In this week’s episode of Divorcing Well, I chat with Karen McMahon about her 12 Step Divorce Recovery Approach.   Karen is a certified relationship and divorce coach and went through her own high conflict divorce.  During her own three and a half year divorce she focused on healing and refining herself.  She found her voice and developed a coaching program called Journey Beyond Divorce which helps men and women around the world, not only recover from divorce but thrive.  Her program is based on 12 step recovery programs but adapted as appropriate for those going through divorce.  I think this program sounds amazing and you won’t want to miss this episode.

To contact Karen visit:

www.journeybeyonddivorce.com

In this week’s episode of Divorcing Well, I chat with marriage coach, Beth Miller about the three things you should do before officially deciding to end your marriage.  Leaving a marriage is a tough decision and Beth discusses important things that you should think about before making that decision.  If you are on the fence about leaving, you won’t want to miss this episode.

Join me in this week’s episode of Divorcing Well as I chat with real estate agent and divorce specialist, Michael Shuster.  Michael shares some of the common mistakes that divorcing couples make, and why you shouldn’t make them.  The matrimonial home is the biggest asset of most couples and so its sale often raises many contentious issues between couples who don’t trust each other.  Michael provides some great advice so you won’t want to miss this episode.

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Ontario Real Estate Specialist MICHAEL SHUSTER (shusterrealestate.com)

In the first episode of season 4 of the Divorcing Well podcast, I chat with the inspiring Shannelle Vogt who is the subject of the short documentary called Fault Lines.  Shannelle shares her story of being a promising figure skater, and then Miss Canada, only to become involved in an abusive relationship that alienated her from her family and friends, and put her into a life of struggle and hardship.  Shannelle shares how she overcame her challenges, left the relationship as a young mother, and began her journey of healing.  You won’t want to miss this beautiful and inspiring story.

In this week’s episode of Divorcing Well, I chat with Juan Lee, an author and teacher of the powerful tool of introspection and the philosophy of love. Juan discusses the importance of maintaining an attitude of love towards others even when you are going through challenges like divorce where the other party may have wronged you. Juan focuses on helping others achieve inner peace and contentment, and focuses on building a life with a positive, loving mindset. In this highly divisive world where so many dwell on our differences, Juan brings people together by finding commonalities. This interview is very inspirational and you won’t want to miss it.

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In this week’s episode of Divorcing Well, I chat with Millen Livis who is a financial coach as well as a speaker, author and CEO of Dare to Change Life.  We discuss the importance of financial planning and understanding money.  So many people are financially devastated by divorce and Millen provides advice on how to rebuild and the steps you can take to protect yourself.  This is such an important topic, you won’t want to miss this episode. 

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