Dr. Connexpert

This is a continuation of Why I can't find a mate. In the episode we will address Courtship/Chivalry; Post Traumatic Triggers and Selfishness

Employers trim you bandit package and offer more pay and treat people like people. Workers go back to work and if you must do better work while you improve yourself.

The value of loyalty. Today we will be discussing what loyalty is and essentials to securing relationships with people who will be loyal. Sundry methods to creating opportunities to practice loyalty.

We will.examine trust& it's dynamics and types as well as what we need to do to receive trust.

In this episode we will be dealing with our attitudes toward others. We will examine personal biases and how we arrive at them and how they affect our attitude toward people. We will be discussing having a professional presentation which means presenting ourselves in a manner that promotes positivity on a regular basis and dealing with adverse situations such as racial issues, gender related tones ect. We will also be discussing the effect of our dress codes and why its important to present ourselves in a manner that says we agree with the society in which we must interface. We will also briefly address selfishness in dealing with people and some of the issues that can come from it.

After working on personal attitude development, the next realm is establishing relationships. Knowing the opposite gender is a major key as relationships are about interacting with others. Men are benevolent by nature and wisdom says don't kill that with antagonism. Woman should be mindful that being aggressive with men is counterproductive and will kill any positive relationship with a man. Woman should display ladilikeness at all times and refrain from lust promoting conduct. Remember ladies you can improve you man's estate by displaying lady like conduct around him and in public.

This episode talks about dealing with situations that are adverse. How we can use negative circumstances to aid us in our goal of being the best we can be. This episode also talks about triggers and how to redirect negative thoughts using our personal goals as motivation as well as doing a quiet time session alone to identify other triggers for further development.

This session is a review of the last session where we talked about the examination of our minds so that we can weed out those things that cause us to create a negative space around us and destroy relationships. We also talked about use of the journal and its value as a tool of self improvement. Preparing yourself to meet the world - Men have it easier as the logical faculty makes it easy to develop a ritual; Women can be more efficient if the had less that they concern themselves with in terms of appearance and the excessive details of pre work activities.