Don't Wait For Your Wake Up Call!

This episode takes us on Gladys’ powerful financial journey, starting with the wake-up call that came after the birth of her son. 💡👶 Inspired by her mother’s hard work and struggles with taxes, Gladys made it her mission to explore smarter ways to build wealth and move beyond simply trading time for money.

She introduces us to the fascinating world of Infinite Banking 💵🔄 — a strategy built around specially structured whole life insurance policies. Unlike the typical "either/or" mindset of paying off debt or saving, this method creates an “Infinite Piggy Bank” 🐷✨ where your money grows, remains protected, and can be borrowed against to cover expenses or fuel investments.

To bring the concept to life, Gladys shares an inspiring case study of a 74-year-old client who used this approach to pay off his mortgage 15 years early, saving over $200K in interest while still protecting his retirement funds and leaving a lasting legacy. 🌱🏡💎

Melissa and Gladys wrap up by highlighting how Infinite Banking can be a game-changer for anyone ready to take control of their financial future. 🙌 They invite listeners to connect with Gladys, explore free resources like the Child Millionaire book, and discover how to start building their own infinite piggy bank today. 📚💫

💡🐷✨ Ready to discover how an “Infinite Piggy Bank” can save you thousands, grow your wealth, and build a lasting legacy? 🎙️🔥 Tune in to this inspiring episode now!

Free gift: Child Millionaire Book: https://forms.gle/SN2AXsjcGL8uofkZ7

and our blueprint to keep your money growing and protected and have access while you, spend, save, invest and give! (link to come) and corporation blueprint how to gain more control of their hard earned cash.

Offers:

Quantum Life Mastery School: https://amplifyimpactacademy.com/quantum-life-mastery-school

Introduction video about Girls Matter: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1R3-xqzJLZW14om1PhFClcU_oRSZ8zgip/view

The Light Circle Membership:

https://amplifyimpactacademy.com/thelightcircle-aligned-core

Meet Your Unconscious Mind Workshop:

https://amplifyimpactacademy.com/um

FREE 7 Day Trial: NuCalm Products to recalibrate your nervous system / improve your sleep:: https://nucalm.com

Use my promo code at checkout: YGHJ to get 15% off your monthly subscription, every month.

Episode Summary:

Gladys shares how the birth of her son sparked her interest in personal finance and led her to explore concepts like RESPs and saving for the future. She also reflects on her mother's experience working multiple jobs and struggling with taxes, which motivated Gladys to look beyond just trading time for money.

Gladys explains the core principles of infinite banking, which centers around a specially structured whole life insurance policy that allows the policyholder to access the cash value and use it for various purposes like paying down debt or making investments, while the policy continues to grow. She contrasts this with the traditional "either/or" approach of saving vs. paying off debt.

Gladys uses the analogy of a childhood piggy bank to illustrate how the infinite banking strategy works. She describes how money can be deposited into the "infinite piggy bank" (the whole life policy), where it is protected, can continue to grow, and can be accessed as needed to pay for expenses or make investments.

Gladys shares a real-life example of how she used the infinite banking strategy to help a 74-year-old client pay off his mortgage 15 years early, saving over $200,000 in interest, while also preserving his existing retirement savings and building a legacy death benefit.

Melissa and Gladys summarize the key benefits of the infinite banking concept and encourage listeners to reach out to Gladys to learn more and potentially get started with their own "infinite piggy bank." Gladys also offers several free resources, including the "Child Millionaire" book and financial planning blueprints.

About the Guest:

In today's rapidly evolving financial landscape, it's essential to not only accumulate wealth but also to understand how it aligns with your values and aspirations.  That's where Gladys’ passion lies - in empowering individuals to cultivate a harmonious relationship between their financial goals and personal values.  Her passion has been finances and helping people optimize their finances since 2017. 

And most importantly she is a mom of 31/2, 5 and 9 year olds. They are her drivers to wanting to learn the secrets of the universe. The more she can learn, the more she can equip them and help them to find their strengths and passion in life. Just like Whitney's song, they are our future. So they hold second priority right after God (for others high self)

Contact:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/gladys-raguindin-370172278/

FB: Gladys Raguindin

website: legacycofinancial.com

Email:

Instragram: gladwealth4u

About the Host:

Melissa is an Integrative Health Practitioner and a Board Designated Master Trainer of Hypnotherapy, Trainer of NLP, Time Line Therapy®, and NLP Results Coaching, helping people get to the root cause of their health issues and then get lasting results. Melissa neither diagnoses nor cures but helps bring your body back into balance by helping discover your “toxic load” and then removing the toxins. Melissa offers functional medicine lab testing that helps you “see inside” to know exactly what is going on, and then provides a personalized wellness protocol using natural herbs and supplements.  Melissa’s business is 100% virtual – the lab tests are mailed directly to your home and she specializes in holding your hand and guiding the way to healing so that you don’t have to figure it all out on your own.

Melissa has launched Amplify Impact Academy, with business partner, Billie Aadmi and together they train other coaches, practitioners and counsellors in the 4 mind-body healing modalities mentioned above, giving them powerful tools to use with clients to get results with greater ease, speed and grace. These courses teach life skills and anyone can take them, if you want to be a better leader, parent, partner, be empowered in your own life, these courses are for you!

Melissa’s passion project is her non-profit, Girls Matter (www.girlsmatter.ca), breaking the poverty cycle 1 girl, 1 family, 1 village at a time.  The mission is to keep girls in school and stop teenage marriages, because school isn’t free in over 50 countries around the world and when parents have to make the difficult choices of feeding their kids or paying for school, food wins. And when the girls hit their teen years, they will often be married off so that someone else becomes responsible to feed them. Keeping girls in school instead creates a generational ripple effect, because an educated girl is more than twice as likely to ensure her own children are educated. Educating girls also grows the GDP of countries, when they get into the workforce. This is how together, we can change the world. Guests on this podcast are invited to donate to this important cause.  Learn more here in this short video: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1R3-xqzJLZW14om1PhFClcU_oRSZ8zgip/view?usp=share_link

Melissa is also the winner of the 2024 Women in Podcasting Awards in the “inspiration & motivation” category and the 2021 & 2022 Quality Care Award by Business From The Heart and is also the recipient of the Alignable “Local Business Person of the Year “Award 2022, 2023 & 2024 for Whistler.

Melissa has been featured at a number of Health & Wellness Summits, such as the Health, Wealth & Wisdom Summit, The Power To Profit Summit, The Feel Fan-freaking-tas-tic Summit, the Aim Higher Summit and many more!  She has also guested on over 90 different podcasts teaching people about the importance of prioritizing our health and how to get started.

Linktree: https://linktr.ee/yourguidedhealthjourney

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I want to talk to you about sugar because it's in everything and sometimes we don't even know where it's sneaking into our diet, and how it affects our mood.

About the Host:

Melissa is an Integrative Health Practitioner helping people get to the root cause of their health issues. Melissa neither diagnoses nor cures but helps bring your body back into balance by helping discover your “toxic load” and then removing the toxins. Melissa offers functional medicine lab testing that helps you “see inside” to know exactly what is going on, and then provides a personalized wellness protocol using natural herbs and supplements. Melissa’s business is 100% virtual –the lab tests are mailed directly to your home and she specializes in holding your hand and guiding the way to healing so that you don’t have to figure it all out on your own. Melissa has been featured at a number of Health & Wellness Summits, such as the Health, Wealth & Wisdom Summit, The Power To Profit Summit, The Feel Fan-freaking-tas-tic Summit, and the Aim Higher Summit, and has guested on over 30 different podcasts teaching people about the importance of prioritizing our health and how to get get started. 

www.yourguidedhealthjourney.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissadeally/

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Today I want to talk about sleep comfort, because when our room is comfortable for sleep, we tend to be able to sleep through the night instead of waking up.

About the Host:

Melissa is an Integrative Health Practitioner helping people get to the root cause of their health issues. Melissa neither diagnoses nor cures but helps bring your body back into balance by helping discover your “toxic load” and then removing the toxins. Melissa offers functional medicine lab testing that helps you “see inside” to know exactly what is going on, and then provides a personalized wellness protocol using natural herbs and supplements. Melissa’s business is 100% virtual –the lab tests are mailed directly to your home and she specializes in holding your hand and guiding the way to healing so that you don’t have to figure it all out on your own. Melissa has been featured at a number of Health & Wellness Summits, such as the Health, Wealth & Wisdom Summit, The Power To Profit Summit, The Feel Fan-freaking-tas-tic Summit, and the Aim Higher Summit, and has guested on over 30 different podcasts teaching people about the importance of prioritizing our health and how to get get started. 

www.yourguidedhealthjourney.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissadeally/

FB: https://www.facebook.com/Guidedhealthjourney

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guidedhealthjourney/

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Today I want to talk to you about blue light and how it's impacting our melatonin levels.

About the Host:

Melissa is an Integrative Health Practitioner helping people get to the root cause of their health issues. Melissa neither diagnoses nor cures but helps bring your body back into balance by helping discover your “toxic load” and then removing the toxins. Melissa offers functional medicine lab testing that helps you “see inside” to know exactly what is going on, and then provides a personalized wellness protocol using natural herbs and supplements. Melissa’s business is 100% virtual –the lab tests are mailed directly to your home and she specializes in holding your hand and guiding the way to healing so that you don’t have to figure it all out on your own. Melissa has been featured at a number of Health & Wellness Summits, such as the Health, Wealth & Wisdom Summit, The Power To Profit Summit, The Feel Fan-freaking-tas-tic Summit, and the Aim Higher Summit, and has guested on over 30 different podcasts teaching people about the importance of prioritizing our health and how to get get started. 

www.yourguidedhealthjourney.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissadeally/

FB: https://www.facebook.com/Guidedhealthjourney

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guidedhealthjourney/

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In this eye-opening session, Melissa dives deep into the interconnectedness of our four bodies — physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual 🌿💭💖✨ — and our three minds — conscious, unconscious, and higher self. She explains how symptoms often begin energetically or emotionally before showing up in the physical body.

Key highlights include:

🌱 Detox the Physical Body — Support healing through a 3-week liver cleanse, followed by quarterly detoxes to keep your system clear.

💧 Release Emotional Toxicity — Learn how suppressed emotions like anger or shame can create illness, and how Time Line Therapy® gently dissolves them without reliving the trauma.

🧠 Clear Mental Blocks — Identify and release limiting beliefs and decisions that keep you from thriving.

🌌 Align the Spiritual Body — Step into your higher purpose by addressing toxic patterns in the physical, emotional, and mental realms first.

💫 A Lifelong Journey — True health means vibrant living, not just avoiding illness — so you can enjoy life fully at any age.

Melissa reminds us that when all four bodies are aligned and balanced, we can create lifelong health, mobility, and fulfillment. 🌟

Offers:

Introduction video about Girls Matter: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1R3-xqzJLZW14om1PhFClcU_oRSZ8zgip/view

The Light Circle Membership:

https://amplifyimpactacademy.com/thelightcircle-aligned-core

Meet Your Unconscious Mind Workshop:

https://amplifyimpactacademy.com/um

Quantum Life Mastery School: https://amplifyimpactacademy.com/90-day-q3

FREE 7 Day Trial: NuCalm Products to recalibrate your nervous system / improve your sleep:: https://nucalm.com

Use my promo code at checkout: YGHJ to get 15% off your monthly subscription, every month.

Episode Summary:

Melissa explains that we have four bodies - physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual - and three minds - conscious, unconscious, and higher self. She emphasizes the importance of addressing all four bodies for optimal health, as symptoms often start in the spiritual or emotional body before manifesting physically.

Melissa discusses the need to detoxify the physical body by removing toxins and providing the body with the nutrients it needs to heal. She recommends a 3-week liver detox program followed by quarterly 1-week detoxes to help the body release accumulated toxins.

Melissa explains how we are often taught to suppress emotions, which can become toxic over time and lead to physical issues. She describes using Timeline Therapy to gently release negative emotions like anger, sadness, and shame without having to relive the original traumatic events.

Melissa discusses how we develop limiting beliefs and decisions based on programming from our upbringing, which can hold us back. She uses Timeline Therapy to release these mental blocks and align the conscious and unconscious minds.

Melissa emphasizes the importance of living one's true purpose and mission, which can be facilitated by first addressing toxicity in the physical, emotional, and mental bodies. She encourages listeners to consider if they are truly fulfilled in their work and life.

Melissa stresses that health is an ongoing journey, not a destination. She explains how addressing all four bodies can allow people to live vibrant, mobile lives well into old age, rather than spending the last decade in a nursing home.

About the Host:

Melissa is an Integrative Health Practitioner and a Board Designated Master Trainer of Hypnotherapy and Trainer of NLP, Time Line Therapy®, and NLP Results Coaching, helping people get to the root cause of their health issues and then get lasting results. Melissa neither diagnoses nor cures but helps bring your body back into balance by helping discover your “toxic load” and then removing the toxins. Melissa offers functional medicine lab testing that helps you “see inside” to know exactly what is going on, and then provides a personalized wellness protocol using natural herbs and supplements.  Melissa’s business is 100% virtual – the lab tests are mailed directly to your home and she specializes in holding your hand and guiding the way to healing so that you don’t have to figure it all out on your own.

Melissa has launched Amplify Impact Academy, with business partner, Billie Aadmi and together they train other coaches, practitioners and counsellors in the 4 mind-body healing modalities mentioned above, giving them powerful tools to use with clients to get results with greater ease, speed and grace. These courses teach life skills and anyone can take them, if you want to be a better leader, parent, partner, be empowered in your own life, these courses are for you!

Melissa’s passion project is her non-profit, Girls Matter (www.girlsmatter.ca), breaking the poverty cycle 1 girl, 1 family, 1 village at a time.  The mission is to keep girls in school and stop teenage marriages, because school isn’t free in over 50 countries around the world and when parents have to make the difficult choices of feeding their kids or paying for school, food wins. And when the girls hit their teen years, they will often be married off so that someone else becomes responsible to feed them. Keeping girls in school instead creates a generational ripple effect, because an educated girl is more than twice as likely to ensure her own children are educated. Educating girls also grows the GDP of countries, when they get into the workforce. This is how together, we can change the world. Guests on this podcast are invited to donate to this important cause.  Learn more here in this short video: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1R3-xqzJLZW14om1PhFClcU_oRSZ8zgip/view?usp=share_link

Melissa is also the winner of the 2024 Women in Podcasting Awards in the “inspiration & motivation” category and the 2021 & 2022 Quality Care Award by Business From The Heart and is also the recipient of the Alignable “Local Business Person of the Year “Award 2022, 2023 & 2024 for Whistler.

Melissa has been featured at a number of Health & Wellness Summits, such as the Health, Wealth & Wisdom Summit, The Power To Profit Summit, The Feel Fan-freaking-tas-tic Summit, the Aim Higher Summit and many more!  She has also guested on over 90 different podcasts teaching people about the importance of prioritizing our health and how to get started.

Linktree: https://linktr.ee/yourguidedhealthjourney

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Today I want to talk to you about why we all need bedtime routines, and not just for our children.

About the Host:

Melissa is an Integrative Health Practitioner helping people get to the root cause of their health issues. Melissa neither diagnoses nor cures but helps bring your body back into balance by helping discover your “toxic load” and then removing the toxins. Melissa offers functional medicine lab testing that helps you “see inside” to know exactly what is going on, and then provides a personalized wellness protocol using natural herbs and supplements. Melissa’s business is 100% virtual –the lab tests are mailed directly to your home and she specializes in holding your hand and guiding the way to healing so that you don’t have to figure it all out on your own. Melissa has been featured at a number of Health & Wellness Summits, such as the Health, Wealth & Wisdom Summit, The Power To Profit Summit, The Feel Fan-freaking-tas-tic Summit, and the Aim Higher Summit, and has guested on over 30 different podcasts teaching people about the importance of prioritizing our health and how to get get started. 

www.yourguidedhealthjourney.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissadeally/

FB: https://www.facebook.com/Guidedhealthjourney

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guidedhealthjourney/

Thanks for listening!

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How do you turn on your parasympathetic nervous system in order to be able to digest your meals, and get good sleep, your rest, and digest state?

About the Host:

Melissa is an Integrative Health Practitioner helping people get to the root cause of their health issues. Melissa neither diagnoses nor cures but helps bring your body back into balance by helping discover your “toxic load” and then removing the toxins. Melissa offers functional medicine lab testing that helps you “see inside” to know exactly what is going on, and then provides a personalized wellness protocol using natural herbs and supplements. Melissa’s business is 100% virtual –the lab tests are mailed directly to your home and she specializes in holding your hand and guiding the way to healing so that you don’t have to figure it all out on your own. Melissa has been featured at a number of Health & Wellness Summits, such as the Health, Wealth & Wisdom Summit, The Power To Profit Summit, The Feel Fan-freaking-tas-tic Summit, and the Aim Higher Summit, and has guested on over 30 different podcasts teaching people about the importance of prioritizing our health and how to get get started. 

www.yourguidedhealthjourney.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissadeally/

FB: https://www.facebook.com/Guidedhealthjourney

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guidedhealthjourney/

Thanks for listening!

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We appreciate every bit of feedback to make this a value-adding part of your day. Ratings and reviews from our listeners not only help us improve, but also help others find us in their podcast app. If you have a minute, an honest review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes goes a long way! Thank You!!

Today I'm talking about the parasympathetic nervous system, your rest and digest state.

About the Host:

Melissa is an Integrative Health Practitioner helping people get to the root cause of their health issues. Melissa neither diagnoses nor cures but helps bring your body back into balance by helping discover your “toxic load” and then removing the toxins. Melissa offers functional medicine lab testing that helps you “see inside” to know exactly what is going on, and then provides a personalized wellness protocol using natural herbs and supplements. Melissa’s business is 100% virtual –the lab tests are mailed directly to your home and she specializes in holding your hand and guiding the way to healing so that you don’t have to figure it all out on your own. Melissa has been featured at a number of Health & Wellness Summits, such as the Health, Wealth & Wisdom Summit, The Power To Profit Summit, The Feel Fan-freaking-tas-tic Summit, and the Aim Higher Summit, and has guested on over 30 different podcasts teaching people about the importance of prioritizing our health and how to get get started. 

www.yourguidedhealthjourney.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissadeally/

FB: https://www.facebook.com/Guidedhealthjourney

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guidedhealthjourney/

Thanks for listening!

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In this heartfelt conversation, Heidi Rome opens up about her powerful journey with her son Ethan, who was diagnosed with severe autism at age 5 and told he had the mental capacity of a 5-month-old infant. For years, she sought to fix Ethan—turning to experts and therapies—only to find herself drained, powerless, and without answers.

Everything shifted when Ethan, at 9 years old, was given assistive technology at a school that presumed competence. Suddenly, his brilliance and deep wisdom shone through. From that moment, Heidi realized her role was not to fix, but to love. Ethan’s words—“You just have to love me”—freed her to embrace unconditional acceptance. 💜

Now, after navigating the challenges of puberty and residential schooling, Heidi is pioneering a groundbreaking community for non-speaking autistic adults to thrive, belong, and contribute. Her message is clear: love first, trust yourself, and release the need to control.

👉 Listen to the full interview here.

📖 Learn more in Heidi’s book You Just Have to Love Me, where she shares her lessons on self-trust, compassion, and honoring the wisdom within.

Link to buy Heidi’s Book: https://bit.ly/JustLoveMeBook

Offers:

Introduction video about Girls Matter: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1R3-xqzJLZW14om1PhFClcU_oRSZ8zgip/view

The Light Circle Membership:

https://amplifyimpactacademy.com/thelightcircle-aligned-core

Meet Your Unconscious Mind Workshop:

https://amplifyimpactacademy.com/um

Quantum Life Mastery School: https://amplifyimpactacademy.com/90-day-q3

FREE 7 Day Trial: NuCalm Products to recalibrate your nervous system / improve your sleep:: https://nucalm.com

Use my promo code at checkout: YGHJ to get 15% off your monthly subscription, every month.

Heidi shares the devastating news she received when Ethan, her younger son, was diagnosed with severe autism at age 5 - that he had the mental capacity of a 5-month-old infant. This led Heidi on a years-long journey trying desperately to "fix" Ethan's autism, seeking out experts and therapies, but to no avail. Heidi felt hopeless and powerless, believing the experts knew better than she did.

When Ethan was 9 years old, Heidi found a school that presumed competence in non-speaking autistic individuals and used assistive technology to allow Ethan to communicate. This revealed Ethan to be a highly intelligent, thoughtful, and insightful young person, completely contradicting the earlier assessment of his mental capacity. Heidi was shocked and amazed by Ethan's ability to express himself.

As Heidi witnessed Ethan's profound communications, she had a profound realization that her role was not to "fix" him, but simply to love and support him. Ethan himself told Heidi "You just have to love me" - taking the pressure off Heidi to change or control him. This shifted Heidi's mindset from one of desperation and fixing to one of acceptance, trust, and service.

When Ethan entered puberty, his dysregulated nervous system led to dangerous behaviors, requiring him to enter a residential school for his own safety. Though difficult, Heidi recognized this as another step in Ethan's journey. Now, Heidi is building a first-of-its-kind residential community that presumes competence in non-speaking autistic adults like Ethan, to provide them a lifelong home where they can thrive and contribute.

Heidi shares her key message of "love, don't fix" and encourages others to trust their own inner wisdom rather than deferring to external "experts". She discusses her book "You Just Have to Love Me" which explores these themes. Heidi emphasizes the importance of self-trust, self-love, and being true to oneself as the path to greatest effectiveness and impact.

About the Guest:

Heidi Rome is a speaker, coach, relationship-nurturer, and author of “You Just Have to Love Me”. Inspired by her journey with her younger son Ethan, Heidi's core message—Love, Don’t Fix—champions a profound mindset shift: from trying to fix our autistic kids of any age to truly accepting and loving them. Spoiler alert: This guidance applies to all human relationships, not only those touched by special needs. Heidi is currently building a team to create a first-of-its-kind lifelong residential caring community that presumes competence in nonspeaking autistic adults.

Contact:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/heidi-rome-8b60a110/

https://www.facebook.com/heidi.o.rome

https://heidirome.com/

https://bit.ly/JustLoveMeBook

About the Host:

Melissa is an Integrative Health Practitioner and a Board Designated Trainer of NLP, Time Line Therapy®, Hypnotherapy, and NLP Results Coaching, helping people get to the root cause of their health issues and then get lasting results. Melissa neither diagnoses nor cures but helps bring your body back into balance by helping discover your “toxic load” and then removing the toxins. Melissa offers functional medicine lab testing that helps you “see inside” to know exactly what is going on, and then provides a personalized wellness protocol using natural herbs and supplements.  Melissa’s business is 100% virtual – the lab tests are mailed directly to your home and she specializes in holding your hand and guiding the way to healing so that you don’t have to figure it all out on your own.

Melissa has launched Amplify Impact Academy, with business partner, Billie Aadmi and together they train other coaches, practitioners and counsellors in the 4 mind-body healing modalities mentioned above, giving them powerful tools to use with clients to get results with greater ease, speed and grace. These courses teach life skills and anyone can take them, if you want to be a better leader, parent, partner, be empowered in your own life, these courses are for you!

Melissa’s passion project is her non-profit, Girls Matter (www.girlsmatter.ca), breaking the poverty cycle 1 girl, 1 family, 1 village at a time.  The mission is to keep girls in school and stop teenage marriages, because school isn’t free in over 50 countries around the world and when parents have to make the difficult choices of feeding their kids or paying for school, food wins. And when the girls hit their teen years, they will often be married off so that someone else becomes responsible to feed them. Keeping girls in school instead creates a generational ripple effect, because an educated girl is more than twice as likely to ensure her own children are educated. Educating girls also grows the GDP of countries, when they get into the workforce. This is how together, we can change the world. Guests on this podcast are invited to donate to this important cause.  Learn more here in this short video: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1R3-xqzJLZW14om1PhFClcU_oRSZ8zgip/view?usp=share_link

Melissa is also the winner of the 2024 Women in Podcasting Awards in the “inspiration & motivation” category and the 2021 & 2022 Quality Care Award by Business From The Heart and is also the recipient of the Alignable “Local Business Person of the Year “Award 2022, 2023 & 2024 for Whistler. 

Melissa has been featured at a number of Health & Wellness Summits, such as the Health, Wealth & Wisdom Summit, The Power To Profit Summit, The Feel Fan-freaking-tas-tic Summit, the Aim Higher Summit and many more!  She has also guested on over 90 different podcasts teaching people about the importance of prioritizing our health and how to get started.

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About the Host:

Melissa is an Integrative Health Practitioner helping people get to the root cause of their health issues. Melissa neither diagnoses nor cures but helps bring your body back into balance by helping discover your “toxic load” and then removing the toxins. Melissa offers functional medicine lab testing that helps you “see inside” to know exactly what is going on, and then provides a personalized wellness protocol using natural herbs and supplements. Melissa’s business is 100% virtual –the lab tests are mailed directly to your home and she specializes in holding your hand and guiding the way to healing so that you don’t have to figure it all out on your own. Melissa has been featured at a number of Health & Wellness Summits, such as the Health, Wealth & Wisdom Summit, The Power To Profit Summit, The Feel Fan-freaking-tas-tic Summit, and the Aim Higher Summit, and has guested on over 30 different podcasts teaching people about the importance of prioritizing our health and how to get get started. 

www.yourguidedhealthjourney.com

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