Matrix of Family Court involving lawyers who want to win, Judge who wish for easy solutions to complex parental conflicts, state laws that wish to structure 50/50 default custody arrangements, and parents who have forgotten how to love and share---what does all this breed? Children being exposed repeatedly to the abusive parent with the protection of the Court, Police or Department of Social Services. The system, not open to criticism lacks the checks and balances that would eliminate this egregious treatment of children