12:03 Pressure

14:37 Alan Watts' Fantasy

17:53 Meditation

21:04 Playing the Position in Front of You

27:01 Toxic Self-Talk

30:24 Rating Anxiety

33:42 Confidence and Self-Efficacy

41:23 Handling Losses

45:21 Pain = Suffering x Resistance

52:35 Time Trouble

55:07 Giving up Control

58:00 Self-Adopted Identities

1:00:28 Beauty in Complexity

1:03:46 Preserving the Love for the Game

1:15:31 Pre-Game Rituals

Benji Portheault, a seasoned performance coach with experience working with chess players of all levels, including super grandmasters, joined the podcast to discuss the mental aspects of chess. Throughout the conversation, he explored topics such as meditation, dealing with tilt, tournament preparation, and the psychology of chess success. Benji gave insights into how identity, confidence, and mindset play crucial roles in a player's performance. His approach combines modern psychology with meditation techniques to help players build resilience and manage the stress of competition effectively.

A major focus of the discussion was on managing emotions during games, particularly in high-pressure situations. Benji explained the importance of developing self-awareness, identifying negative thought patterns, and learning how to reset mentally after mistakes. He introduced techniques such as open monitoring meditation and mental reframing to help players regain focus and prevent one mistake from snowballing into further blunders. He also emphasized the need for practical routines before and during games, including recognizing the feeling of playing well and recalling past successful experiences to build confidence.

The conversation also touched on broader topics like rating anxiety, tournament nerves, and the importance of maintaining a love for the game. Benji encouraged players to cultivate a healthy relationship with chess, understanding that improvement requires embracing both wins and losses as learning experiences. He highlighted how professionals and amateurs alike struggle with the psychological challenges of competition, making mental training just as crucial as tactical and strategic preparation.