Dr. Connexpert

How to deal with procrastinating and unambitious partners. We discuss the problem of partners who are not making an attempt to stay in alignment with the goals of a relationship. We also touch on the frustrations felt as a result of advice that is not acted upon especially after affirming that they would comply. Prepare for every task as if you many be doing it alone: Let every person have their choice and keep moving forward; Let them see your success and if that does not motivate them then let them have the fruit of thier own choices. We are no responsible for our partners intellectual successes or failures

The danger of taking someone for granted; examples of taking others for granted

The need to be the best person you can be at all times. The four things you need in order to establish and keep a relationship of any type. The pinnacle of authenticity is that you display your goodness as a matter of personal choice, not to create a situation in your outer world or to convince others of what you believe yourself to be. Journaling to create a point of reference to the creation of the authentic person. Using journaling to help you to hone in on the best parts of you and to encourage you to visit those environments that enable your positive points and conduct. Remember, your goodness is not always accepted by all. That should not matter becuase you are being good becuase you want to not to win friends and influence people. You will get those things but you must put your best forward first.