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Never be Yourself. You can't be yourself coz if you are yourself you don't go to the next level. 

Become someone else before you discover who you are. The real you isn't yet known to you. You just know what others said about you. 

So you need to figure out who you are. No school teach you this. They make you somebody they are and not somebody you are. 

Your society does the same, they make you do what they have done. They make you give up on things they gave up on.

Most of us try being the best, most of us keep trying to do the best things in our life. We try to be the best actor, the best sportsman, the best businessman, etc but the best never became the best by doing that. 

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Negativity Attracts us, negative energy attracts us faster than the positives and that is the one reason we find so many negative people in our neighborhood. 

The big question : 

So who are these people?

How difficult is it to find them? 

How do they manage to have so much negativity in their life? 

and why should we be away from them?

and once we find them, how do we keep ourselves away from them. 

Well, I have all the answers for you. I too had  this around me because I never knew,

Nobody ever said to me that these kind of people are bad

They are contagious

They have a negative energy

and will make you negative too

so you need to keep a safe distance but what about the questions.

- They always worry

- They try to tell you what to do

- They enjoy secrecy

- They are pessimists

- They cannot limit their exposure to bad news

- They have very thin skin

- They complain a lot

- They never move outside their comfort zone

- They love the word ‘but’

- They are underachievers

- They never get excited about future projects

- They become energy suckers

- They miss out on the good things of life

So find the people who you think match to above and keep a safe distance from them. Try least communicate or interaction with them and even if you have to, don't let their negativity influence or drain your positive energy.

So make a list of all the negative people and if you too are one of them, keep a distance from the negative thoughts, practice being positive, and keeping distance.

It is said that you are what your friends are. One can predict your personality if they know your 5 friends or people with whom you are around most of the time. 

If you have problems in your life, try finding out somebody in your group is also facing similar problems. 

Be it personal, marriage, business, financial or anything. You will find your network or the people your are close to also have similar problems like you. 

So what does that conclude? 

So what does that mean?

You are what your surrounding is

So be around successful

Be around the great

Be around masters

Be around the best

don't choose to be around average

because they won't push you

they won't challenge you

they won't inspire you

to work hard

to be strong

and to not have complains

and to not struggle

Make new friends get out of their comfort zone. 

You are used to your old friends because

You don't want to make new

and why you don't want to make new

Coz you will have to meet new people

Know new people 

and get out of your comfort zone 

Trust them and make new friends. 

Get into a new neighborhood

Get to a new city

Into a new society or wherever 

You can get the new you. 

You can find the new you, the hidden you. 

Who better than me can understand this. 

I was lazy and I was never willing to get out

Go out and meet new people. 

Make new friends but when I understood

that my growth and my success

are dependant on this one habit of me. 

This one thing is stopping me for being what I want to be? 

I started moving out. I still struggle,

I still fight with myself

I still try to just know a few people who I have known for the last 10-15 years 

But I get myself out, out of the comfort zone. 

So how are you going to do that? 

Talk to your neighbor

Make a new friend in the lift today

in the Taxi, in your office 

at a coffee shop

it could be anywhere and you will find a lot of people like you

I heard somebody saying if your friends haven't changed for the last 5 years or 10 years, you haven't grown. If you don't have new and better friends means you are right where you were.

That doesn't mean if you don't fit in L, you are thinking of xxxl. 

The very idea of success starts from being extraordinary. Ordinary is not SUCCESS

A step beyond Ordinary is what SUCCESS is

That Extra-Ordinary is what we all define as success. 

This is the only difference between SUCCESS and failure. 

Extraordinary with :

1. Personal, Physical, Business, or Financial

2. Just be extraordinary

Target the center and you will reach close to the center. But if you target the sides, you won't even hit the board. 

Being extraordinary isn't easy

but success too isn't easy

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1. Our brain has been wired to be lazy, to pick up the easier things, to take the easy path, to use a shortcut.

2. It gives us an immediate sense of achievement. 

3. We are short-sighted

4. We are unable to see far away

5. We are unable to see the future 

6. We mostly don't see the results, we just see the action and take the easy action.

But what actually makes you successful is not easy because easy is what most of us choose. Easy is what is the default. You can't choose easy, you have to challenge 

Challenge your actions

Challenge your beliefs

Challenge your thoughts

and challenge your targets

challenge the results 

Challenge and push yourself. Push your limits and that will make you grow. 

Get out of the comfort zone

Get out of the boundary

You notice a cricket ball when it goes outside the boundary, you learn to swim when you dive into the river

You see the beauty inside the ocean when you dive in

So push yourself, challenge yourself, and make it a practice. 

Like you are used to being in your comfort zone, used to of not challenging yourself, used to not pushing yourself. 

Get used to the opposite. Slowly and steadily.

Challenge, Push, and come out of the comfort zone. 

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How to make a successful career. The most important lesson in life. 

Most of us always struggle, struggle with what? 

1. Competition

2. Fighting to stand in the queue. 

3. Pass an exam

4. Make a few thousand dollars

5. Get a good job

6. and Settle our life. 

when we should be never be struggling. We should be winning, winning over problems, situations, exams, career, money. 

We are never taught to do so. 

What we are taught is basic, what we are taught is rudimentary

Do something that is beyond the basic.

Do something that is not normal and it's not very difficult to find. 

You just need to do what others refuse to do and you will win. You can win big. 

Whatever industry you are in, whatever career you want to make. Find out what your so-called competition does. 

and then win over.

You just need to that extra bit which others refuse to, and its not difficult at all. You just need to : 

1. Be honest

2. Be ethical 

3. Deliver extra

Examples: A plumber coming to your house,

You visiting a service center. 

We all love that extra. The extra 20% off. We love it. 

This additional is this.

and how can you do this? 

By first doing it for yourself. 

Give yourself extra, do what you do a little more. Do what your mind refuses to. You want to work out but your mind isn't allowing you to? Do it. Your mind says to do 30 mins of work out, do 40 mins. 20 pushups - do 30. 

Just keep doing extra in every aspect of life. Your target to read one chapter in a book. Read one and a half and sleep. 

You plan to wake up at 4:00 am - Wake up at 3:45. 

Give yourself extra and improve your life with these extras. YOu will find the difference for yourself. 

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Tough times never last, but tough people do. So, during tough times, you have to become tough too. One can never face tough times being easy towards it. So how do you cope up with the tough times we're in? 

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“Remember that time is money.” – Benjamin Franklin

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