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What if I told you that cemeteries could be more than just final resting places? What if they could serve as vibrant community spaces that celebrate life, culture, and nature? In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I sit down with Hamish Coates, a seasoned landscape architect and the principal designer at Greater Melbourne Cemeteries Trust. 

With over 20 years of experience, Hamish has transformed the way we think about cemeteries—not just as resting places for the dead, but as vibrant, accessible spaces for the living. We dive deep into the fascinating world of cemetery design, exploring how these spaces can reflect cultural diversity, promote community engagement, and even combat climate change.

Hamish shares his journey from traditional landscape architecture to the unique challenges of designing cemeteries. He discusses the importance of creating spaces that honour the deceased while also serving the needs of the living. From the intricacies of soil types and drainage to the innovative use of art and nature, Hamish reveals how thoughtful design can change perceptions of death and dying. We also touch on the growing demand for natural burials and the future of cemetery spaces in an ever-evolving urban landscape.

Join us as we explore the intersection of life, death, and design, and discover how cemeteries can become places of beauty, reflection, and community connection.

Key points from our discussion:

●      Cemeteries are primarily spaces for the living, offering comfort and community.

●      The design of cemeteries must consider cultural practices, environmental sustainability, and community needs.

●      Innovative burial methods, such as composting, are emerging as alternatives to traditional practices.

●      The importance of engaging with local communities and traditional owners in the design process.

●      The future of cemeteries may involve transforming them into multifunctional green spaces.

Where to Find Hamish Coates:

●      Greater Melbourne Cemeteries Trust: GMCT Website

●      LinkedIn: Hamish Coates 

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,

Catherine

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform. 

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

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No pressure.
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 it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

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In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I sit down with Leah Kaminsky, a physician and award-winning author, to explore the often-taboo subject of death and dying. Leah shares her personal journey from being a terrified doctor to becoming a passionate writer who confronts mortality head-on. We discuss how her experiences in medicine, particularly with dying patients, have shaped her understanding of life and death, and how writing has become a therapeutic outlet for her fears and emotions.

Leah's unique perspective as both a doctor and a writer allows her to weave together the complexities of human experience, history, and the inevitability of death in her novels and poetry. We delve into her creative process, the importance of honesty in conversations about death, and how her own family history has influenced her work. Leah's insights remind us that while death is a natural part of life, it can also be a catalyst for deeper connections and a more meaningful existence.

Join us as we unpack the layers of grief, the significance of storytelling, and the power of confronting our fears. Leah's journey is a testament to the idea that by embracing death, we can truly learn to live.

Key points from our discussion:

●      Leah's transition from a fearful doctor to a writer exploring death and dying.

●      The importance of honest conversations about death, especially with children.

●      How personal experiences with loss and family history shape our understanding of mortality.

●      The role of writing as a therapeutic process in confronting fears.

●      The connection between history, storytelling, and our relationship with death.

Leah’s Book Mentioned:

1. The Waiting Room
2. The Hollow Bones
3. We’re All Going to Die

Her website is: https://leahkaminsky.com/

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,

Catherine

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform. 

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

Sign up now to your free trial at critical info.com.au

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Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
 No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
 it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

Support the show

Support the 'Don’t Be Caught Dead' podcast with a one-off or regular donation to help Critical Info, a certified social enterprise, keep creating free, high-impact conversations about death, grief and planning—every contribution fuels our mission to reduce the burden on families and build a more death-literate, compassionate community. Donate here now.

Learn more: https://criticalinfo.com.au/

Connect with Don't Be Caught Dead podcast host Catherine Ashton & Critical info on socials:
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Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

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What if I told you that your body could continue to teach long after you take your last breath? In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I sit down with Jackie Dent, the author of The Great Dead Body Teachers, to unravel the fascinating and often misunderstood world of whole body donation. This isn’t just about science; it’s about legacy, ethics, and the profound impact our choices can have on future generations of medical professionals.

Jackie's journey into this hidden realm began with her grandparents, who donated their bodies to science, igniting a curiosity that led her to explore the intricate relationship between death and anatomy. As she delved deeper, she uncovered a tapestry of stories that reveal how body donors play a crucial role in medical education, the evolution of dissection practices, and the ethical dilemmas that arise in this sensitive field. From the historical significance of anatomy to the contemporary challenges faced by medical students, Jackie shares insights that will change the way you think about death and the human body.

Join us as we discuss the importance of memorialising body donors, the shift in societal attitudes towards death, and the need for open conversations about our end-of-life choices. This episode is a compelling invitation to confront our mortality and consider how we can contribute to the future, even after we’re gone.

Key points from our discussion:

• Whole body donation vs. organ donation: Understanding the differences and processes involved.
• The historical evolution of anatomy and dissection practices across cultures.
• The significance of body donor memorials and the humane anatomy movement.
• The ethical complexities surrounding body donation and anatomical museums.
• Personal reflections on the impact of body donation on families and medical students.

Find more about Jackie here

Get your copy of The Great Dead Body Teachers here

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,

Catherine

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform. 

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

Sign up now to your free trial at critical info.com.au

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Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
 No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
 it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
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Support the 'Don’t Be Caught Dead' podcast with a one-off or regular donation to help Critical Info, a certified social enterprise, keep creating free, high-impact conversations about death, grief and planning—every contribution fuels our mission to reduce the burden on families and build a more death-literate, compassionate community. Donate here now.

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Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

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What if the objects we hold dear could help us navigate the complex journey of grief? In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I sit down with Chloe Marcela Coelho, a passionate death scholar and creative practitioner who dives deep into the intricate dimensions of death, grief, and design. 

Chloe's work is all about enhancing our understanding of death and the grieving process through innovative memorialisation strategies. We explore how personal objects, tactile experiences, and even technology can help us maintain connections with our loved ones after they’ve passed.

Chloe shares her journey into the world of thanatology, sparked by her own experiences with grief after losing her mother at a young age. We discuss the importance of memorialisation and how it can take many forms—from patchwork quilts made from a loved one’s clothing to the inclusion of ashes in jewellery and tattoos. Chloe highlights the significance of engaging all our senses in the grieving process and how these tangible connections can provide comfort and healing.

We also touch on the ethical considerations in the death care industry, the misconceptions surrounding grief, and the need for more open conversations about death. Chloe’s insights challenge the traditional narratives around grief and encourage us to embrace our memories and connections with those we've lost.

Key points from our discussion:

- Understanding the role of memorialization in the grieving process.
The importance of tactile and sensory experiences in remembering loved ones.

- Exploring innovative ways to memorialize through design and technology.
The ethical considerations in the death care industry and the need for open conversations about death.

- Challenging misconceptions about grief and embracing the journey of remembrance.

Find more about Chloe:

Chloe’s website https://www.chloemarcelacoelho.com

Instagram: @chloe.m.coelho https://www.instagram.com/chloe.m.coelho

Vestiges of Memory - Grief unpacking project on my website: https://www.chloemarcelacoelho.com/vestiges-of-memory


Join us for a heartfelt conversation that aims to demystify death and inspire you to think creatively about how to honour your loved ones.

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.
Take care,
Catherine

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform. 

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

Sign up now to your free trial at critical info.com.au

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
 No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
 it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

Support the show

Support the 'Don’t Be Caught Dead' podcast with a one-off or regular donation to help Critical Info, a certified social enterprise, keep creating free, high-impact conversations about death, grief and planning—every contribution fuels our mission to reduce the burden on families and build a more death-literate, compassionate community. Donate here now.

Learn more: https://criticalinfo.com.au/

Connect with Don't Be Caught Dead podcast host Catherine Ashton & Critical info on socials:
https://linktr.ee/catherine_critical_info?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=c1879300-84db-4c70-9270-18d17d3ec22a

Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

We'd love to hear from you. Send us a text :-)

Have you ever wondered how poetry can help us face grief and mortality? In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, poet, philosopher and scholar Luke Fischer shares how poetry allows us to sit with loss and navigate life’s deepest challenges.

Luke talks about his personal journey, the influence of philosophy on his work, and how themes of nature, death and extinction shape his writing. His exploration of the Orpheus myth is particularly moving, showing how ancient stories continue to help us process grief.

Whether you're a poetry lover or new to it, this conversation will inspire reflection on death, creativity, and language.

Key highlights:
● The role of poetry in grief
● Luke's personal and creative journey
● The Orpheus myth and mortality
● How poetry keeps language alive
● Tips for expressing grief creatively

Learn more about Luke:
Profile Link

Discover the Orpheus and Eurydice myth:
A great place to start is Metamorphoses by Ovid — particularly Books X and XI. Read Book X online:
Metamorphoses (Book X) – Ovid

List of all the works mentioned by Luke Fischer during the episode:

1. A Gamble for My Daughter (poetry collection)
2. A Personal History of Vision (poetry collection)
3. Paths of Flight (poetry collection)
4. The Blue Forest (children's book)
5. The Poet as a Phenomenologist: Rilke and the New Poems (monograph)
6. Rilke's Sonnets to Orpheus: Philosophical and Critical Perspectives(co-edited volume of essays)
7. Goethe Yearbook (co-edited special section on Goethe and Environmentalism)
8. Beyond Existentialism: The Orphic Unity of Life and Death (essay included in Rilke's Sonnets to Orpheus)

If you enjoyed this episode, please share, subscribe and help normalise conversations about death.

You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,
Catherine

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform. 

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

Sign up now to your free trial at critical info.com.au

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
 No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
 it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

Support the show

Support the 'Don’t Be Caught Dead' podcast with a one-off or regular donation to help Critical Info, a certified social enterprise, keep creating free, high-impact conversations about death, grief and planning—every contribution fuels our mission to reduce the burden on families and build a more death-literate, compassionate community. Donate here now.

Learn more: https://criticalinfo.com.au/

Connect with Don't Be Caught Dead podcast host Catherine Ashton & Critical info on socials:
https://linktr.ee/catherine_critical_info?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=c1879300-84db-4c70-9270-18d17d3ec22a

Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

We'd love to hear from you. Send us a text :-)

In this heartfelt episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I sit down with the remarkable Judith Leeson AM, a passionate advocate for those living with disadvantage and a champion for end-of-life planning. At 90 years young, Judith shares her incredible journey, from her early memories during the Great Depression to her extensive career in early childhood, disability, and career development. We dive deep into the importance of having open conversations about death and dying, and how these discussions can empower us to take control of our futures.

Judith's insights are both profound and practical. She reflects on her own experiences with advance care planning, including the challenges she faced when navigating her husband Brian's recent Alzheimer's diagnosis. Judith emphasises the need for deeper literacy around death and dying, advocating for a shift in how we approach these conversations in our families and communities. With her unique blend of wisdom and warmth, Judith inspires us to embrace our mortality and plan for a dignified end of life that reflects our values and wishes.

Key points from our discussion:

- Advance Care planning is an investment in your future and should be a living document that evolves over time.
- Open conversations about death can foster understanding and connection within families.
- It's essential to choose a substitute decision-maker who truly understands your values and wishes.
- Death literacy should be integrated into the national educational curriculum to normalise discussions around dying.


Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.
Take care,
Catherine

Resources: 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/judith-leeson-am-8a497613/
Website: https://www.advancecareplanning.org.au/

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform. 

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

Sign up now to your free trial at critical info.com.au

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
 No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
 it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

Support the show

Support the 'Don’t Be Caught Dead' podcast with a one-off or regular donation to help Critical Info, a certified social enterprise, keep creating free, high-impact conversations about death, grief and planning—every contribution fuels our mission to reduce the burden on families and build a more death-literate, compassionate community. Donate here now.

Learn more: https://criticalinfo.com.au/

Connect with Don't Be Caught Dead podcast host Catherine Ashton & Critical info on socials:
https://linktr.ee/catherine_critical_info?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=c1879300-84db-4c70-9270-18d17d3ec22a

Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

We'd love to hear from you. Send us a text :-)

In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, we dive deep into the often-avoided topic of death, grief, and the importance of compassion in navigating these challenging experiences. Join me as I chat with Dr Hayley D Quinn, an anti-burnout business coach and former clinical psychologist, who shares her insights on how compassion can transform our relationships with ourselves and others, especially during times of loss.

Dr. Hayley opens up about her journey from burnout to empowerment, highlighting the significance of self-compassion and the three flows of compassion: from ourselves to others, from others to ourselves, and the often-overlooked self-compassion. We discuss how these elements play a crucial role in both personal and professional realms, particularly for women entrepreneurs who often juggle multiple responsibilities. With practical tips and heartfelt anecdotes, Dr. Hayley encourages us to embrace our authentic selves and to have those difficult conversations about death and dying that can alleviate future suffering.

As we navigate the complexities of grief, Dr. Hayley reminds us that there is no right way to grieve and that being kind to ourselves is essential. We explore the importance of preparing for the unexpected, discussing how having open conversations about our wishes and plans can ease the burden on our loved ones when the time comes. This episode is a gentle nudge to face the uncomfortable truths about death while fostering a compassionate approach to ourselves and those around us.

Key points from our discussion:

• Understanding the three flows of compassion: self-compassion, compassion for others, and receiving compassion.
• The importance of having open conversations about death and dying to prevent additional suffering.
• Practical tips for self-care and checking in with ourselves during times of grief.
• The significance of aligning our lives and businesses with our core values.
• How compassion can transform our relationships and enhance our well-being.

Resources Mentioned:

• Dr. Hayley's podcast: https://drhayleydquinn.com/podcast/
• Welcome to Self®: Time to Thrive Group Business Coaching https://drhayleydquinn.myflodesk.com/timetothrivewaitlist
• Book: The Mindful Path to Self-Compassion by Chris Germer
• Website: https://drhayleydquinn.com
• Dr Hayley D Quinn's Instagram: https://instagram.com/drhayleydquinn/
• Dr Hayley D Quinn's LinkedIn: Linkedin.com/in/dr-hayley-d-quinn-43386533
•  Dr Hayley D Quinn's Facebook: https://facebook.com/drhayleydquinnbrisbane
   

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,

Catherine

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform. 

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

Sign up now to your free trial at critical info.com.au

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
 No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
 it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

Support the show

Support the 'Don’t Be Caught Dead' podcast with a one-off or regular donation to help Critical Info, a certified social enterprise, keep creating free, high-impact conversations about death, grief and planning—every contribution fuels our mission to reduce the burden on families and build a more death-literate, compassionate community. Donate here now.

Learn more: https://criticalinfo.com.au/

Connect with Don't Be Caught Dead podcast host Catherine Ashton & Critical info on socials:
https://linktr.ee/catherine_critical_info?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=c1879300-84db-4c70-9270-18d17d3ec22a

Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

We'd love to hear from you. Send us a text :-)

What happens when you mix art, death, and a whole lot of creativity? You get Hayley West – a multi-talented artist, librarian, death literacy advocate, and aspiring doom metal vocalist. In this episode, Hayley takes us on a journey through her fascinating life, where death isn’t just a topic—it’s a muse. 

From interactive art installations to hosting a radio show called Dead Air, Hayley’s work challenges us to think differently about mortality and how we engage with it. Whether you’re curious about natural burials, death cafes, or just want to hear a wild story about a stolen hearse, this episode is packed with insights and inspiration.

Hayley West is a true multi-potentialite. She’s an artist, a librarian, a death literacy advocate, a radio presenter, and even an aspiring doom metal vocalist. But what ties all these roles together is her deep connection to death—not as something morbid, but as a natural part of life that deserves attention, creativity, and conversation. 

In this episode, Hayley shares how her personal experiences with loss shaped her art practice, leading her to create thought-provoking installations like her cooling bed performances and her grotto made from artificial flowers collected from cemeteries.

We also dive into her advocacy work, including her involvement with the Natural Death Advocacy Network (NDAN) and her role in promoting death literacy. Hayley’s passion for breaking down taboos around death is infectious, and her stories—like the time a hearse was stolen with a coffin inside—are as entertaining as they are enlightening. 

Plus, she gives us a peek into her radio show, Dead Air, where she explores all things death-related, from natural burials to necrophilia (yes, really!).

Key points from our discussion:

• Art and Death: Hayley’s art practice is deeply intertwined with themes of death, grief, and memory. From creating interactive installations to performance pieces like lying on a cooling bed, her work invites people to confront their own mortality in unexpected ways.
• Death Cafes: Hayley shares how death cafes—a global movement where people gather to talk openly about death—changed her perspective and helped her feel less alone in her experiences with loss.
• Natural Death Advocacy: As a member of the Natural Death Advocacy Network, Hayley is passionate about environmentally friendly death practices, like natural burials and human composting.
• Dead Air Radio: Tune into Hayley’s radio show on Main FM, where she explores death-related topics, reads articles, and interviews experts in the field. It’s death education with a creative twist!
• The Stolen Hearse Story: One of the most unforgettable moments in Hayley’s life involved a hearse being stolen—with a coffin inside. Spoiler: it ends well, but it’s a wild ride!

Mentioned Links and Resources:

• Natural Death Advocacy Network (NDAN): https://ndan.com.au
• Death Cafes: https://deathcafe.com/
• Hayley’s Radio Show, Dead Air: Tune in live on Main FM or catch up via their website https://www.mainfm.net/shows/dead-air/

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,

Catherine

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform. 

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

Sign up now to your free trial at critical info.com.au

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
 No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
 it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

Support the show

Support the 'Don’t Be Caught Dead' podcast with a one-off or regular donation to help Critical Info, a certified social enterprise, keep creating free, high-impact conversations about death, grief and planning—every contribution fuels our mission to reduce the burden on families and build a more death-literate, compassionate community. Donate here now.

Learn more: https://criticalinfo.com.au/

Connect with Don't Be Caught Dead podcast host Catherine Ashton & Critical info on socials:
https://linktr.ee/catherine_critical_info?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=c1879300-84db-4c70-9270-18d17d3ec22a

Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

We'd love to hear from you. Send us a text :-)

Have you ever wondered how different cultures navigate the complex emotions surrounding death? In this episode, we dive deep into the rich tapestry of Tamil traditions and personal experiences of grief with Nyana Tanzer, who shares her heartfelt journey of loss, love, and the importance of community in the face of death.

Join me as I chat with Nyana about her father's passing and the profound impact it had on her life. We explore the rituals that accompany death in Tamil culture, from the significance of cremation to the heartfelt offerings made to honour the deceased. Nyana shares how these practices not only help in the grieving process but also serve as a way to keep the memory of loved ones alive.

We also discuss the role of community during times of mourning. Nyana beautifully illustrates how family, friends, and even neighbours come together to support one another, providing food and comfort when it’s needed most. It’s a reminder that while death can feel isolating, we are never truly alone in our grief. Plus, we touch on the fascinating experiences with mediums and how they can offer closure and connection to those we've lost.

This episode is a heartfelt exploration of how we can embrace the conversation around death, honour our loved ones, and find solace in our shared experiences.

Key points from our discussion:

• Understanding the Tamil cultural practices surrounding death and mourning.
• The importance of community support during times of grief.
• Personal stories of connection with deceased loved ones through mediums.
• The ongoing nature of grief and how it evolves over time.

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,

Catherine

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform. 

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

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Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
 No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
 it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

Support the show

Support the 'Don’t Be Caught Dead' podcast with a one-off or regular donation to help Critical Info, a certified social enterprise, keep creating free, high-impact conversations about death, grief and planning—every contribution fuels our mission to reduce the burden on families and build a more death-literate, compassionate community. Donate here now.

Learn more: https://criticalinfo.com.au/

Connect with Don't Be Caught Dead podcast host Catherine Ashton & Critical info on socials:
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Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

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⚠️ Trigger Warning ⚠️
This episode contains discussions of sensitive topics including sexual abuse, childhood trauma, and suicide. Also includes course language. Listener discretion is advised.

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From Troubled Past to Funeral Crasher: Meet Bill Edgar, Australia's Infamous Coffin Confessor

In this gripping episode, I sit down with Bill Edgar, a man whose life story reads like a Hollywood script. From his tumultuous childhood as the son of a notorious gangster to becoming Australia's most talked-about funeral crasher, Bill's journey is nothing short of extraordinary. 

But what exactly is a Coffin Confessor?

Imagine someone crashing a funeral to deliver messages from beyond the grave - that's Bill's job, and he does it with unwavering dedication.

Bill's past is a tapestry of hardship and resilience. A victim of horrific childhood sexual abuse, he's fought tirelessly against the institutions that failed him. 

This struggle has shaped his unique perspective on life, death, and everything in between. 

As the Coffin Confessor, Bill gives voice to the deceased, ensuring their final words - whether loving or scathing - are heard. It's a role that requires a strong moral compass and the courage to face grieving families with potentially shocking revelations.

Key Insights from Our Conversation:

● Bill's philosophy on death: "We're all going to die. It doesn't matter what you do, we're going. Nothing's going to stop it. It's coming."
● The importance of preparation: Bill emphasises the need to be ready for death, both emotionally and practically.
● Confronting uncomfortable truths: Bill's work often involves revealing secrets at funerals, challenging the notion that we should only speak well of the dead.
● Elder abuse awareness: Bill sheds light on the often-hidden issue of elder abuse in aged care facilities.
● Advocacy for abuse survivors: Through his Facebook page "Lost Boy of TSS", Bill continues to support victims of institutional abuse.
● The Afterlife Delivery Service: A unique extension of his work, delivering messages and gifts from the deceased to their loved ones.
Bill Edgar's story is a powerful reminder that it's never too late to confront our past, speak our truth, and prepare for the inevitable. His work as the Coffin Confessor challenges us to think differently about death, encouraging open conversations and honest reflections on our lives and relationships.

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,
Catherine

Resources: 
Contact Bill Edgar here: https://www.billedgar.com.au/


Dying with Dignity Resources:

Find out more here: https://www.dwdv.org.au/ 

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform. 

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

Sign up now to your free trial at critical info.com.au

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
 No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
 it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

Support the show

Support the 'Don’t Be Caught Dead' podcast with a one-off or regular donation to help Critical Info, a certified social enterprise, keep creating free, high-impact conversations about death, grief and planning—every contribution fuels our mission to reduce the burden on families and build a more death-literate, compassionate community. Donate here now.

Learn more: https://criticalinfo.com.au/

Connect with Don't Be Caught Dead podcast host Catherine Ashton & Critical info on socials:
https://linktr.ee/catherine_critical_info?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=c1879300-84db-4c70-9270-18d17d3ec22a

Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/