Society often expresses privilege as something unfair, something that should be removed from those who possess it.   If you have ever experienced the threat of losing something dear to you then you know this triggers emotions and often a fight response, and those with privilege just move to defend it harder, so this is ineffective.  
What if instead we worked towards every human having those privileges.  Rather than feel the need to defend being privileged, what if we nurture and grow our privileges so there is plenty to go around for everyone?