In one of the most emotional and powerful episodes of Domestic Dad: Cleaning Up the Mess, host Nick Barnett sits down with Jason Comer, a husband, father of five, and living testimony of how God’s grace can turn devastation into destiny.

Jason’s life is a raw reflection of brokenness, rebellion, incarceration, relapse, forgiveness, and divine restoration. This episode traces his complete journey—from a troubled childhood and early substance use, to meth addiction, prison, family separation, and the miraculous road back to sobriety, faith, and fatherhood.

Through tears, laughter, and hard truths, Jason opens up about what it means to be a man redeemed. He shares how Hope City Church, mentorship, and a community of believers gave him the spiritual and emotional tools he never had growing up. His story reveals the brutal reality of addiction—but more importantly, the beauty of God’s redemption story when we finally stop running.

This is more than a story about getting sober. It’s a story about becoming whole, about how God can take the pieces of a shattered life and build something new—something strong enough to lead a family, raise kids with love, and inspire others to believe that no matter how dark the pit, there is always a way out.

If you’re a parent fighting your own battles, a man seeking purpose, or someone walking through the ashes of addiction or shame—this episode will meet you right where you are.

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🧭 The Journey — A Timeline of Redemption

00:00 – Podcast Introduction and Technical Glitch

00:08 – Guest Introduction and Initial Conversation

01:06 – Jason’s Childhood and Family Background: growing up without consistent structure, navigating ADHD, and early identity struggles.

02:25 – Dealing with ADHD and Early School Experiences: learning challenges and emotional disconnection.

04:13 – Struggles with Authority and Early Rebellions: the seedbed of anger and defiance that would shape his teens.

12:25 – Teenage Years and Substance Use: alcohol, marijuana, and the first taste of escape.

14:25 – Yearning for Connection and Role Models: the father-shaped void that fueled destructive choices.

19:37 – High School Challenges and Moving in with Dad: searching for belonging and the impact of a broken home.

26:23 – Legal Troubles and Incarceration: addiction catches up—arrests, consequences, and a wake-up call.

29:57 – Finding Faith and Mentorship in Jail: discovering the Bible behind bars and realizing God still had a plan.

40:12 – Struggles with Alcohol and Meth: the relapse cycle and the deception of “just one drink.”

40:48 – The Gateway of Alcohol: the door that reopened old chains.

41:58 – Impact on Family and Self: the heartbreak his wife and kids endured as addiction took over.

44:12 – The Turning Point: the night everything fell apart—and God began to rebuild.

48:12 – Meeting My Future Wife: the divine appointment that would change everything.

55:39 – Adoption and Family Life: building a blended home, holding onto hope.

01:05:01 – Relapse and Consequences: the fall after progress and the battle to get back up.

01:19:03 – Repairing Relationships: forgiveness, humility, and doing the real work of restoration.

01:24:49 – Embracing Forgiveness and Love: rediscovering grace through his wife’s unwavering faith.

01:25:53 – Struggles and Poor Decisions: lessons learned in failure.

01:27:20 – A Life-Changing Accident: a moment that shifted everything.

01:30:53 – Rebuilding and Relapse: learning that healing isn’t linear.

01:35:22 – Finding Faith and Community: Hope City, mentorship, and rediscovering purpose through service.

01:43:05 – Family and Personal Growth: thriving in sobriety and watching his children flourish.

01:56:28 – Lessons in Sobriety and Fatherhood: hard-earned wisdom, legacy, and learning to fight from victory, not for it.

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🔥 Key Themes and Takeaways

•Faith Over Failure: How surrendering to God’s will became the foundation for healing.

•Fatherhood in Recovery: What it takes to rebuild trust, show up, and lead your family after addiction.

•Power of Community: How Hope City Church and mentorship gave Jason and Brie the tools to thrive.

•Marriage Restoration: A love story rebuilt on forgiveness, prayer, and obedience.

•Generational Healing: Turning pain into purpose and breaking the cycle for the next generation.

•Practical Sobriety Lessons: “Stay away from the fence,” “failure isn’t final,” and “change your association.”

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🙌 Why This Episode Matters

Jason’s story embodies everything Domestic Dad: Cleaning Up the Mess stands for—honesty, redemption, and the power of showing up. This is a masterclass in grace under fire, a guide for any parent trying to rebuild from chaos, and a testament that God restores what the enemy tried to destroy.

By the end, you’ll understand why Jason says, “We didn’t smell like smoke anymore—we smelled like victory.”

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🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube to hear how one man turned pain into purpose, addiction into anointing, and fatherhood into a daily act of faith.

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In this moving episode of Domestic Dad: Cleaning Up the Mess, Nick sits down with evangelist David Ursin to unpack a life shaped by faith, tested by trials, and transformed by grace.

David grew up in Cedar Falls, Iowa, the son of a Methodist pastor, learning early what it meant to be a “PK.” Yet despite being surrounded by church, he admits he lived in a lukewarm faith—outwardly devoted, but inwardly unsure what true surrender looked like. That all changed at 19, when a simple trip to Memphis opened his eyes to believers on fire for Jesus. In that airport, he made the decision to give God everything—and he never looked back.

David shares how fasting, Bible college, and unexpected mentorship under evangelism legends Reinhard Bonnke and Daniel Kolenda propelled him into global ministry. From learning the foundations of scripture to organizing gospel crusades for tens of thousands in Pakistan and India, David opens up about the miracles, the challenges, and the very real risks that come with preaching in hostile environments—including persecution, terrorist threats, and even moments of radical conversion among those once opposed to the gospel.

But this isn’t just a story of global missions—it’s also one of family. David reflects on meeting his wife Natalia, a widowed mother of two whose husband was tragically murdered. He shares how her radical act of forgiveness just one week after the killing became one of the clearest pictures of Christ he has ever seen. Together, David and Natalia built a family rooted in redemption: he legally adopted her twins earlier this year, giving them his name as their father, and they recently welcomed their first biological daughter, Evangelina, whose birth carries a powerful tie to Romans 1:16.

Throughout the conversation, David and Nick dive deep into themes of faith, forgiveness, and fatherhood. They talk about the challenges of blended families, the responsibility of spiritual leadership in the home, and why spending daily time with Jesus is the only way to lead with strength.

This episode is both inspiring and practical—a reminder that faith isn’t passive, it’s a verb. Whether you’re wrestling with forgiveness, searching for direction, or simply navigating the everyday chaos of parenting, David’s story will encourage you to trust God with everything.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

00:59 David's Early Life and Upbringing

01:56 Struggles with Faith and Youth Group Experiences

04:13 Turning Point: Encounter in Memphis

11:48 Bible College Journey

19:21 Evangelism Training and Mentorship

26:23 Organizing Mass Gospel Events

37:06 Personal Life and Meeting His Wife

41:03 Introduction to Natalia's Story

41:48 The Power of Forgiveness

42:23 A Tragic Murder and Its Aftermath

43:27 Reflections on Forgiveness and Faith

51:02 Challenges of Blended Families

57:59 Adoption and Legal Parenthood

01:00:47 Becoming a Biological Father

01:06:30 Faith and Parenting

01:16:42 Final Thoughts and Advice

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In one of the most powerful testimonies ever shared on Domestic Dad: Cleaning Up the Mess, Nick Barnett sits down with Jay—a father, barber, and man radically transformed by the grace of God—to tell a story that is nothing short of miraculous.

Jay’s journey begins in the thick of childhood instability and relational chaos, navigating life without the tools or truth he desperately needed. Like many men, he sought identity in all the wrong places: the streets, lust, broken relationships, and worldly validation. But the enemy’s lies only led him deeper into confusion, shame, and emotional devastation. A custody battle, trust issues, and even suicidal thoughts drove Jay to the edge.

But it was in the dirt, in the very place he thought was his lowest point, that God began to move. With unmatched vulnerability and boldness, Jay recounts the moment he gave his life to Christ—how God didn’t wait for him to be perfect, polished, or prepared. He met Jay right where he was: in the pain, in the questions, in the mess.

This episode is a front-row seat to the supernatural transformation of a man who learned that true healing comes through surrender, obedience, and intimacy with the Father. Jay speaks about the holy impact of his baptism, the way daily devotion is reshaping his mind, and how God is now using his barbershop as sacred ground for ministry—turning haircuts into holy encounters.

What you’ll hear is not self-help. It’s not behavior modification. It’s regeneration through the Holy Spirit. Jay’s story is a testimony to the living God who still raises the dead, breaks chains, and plants seeds in dirt to bear fruit for generations.

If you’ve ever wondered whether God could use your mess for His glory—this episode will leave no doubt. God is still in the business of resurrection. And Jay is living proof.

Episode Timeline Highlights

•00:46 Childhood & Chaos: Where the cracks began

•14:32 Teenage Years & the Streets: Looking for identity

•22:40 Barbering: A craft becomes a calling

•34:46 Rock Bottom: The night suicide felt like the only option

•35:58 The Gym & Brotherhood: God begins to pursue Jay

•47:58 Baptism & Bold Faith: Publicly choosing Christ

•54:47 Godly Friendship: The importance of spiritual community

•01:07:41 “The Fence” Story: The cost of sitting in the middle

•01:10:44 Creating a God-Centered Space: Turning the barbershop into a ministry

•01:14:48 Discipling His Children: Fathering with eternity in mind

•01:22:49 What He Wants to Be Remembered For: A holy man of God

Key Spiritual Themes

•God meets us in the dirt—not when we’re clean, but when we’re surrendered

•The false promise of lust and the redemptive power of purity

•Baptism as a public declaration of spiritual death and rebirth

•The power of daily obedience and devotional discipline

•Barbershop as sanctuary: bringing ministry into the marketplace

•Discipling your children toward Heaven—not success, but salvation

•Why you don’t have to be perfect to be used by God

•The truth that every man is either on the narrow path or the wide one—there is no fence

This episode isn’t just about Jay.

It’s about what God can do with any man—any father—who is willing to lay down pride, pick up the cross, and walk in faith, no matter how dirty the path once was.

Tune in and be reminded:

You are never too far gone. You are never too dirty.

And you are never beyond the reach of the redeeming love of Jesus Christ.

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Crushed by Depression, Called by God: How Faith and Purpose Saved Mason Smith

In this powerful and vulnerable episode of Domestic Dad: Cleaning Up The Mess, host Nick Barnett sits down with Mason Smith—a former youth pastor, missionary, husband, and father—for a deeply personal journey through depression, a suicide attempt, spiritual awakening, and calling.

Mason didn’t grow up in chaos. He had a loving family and a strong foundation. But his world was shattered by a series of tragic losses that opened the door to darkness, depression, and numbness. At just 17 years old, he sat on his bed with a loaded shotgun, ready to end his life—until God intervened in a miraculous way.

This episode explores that moment—and everything that followed. Mason shares the long road from surviving to living: walking away from the fence of apathy, wrestling with his faith, and slowly rebuilding his life one surrendered step at a time. From college disillusionment to his first mission trip that awakened a true love for God, Mason’s story is one of obedience, purpose, and the relentless pursuit of truth.

Nick and Mason dive into the messiness of ministry, the beauty of fatherhood, and the calling that eventually led Mason to become the Asia Director for a global missions organization. Along the way, we hear about his love story with his wife, raising two boys, and what it means to lead with humility, honesty, and faith.

For anyone who’s ever wondered if their past disqualifies them from their purpose—this conversation is proof that your darkest moments can become your greatest testimony. Mason’s story is a reminder that no matter how far you’ve fallen, God isn’t done with you yet.

Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:30 Childhood Memories

02:22 First Encounter with Loss

04:48 Struggles with Depression

06:19 Turning Point and Faith Journey

08:43 High School Challenges

18:59 College Life and Spiritual Awakening

23:53 Mission Work and Personal Growth

30:34 Finding Love and Building a Family

37:56 Ministry and Life Lessons

39:31 Supporting Each Other in Ministry

40:24 A Call to Missions

42:06 A Divine Encounter

44:53 Stepping Out in Faith

45:46 Finding the Right Fit

48:37 The Importance of Support

56:53 Fatherhood Reflections

01:06:18 Advice for Those in Despair

01:14:50 The Power of Community

01:15:27 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

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From Combat to Calling: How Chris Jung Found Faith and Fatherhood

In this deeply moving episode of Domestic Dad: Cleaning Up The Mess, host Nick Barnett sits down with Chris Jung, a military veteran, husband, and father, for an emotional journey through war, trauma, healing, and redemption. Chris opens up about his deployment to Afghanistan, the loss of a friend in combat, and the invisible wounds of PTSD that followed him home.

From the adrenaline of firefights and close calls with death, to the heartbreak of watching a friend’s life taken in an instant, Chris shares the harrowing reality of military life with raw honesty. But the battles didn’t stop when he came home. Like so many veterans, Chris found himself trying to survive civilian life with trauma he didn’t know how to process—turning to alcohol to numb the pain, isolate, and escape.

What followed was a hard-fought climb toward healing. Chris talks about the darkness of suicidal thoughts, the moment he picked up the phone instead of the gun, and the powerful role his wife played in helping him face his demons. Their story of love, resilience, and faith is a testament to the strength of community and the power of accountability.

Nick and Chris dive deep into the challenges of marriage after trauma, the lessons learned through fatherhood, and what it means to break generational cycles. Chris also shares how he’s turning pain into purpose—leading his family with intention, serving on his local fire department, and giving back through his business, Stuff Etc. in Waterloo, which is donating 10% of Father’s Day sales to the Domestic Dad Project.

This episode is a must-listen for veterans, parents, and anyone navigating trauma, grief, or the long road to becoming the person they were meant to be. Chris’s story is a reminder that no matter how broken you feel, healing is possible—and you are never alone in the fight.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

01:10 Childhood Memories and Challenges

04:49 Struggles with ADHD and School

13:21 Reconnecting with Estranged Father

21:10 Joining the Military

24:53 Deployment to Afghanistan

30:35 Patrolling the Sangar Valley

31:27 The Tragic Loss of Donny

33:25 Dealing with the Aftermath

36:28 A Lighter Mission

36:59 Unexpected Firefight

40:16 Battle of Dab

47:35 Returning Home and Coping

49:34 Struggles with Alcohol

52:37 Meeting My Wife

57:31 Adjusting to Family Life

01:00:16 Battling Depression and PTSD

01:03:39 Therapy and the Role of a Supportive Spouse

01:05:43 The Importance of Honesty in Marriage

01:11:29 Parenting Lessons and Disciplinary Approaches

01:16:58 The Role of Faith in Overcoming Fear

01:19:30 Memorable Moments and Lessons for Children

01:26:52 Advice for Veterans and Community Support

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In this gripping and emotional episode of Domestic Dad: Cleaning Up The Mess, host Nick Barnett sits down with Jason Hausman for a raw, unfiltered look at addiction, trauma, and the long road to redemption. Jason’s story is one of unimaginable darkness—from childhood abuse and early exposure to drugs, to meth addiction, manipulation, and a head-on collision that nearly took his life.

Jason opens up about being raised in a chaotic home filled with violence, addiction, and secrets. By the time he was a teenager, he was already using needles and selling drugs—desperately searching for love, connection, and a sense of control. His addiction spiraled into crime, self-destruction, and eventually, prison. But instead of being the end, prison became the beginning of his transformation.

Nick and Jason discuss the power of God’s grace, the weight of generational trauma, and the turning point when Jason surrendered his will and began rebuilding his life. From lying to survive, to finding truth through accountability and faith, Jason shares how small daily actions—and the right people—helped him find freedom and purpose.

With heartfelt honesty, Jason reflects on the impact his addiction had on his family, the guilt he carried, and how becoming a peer recovery coach has allowed him to turn his pain into purpose. His story is a powerful reminder that no one is beyond the reach of redemption, and that healing begins the moment we step into the light.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating addiction, recovery, or the quiet battle of believing they’re too far gone. Jason’s journey proves that grace is real, and that God still uses broken people to build beautiful things.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

01:19 Childhood Memories and Family Struggles

06:42 School Life and Early Signs of Addiction

13:26 Manipulation and Early Drug Use

19:00 High School and Escalation of Substance Abuse

28:09 First Treatment and Continued Struggles

33:06 Reflections on Recovery and Sobriety

37:54 Struggles with Self-Worth and Recovery

38:26 The Reality of Life After Treatment

39:10 Working in Treatment and Overcoming Criminal History

40:39 The Impact of Addiction on Loved Ones

41:06 Faith and the 12-Step Program

42:00 The Power of a Higher Power

43:20 The Paradox of Recovery

44:13 The Most Messed Up Moments

47:24 The Turning Point: Prison and Recovery

49:30 Faith and Support in Prison

52:47 Life After Prison: Recovery Coaching

01:13:11 Advice for Those Struggling with Addiction

01:17:56 The Possibility of Recovery

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In this heart-wrenching and hopeful episode of Domestic Dad: Cleaning Up the Mess, host Nick Barnett sits down with Esmir, a father whose life has been marked by both deep wounds and divine miracles.

Born in Bosnia and raised in the Midwest after fleeing war with his family, Esmir opens up about the challenges of growing up as an immigrant—navigating a new culture, emotional isolation, and generational trauma. But it wasn’t until his youngest son, Jack, was diagnosed with a rare and aggressive brain tumor that Esmir’s life truly cracked open.

What followed was a battle no parent is prepared for. In this raw conversation, Esmir shares how he confronted his own past, leaned into therapy, and began a spiritual journey that helped him support his son through countless rounds of chemo, a high-risk brain surgery, and ultimately, a miracle remission. Along the way, the Cedar Valley community showed up in force—proving that no one fights alone.

This episode is a powerful testament to resilience, redemption, and the love of a father willing to do anything for his family. If you’ve ever wondered where strength comes from in life’s darkest moments, Esmir’s story will show you.

Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction and Greetings

00:27 – Childhood Memories and Upbringing

03:35 – Struggles and Spiritual Journey

06:55 – Father-Son Relationship and Therapy

12:28 – Marriage and Early Fatherhood

26:13 – Jack’s Diagnosis and Hospital Journey

41:17 – Cherishing Tatum’s Memory

42:40 – The Strength of a Young Angel

44:09 – Community Support and Financial Relief

45:27 – Faith and Personal Growth

46:27 – Jackie’s Battle with Cancer

47:28 – The High-Intensity Chemo Journey

50:10 – The Emotional Toll and Family Dynamics

53:36 – The Miracle of Remission

01:06:04 – Reflections on Parenting and Faith

01:13:24 – Gratitude and Future Outlook

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Would You Get Healthy for Your Kids?

That’s the question we’re diving into on this powerful episode of Domestic Dad: Cleaning Up The Mess—and it’s one every father needs to hear.

In today’s episode, I’m joined by Nick Kuhle, a former high school teacher who faced a health crisis in his mid-20s that became the turning point of his life. Struggling with low testosterone, chronic inflammation, fatigue, and emotional burnout, Nick was told by doctors that hormone replacement therapy was his only option. But instead of settling for a quick fix, he chose the path of holistic healing.

Through functional medicine, nutritional therapy, and mindset coaching, Nick not only restored his health—he found his purpose: helping other men break free from the cycles of addiction, poor health, shame, and emotional suppression. He’s now a full-time health coach, helping fathers get their energy back, reclaim their identity, and build the kind of legacy their children will be proud of.

We cover a ton of ground in this episode:

•What happens when men in recovery trade alcohol for sugar or other compulsions

•How trauma and shame manifest in your health, energy, and parenting

•The emotional root of food cravings and how to address the why behind them

•Why most men are dehydrated, inflamed, under-slept, and overstressed—and how to fix it

•The truth about processed foods, pasta, and why “healthy” doesn’t always mean real

•How your language and internal dialogue shape your identity and behavior

• Why sleep, water, movement, and real food are still the best medicine

•The power of becoming your own best doctor

•And how shifting from “I struggle with” to “I experience” changes everything

But this episode goes beyond fitness and food.

It’s about fatherhood, faith, and facing your mess—head-on.

You’ll hear Nick’s take on why men must take responsibility for their physical and emotional health—not just for themselves, but for the next generation. We also talk about addiction recovery, marriage, mindset, and how our darkest moments can become defining ones if we let them.

You’ll also hear a deeply personal story from me—about my own battle with addiction, a near-suicidal moment that changed my life, and how my journey through sobriety, faith, and fatherhood led me to where I am today. And yes—how God answered our prayers after years of infertility, in a way only He could.

If you’re a man who wants to live with more energy, more intention, and more purpose—this episode is for you.

If you’re a dad who wants to stop surviving and start showing up—this episode is for you.

If you’ve ever wondered what it really means to live for your kids—this episode is for you.

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From Outlaw to Redemption: Ron Gruber’s Journey of Faith, Forgiveness, and Freedom

In this gripping and unfiltered episode of Domestic Dad: Cleaning Up The Mess, host Nick Barnett sits down with Ron Gruber, a man whose story is nothing short of miraculous. From an abusive childhood and the violent world of outlaw motorcycle gangs to decades spent in prison, Ron’s past is a haunting testament to the darkness that can consume a life. But his journey doesn’t end there—through a divine encounter in the woods, Ron found himself at the feet of God, discovering a path to forgiveness, faith, and a life transformed.

For years, Ron was trapped in a cycle of rage, revenge, and regret, serving time for murder and racketeering in some of the toughest prisons in America. It was there, in a solitary cell, that he began to understand the true cost of his choices and the possibility of redemption through Christ. Today, Ron is a man on a mission—sharing his story of radical change to show that no one is too far gone for God’s grace.

This episode delves into powerful themes of forgiveness, surrender, and the battle to overcome shame. Nick and Ron discuss the struggle to reconcile with a violent past, the challenge of self-forgiveness, and the relentless love of God that reaches even into the darkest places. If you’ve ever wondered if God can truly rewrite your story, Ron’s testimony is living proof that He can.

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Key Topics & Timeline:

00:00 — Introduction and Greetings

01:22 — Ron Gruber’s Childhood: Abuse, Trauma, and Survival

05:23 — Life with a Motorcycle Gang: Brotherhood or Bondage?

07:26 — First Imprisonment and Gang Life: The Brutal Reality

16:00 — Turning Point and Finding Faith: A Night in the Woods

23:32 — Struggles and Redemption: The Battle for the Soul

33:42 — Obedience and Faith in Adversity: Staying True to God

35:34 — Reconnecting with Family: Healing Broken Relationships

37:00 — Impact of Testimonies: Changing Lives with the Word

38:01 — Struggles with Sin and Redemption: Fighting the Old Self

40:32 — Living in the Word: The Daily Fight for Faith

41:38 — Cleaning Up Life’s Messes: Owning Your Story

47:45 — Advice for the Broken: Hope for Those on the Edge

54:09 — Staying Connected to the Spirit: The Power of Prayer

58:05 — Final Reflections and Encouragement: The Road Ahead

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Why You Should Listen to This Episode:

✔️ Unfiltered honesty about violence, guilt, and the power of redemption.

✔️ A firsthand testimony of God’s ability to transform even the darkest lives.

✔️ Practical advice for those battling shame, regret, and feelings of unworthiness.

✔️ A reminder that no past is too dark for God’s light to break through.

✔️ Inspiring insights on the power of forgiveness, both receiving and giving.

If you’re struggling to believe that God has a plan for you, or if you’re fighting to forgive yourself for what’s been done or what you’ve done—this episode is for you. Ron’s story proves that even in the darkest nights, God’s grace shines brightest.

🎧 Listen now and let this story remind you that your past doesn’t have to define your future—God does.

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From the Fire to Freedom: Joe Bondy’s Journey of Redemption, Faith, and Fatherhood

In this raw and deeply moving episode of Domestic Dad: Cleaning Up The Mess, host Nick Barnett sits down with Joe Bondy, a man who has lived through the depths of addiction, violence, and self-destruction—only to emerge stronger through the grace of God. Joe’s story is one of unimaginable hardship, but also powerful transformation, healing, and redemption.

For over 30 years, Joe was caught in the cycle of addiction, incarceration, and broken relationships. He grew up in a world where violence and substance abuse were the norm, leading him down a dark path that nearly cost him everything—his family, his freedom, and even his life. But in his lowest moments, God reached out, and Joe’s journey took a turn toward hope, faith, and renewal. Now, he’s a leader in his community, mentoring men who are fighting their own battles with addiction and rebuilding their lives.

This episode explores powerful themes of fatherhood, faith, accountability, and breaking generational cycles. Nick and Joe discuss the struggles of addiction recovery, the deep wounds of childhood trauma, the reality of relapse, and the incredible healing that comes when you surrender to God’s plan. If you’ve ever questioned whether change is possible, Joe’s story is living proof that no one is beyond redemption.

Key Topics & Timeline:

00:00 Introduction and Welcoming Joe Bondy

00:30 Joe's Childhood: Love and Torment

02:19 Early Encounters with Racism

05:19 Struggles with Abuse and Early Drug Use

12:14 School Challenges and Dropping Out

16:03 Moving to Iowa and Escaping Gang Life

19:04 Finding Faith and Overcoming Addiction

22:59 Embracing a New Life in Christ

38:21 The Journey to Transformation

39:00 Struggles and Regrets

40:07 A Father's Guilt and Redemption

40:59 The Impact on Family

43:27 Seeking Forgiveness and Change

46:38 The Power of Faith and Community

49:30 Leading by Example

53:20 The Rise Up Program

01:03:28 A New Beginning

01:13:27 Pain Management and Medical Marijuana

01:14:40 Struggles with Addiction and Faith

01:16:02 Recovery and Relapse

01:21:13 Family and Personal Transformation

01:28:03 Community and Support Systems

01:48:28 Final Reflections and Advice

Why You Should Listen to This Episode:

✔️ Raw, unfiltered honesty about addiction, fatherhood, and faith.

✔️ A firsthand testimony of God’s power to redeem even the most broken lives.

✔️ Real-life strategies for men struggling with addiction and seeking transformation.

✔️ Encouragement and hope for those who feel like they’ve gone too far to be saved.

✔️ Insights on faith-based recovery, breaking generational cycles, and leading by example.

If you’re struggling with addiction, guilt, or wondering if change is really possible, this episode is a must-listen. Joe Bondy’s story proves that no matter how far you’ve fallen, God’s grace can pull you back up.

🎧 Listen now and let this conversation be a reminder that your past doesn’t define you—your next choice does.

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