Doing Too Much Show

In this episode, Alicia and Kirk discuss the challenges and experiences of parenting two children under two while managing a business. They share insights on the importance of professional support, the chaos of newborn sleep, and the necessity of maintaining health and structure in their lives. In this conversation, Alicia discusses the challenges and changes that come with having a second child, including the nesting instinct, shifts in family dynamics, and the importance of managing postpartum expectations. The dialogue emphasizes the need for organization, communication, and self-care during this chaotic period.

Takeaways

• Professional support is crucial
• Juggling two kids is challenging Nesting instinct impacts organization
• Postpartum visitor expectations matter

Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction and Upgrades
• 00:54 Navigating Life with Two Under Two
• 02:52 The Chaos of Newborn Sleep
• 06:11 Balancing Work and Parenting
• 10:03 Impact of Sleep on Daily Life
• 12:04 Maintaining Relationships Amidst Chaos
• 13:52 Health and Well-being as a Priority
• 17:11 Structure and Support in Parenting
• 20:01 Preparing Siblings for a New Baby
• 24:35 The Nesting Instinct and Home Organization
• 28:55 Shifts in Family Dynamics
• 33:09 Transactional Relationships in Parenthood
• 38:30 Postpartum Visitor Expectations
• 44:58 The Importance of Push Presents
• 46:26 Maintaining Health Amidst Chaos

Second Home Birth Story: What Changed the Experience the Second Time

Dr. Alicia MacPherson, ND and her partner discuss their second home birth, comparing it to their first, much more intense labor with Bodhi. The episode focuses on what made this birth feel like a redemption story, from mindset shifts and labor prep to practical tools that helped Alicia stay grounded through contractions.We discuss the realities of unmedicated home birth, why first-time birth stories can be misleading, and how trust in the midwife, environment, and support person shaped the outcome. This is a candid, detailed account of what actually helped, what didn’t, and why the second birth felt calmer, faster, and more controlled.

We're Alicia and Kirk.

We run multiple businesses, a Christmas tree farm, have five animals, and are about to become parents of two under two.

In our first episode, we're talking about why we started this podcast, how we're preparing for another home birth, what life actually looks like behind the scenes, and why "doing too much" has become our family motto.

00:00 – Welcome to the Doing Too Much Show

03:10 – Why we decided to start this podcast

07:10 – What "Doing Too Much" actually means

08:40 – Kirk describes our life in one sentence

10:20 – Running businesses, a farm, and preparing for baby #2

12:45 – Are we actually ready for two under two?

14:10 – What we're most excited (and nervous) about

17:00 – Running a business during maternity leave

19:15 – Alicia's biggest overthinking spiral

20:20 – Hiring our "village" and buying back time

22:30 – Who will struggle more after baby arrives?

23:50 – Supporting postpartum recovery as a husband

25:05 – "Mess is a choice" and simplifying our home

28:00 – What we'd do differently with our second baby

30:20 – Why we're choosing another home birth

31:00 – Kirk's perspective watching an unmedicated birth

34:20 – What scared him the most

36:00 – What hypnobirthing videos don't prepare dads for

39:00 – What we'd change this time around

41:00 – How dads can actually prepare for labour

43:30 – Practical tips for birth partners

47:00 – Why this pregnancy has felt completely different

50:45 – Disney princess pregnancy vs. alligator pregnancy

54:10 – Our "Doing Too Much" moments of the week

56:40 – How we're protecting our marriage through the chaos

59:30 – The small habits keeping our relationship strong

1:00:15 – Wrapping up Episode 1

• Why we finally decided to start a podcast
• What it's really like running businesses while raising a family
• Preparing for two under two
• A dad's perspective on home birth
• How we're simplifying life before baby arrives
• Postpartum recovery from both perspectives
• The mental load of pregnancy
• Protecting your relationship when life gets busy
• Why "mess is a choice" became our new family motto

Follow along as we navigate business, farm life, health, marriage, and raising two little boys while trying (and often failing) not to do too much.

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The sleep struggles of perimenopause are often misunderstood—and under-addressed. If you're waking up multiple times a night, feeling exhausted despite hours in bed, or battling hot flashes and anxiety, you're not alone—and more importantly, you're not powerless.

In this eye-opening episode, Dr. Alicia MacPherson dives into the root causes behind sleep disruption during perimenopause. She reveals that these issues are not simply a consequence of aging or poor habits, but are driven by complex hormonal and neurological shifts—particularly declines in progesterone, estrogen fluctuations, and impaired thermoregulation. You'll discover how these changes lead to unpredictable sleep, fragmented nights, and a sense of exhaustion that no amount of "sleep hygiene" can fix.

We break down the three overlapping mechanisms sabotaging your sleep: hormonal decline, neural changes, and temperature instability. Dr. Alicia shares actionable insights on how to identify which pattern is disrupting your rest—whether it's early morning cortisol rises, night wakings from hot flashes, or brain hyperarousal—and tailor strategies accordingly. From optimizing blood sugar to cooling your environment, and understanding why traditional sleep advice often falls short, this episode provides a targeted approach you can start today.

Missing out on restorative sleep isn't just inconvenient—it's a barrier to managing menopause symptoms, losing fat, building muscle, and maintaining mental clarity. If you're tired of one-size-fits-all solutions that don't work, this episode is your wake-up call. Better sleep during perimenopause is within reach when you understand these hormonal and neurological shifts—and how to work with them, not against them.

Whether you're in early peri or deep into menopause, this episode gives you the tools and knowledge to break the cycle, restore your rest, and reclaim your energy. For women navigating this transformative phase, understanding your sleep blueprint is essential—and Dr. Alicia’s expert guidance makes it possible.

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The Hidden Muscle Crisis During Perimenopause and How to Fight Back

Perimenopause brings more than just hormonal shifts — it quietly accelerates muscle loss, which impacts metabolism, strength, and overall health. In this episode, Dr. Alicia MacPherson explores how declining estrogen and rising FSH levels affect muscle tissue, and offers practical strategies to combat this process.In this episode:

• The connection between perimenopause, muscle loss, and body composition changes
• How estrogen supports muscle protein synthesis and mitochondrial function
• The concept of anabolic resistance and its impact on muscle building
• The importance of muscle quality over quantity, and early signs of decline
• Resistance training principles for perimenopausal women, including training to failure with heavy loads
• Adjusting protein intake to overcome anabolic resistance
• The role of recovery in muscle maintenance
• How preserving muscle mass benefits metabolism, energy, mood, and long-term health

Timestamps:00:00 - Understanding how perimenopause accelerates muscle loss and fat redistribution

00:24 - The hidden story of muscle mass decline independent of weight changes

00:43 - How body composition shifts can be felt in clothes, photos, and daily activities

01:15 - The role of estrogen in muscle health and its decline during perimenopause

01:57 - Why muscle strength declines faster than muscle size and what this means for women

02:55 - The impact of estrogen on muscle repair, mitochondrial function, and anti-inflammatory effects

03:25 - The emerging role of rising FSH levels in muscle loss during late perimenopause

03:49 - Differentiating muscle quantity from muscle quality and functional decline

04:16 - Early signs of muscle deterioration as functional impairments in daily life

04:51 - Basal muscle protein synthesis rates increase, but efficiency drops — introducing anabolic resistance

05:46 - How lean muscle loss decreases resting metabolic rate and impacts glucose disposal

06:46 - The window for effective intervention during perimenopause to reverse muscle decline

07:05 - The importance of resistance training over cardio for muscle preservation

07:23 - Challenges with traditional moderate weights and the need for heavier loads

07:50 - Training to failure: what it means and how to implement it safely

08:30 - The critical role of protein intake and the target of 20-30 grams per meal

09:10 - The significance of recovery to support muscle repair and minimize inflammation

09:39 - Changing workout routines and nutrition to protect muscle and metabolic health

10:23 - Invitation to book a consultation to personalize your muscle-preservation plan

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In this episode, Dr. Alicia MacPherson breaks down how cortisol regulation changes during perimenopause and its impact on stress, sleep, and fat loss. She emphasizes the importance of understanding cortisol’s true role, debunks common myths, and offers practical strategies to support hormonal health during this transitional phase.

• The natural rhythm of cortisol and how it gets disrupted in perimenopause
• How estrogen fluctuations influence stress response and cortisol regulation
• The connection between cortisol dysregulation, visceral fat, and insulin resistance
• The behavioral and lifestyle factors that worsen cortisol imbalance
• Evidence-based techniques for managing cortisol, including dietary choices, movement, and sleep hygiene
• The importance of simplifying routines and reducing decision fatigue to support nervous system health
• Clarifying myths around adrenal fatigue and hormonal depletion
• Practical tips for aligning lifestyle habits with hormonal needs in perimenopause

00:00 - Why stress impacts women differently in perimenopause
02:20 - The typical cortisol rhythm and what changes during perimenopause
03:28 - How fluctuating estrogen affects stress regulation and cortisol response
04:47 - The link between cortisol dysregulation and belly fat
05:41 - Why stress eating is common during perimenopause
06:39 - The misconception of adrenal fatigue and the real underlying issues
07:36 - Challenges of measuring cortisol and personalized approaches
08:30 - The role of exercise and movement in cortisol regulation
09:28 - Blood sugar stability as a cortisol management tool
10:15 - Practical tips for reducing stress load and decision fatigue
11:35 - How household routines and minimalism support nervous system health
13:38 - The compounded demands of life during perimenopause
15:05 - A holistic view of stress response, hormonal shifts, and fat loss

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In this episode, Dr. Alicia MacPherson discusses the impact of perimenopause on insulin resistance and metabolic changes. She explains the hormonal shifts, fat distribution, and the role of cortisol and sleep disruption in creating a perfect storm for metabolic challenges. Dr. MacPherson also highlights the hallmark signs of insulin resistance and provides practical strategies to improve insulin sensitivity and navigate perimenopause effectively.

Takeaways

• Perimenopause leads to significant metabolic changes, including insulin resistance and hormonal shifts.
• Practical strategies such as protein-focused breakfast, strategic carb consumption, and post-meal physical activity can improve insulin sensitivity and support women in perimenopause.

Chapters

• 00:00 Understanding Carbs in Perimenopause
• 06:27 Hallmark Signs of Insulin Resistance

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The peri-menopause series introduces the challenges faced by women during this phase, highlighting the impact of hormonal shifts and the increase in visceral fat. It provides strategies for managing peri-menopause, emphasizing the importance of resistance training, diet, and sleep. The series also discusses the assessment of progress and next steps for women in peri-menopause.

Takeaways

• Understanding the challenges of peri-menopause
• Importance of resistance training in managing peri-menopause

Chapters

• 00:00 Introduction to Peri-menopause Series
• 06:28 Visceral Fat Increase
• 12:06 Importance of Resistance Training

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The conversation explores the significant impact of the gut microbiome on calorie absorption and fat loss. It gets into the role of short chain fatty acids, inflammation, motivation, appetite, cravings, and hormonal shifts in influencing fat loss. Additionally, it provides insights on supporting the gut microbiome for effective fat loss.

Takeaways

• Gut microbiome affects calorie absorption

Chapters

• 00:00 The Impact of Gut Microbiome on Calorie Absorption
• 08:24 Inflammation and Fat Loss
• 13:26 Gut Microbiome and Weight Loss

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