To read the book Partner Betrayal Trauma, click here:

https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-book/

To schedule an appointment with a Christian Partner Betrayal Trauma Counselor or Coach, call 719-278-3708.

This 14-day series is for any partner that has been betrayed by their spouse. Join Dr. Doug Weiss as he offers a word of encouragement and prayer for you, a women who has been betrayed. You can heal and begin to move forward in your season of healing.

Day Twelve is about the concept of “knowing that God is Good”. God is good, He is good all the time. This statement in the face of what you are experiencing, you may have you wonder “Why God?“, why did this happen? However, that “Why God?” should really be “Why husband?”

In this video, Dr. Weiss breaks down this statement and gives you tools and knowledge about this subject moving forward.

Start the Bible Plan “The Betrayed Wife” here: https://www.bible.com/reading-plans/19776/

Join a free online support group click here: www.facebook.com/groups/partnersofsa

To schedule an appointment with a Christian Partner Betrayal Trauma Counselor or Coach, call 719-278-3708.

To read the book Partner Betrayal Trauma, click here:

https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-book/

To schedule an appointment with a Christian Partner Betrayal Trauma Counselor or Coach, call 719-278-3708.

This 14 day series is for any partner that has been betrayed by their spouse. Join Dr. Doug Weiss as he offers a word of encouragement and prayer for you, a women who has been betrayed. You can heal and begin to move forward in your season of healing.

Day Eleven is about believing in “The Valley”. A lot of us are familiar with this term from Psalm 23. You’re in the valley where there’s disappointment, hurt, anger, grief, loss, and betrayal. However, know that every valley has an end. The end where you won’t be in pain from the hurt and betrayal or feeling that you aren’t good enough. You will feel whole and strong again. Regardless of your husband’s choices, you will walk through this valley. God will walk with you through the valley and you will be different on the other side.

The good news is that there is a chapter ahead of you past the betrayal, trauma, and damage. Even though you are in pain, pain doesn’t last forever. There’s no way that you’re not going to get out of this valley. Now how you get out will depend on you. Hold onto the hand of God, move towards other fellow believers, pray, make good choices, and do all that you can do.

Start the Bible Plan “The Betrayed Wife” here: https://www.bible.com/reading-plans/19776/

Learn more about partner betrayal trauma at www.partnerbetrayaltrauma.org

To join a free online support group click here: www.facebook.com/groups/partnersofsa

To read the book Partner Betrayal Trauma, click here: https://www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-book/

To schedule an appointment with a Christian Partner Betrayal Trauma Counselor or Coach, call 719-278-3708.

This 14 day series is for any partner that has been betrayed by their spouse. Join Dr. Doug Weiss as he offers a word of encouragement and prayer for you, a women who has been betrayed. You can heal and begin to move forward in your season of healing.

Day Eight is about the concept of accepting that God limits Himself. God is omnipresent, everywhere at the same time...except in the human will. When God first created mankind he made us free by giving us free will, to choose what to do, whether good or bad. In doing so, God limited Himself. So, how does this impact you?

Your husband has free will. He can choose to repent and change or continue to cause harm and betrayal. When you’re in this storm this is hard to accept. God does want to change your husband’s heart, for him to change and obey Him. He wants him to love you and treat you and your family well, even more than you do. And yet, God chooses to honor your husband’s will, just like you have to with your children and other family members who have free will.

Don’t get mad at God.

God didn’t betray you or use His will against you. God uses His will to save you, love you, and bring wisdom, counsel, and strength to you. He wants you to have abundance in every area of your life. But I suggest accepting that God limits Himself at the human will. People can choose darkness, but they can also choose light. That’s the beauty of freedom.

Start the Bible Plan “The Betrayed Wife” here: https://www.bible.com/reading-plans/19776/

Learn more about partner betrayal trauma at www.partnerbetrayaltrauma.org

To join a free online support group click here: www.facebook.com/groups/partnersofsa

This 14-day series is for any woman that has been betrayed by their spouse. Join Dr. Doug Weiss as he offers a word of encouragement and prayer for you, a woman who has been betrayed.

Day Seven is about accepting your powerlessness.

Now this may be challenging to hear, especially for women in the western world. In the western world there’s the ideal of pulling yourself up, that you have power and can make a difference. However, there are some things that you are powerless over. You are powerless over the will of your children and the will of your husband. Your husband choose to use his will poorly when he betrayed you and made bad decisions. You didn’t cause this, but you also can’t cure it.

Even in the Prodigal Son story, the father accepted his powerlessness over his son and stayed home as his son wrote his own story. Your husband is writing his own story. The story may involve repentance, or it may be rebellion and pain. Whatever he decides, it’s important for you to focus on writing your own story. Make sure your story is rooted in reality, the reality that we have no power over people’s will.

Start the Bible Plan “The Betrayed Wife” on the YouVersion Bible App.

The Book Partner Betrayal Trauma can be purchased on Dr. Doug's website: drdougweiss.com/store

To schedule with a Christian Partner Betrayal Trauma Counselor or Coach, call 719-278-3708

This 14-day series is for any woman that has been betrayed by their spouse. Join Dr. Doug Weiss as he offers a word of encouragement and prayer for you, a woman who has been betrayed.

Day Six is about thanking God.

Thank God? You may wonder why you should do so when you’re feeling frustrated and hurt from the betrayal you’ve experienced. However, God exposes sin for two reasons. Firstly, is to get people on the path heal. The second is to expose the heart. When our sin comes in front of us, we have two choices. We can either repent and move towards God or be rebellious and self-serving.

During this section, I want you to thank God to be merciful enough to expose this, because God does want to heal this. Thank God for who He is and will be in this storm, that He works all things for good.

Even when your husband has failed you, the Lord is trustworthy. Thanking God allows us to be grateful and to learn from Him. Know who He is and thank Him for that.

Start the Bible Plan “The Betrayed Wife” on the YouVersion Bible App.

The Book Partner Betrayal Trauma can be purchased on Dr. Doug's website: drdougweiss.com/store

To schedule with a Christian Partner Betrayal Trauma Counselor or Coach, call 719-278-3708

This 14-day series is for any woman that has been betrayed by their spouse. Join Dr. Doug Weiss as he offers a word of encouragement and prayer for you, a women who has been betrayed.

Day Five is about taking your burdens to prayer. Your husband’s betrayal has brought all kinds of distresses about your past, present, future, health, finances, family, and more. The appearance of these concerns in your mind can happen randomly and take quite a toll.

Take a notepad or a tablet and write every one of these concerns and issues down and take these burdens to God. Tell Him what you’ve been thinking about today, what you’re concerned about, and what you can’t figure out.

As you go through this healing process, have a daily practice of you and God, and share what’s on your heart. You may not know how to make sense of them, and you may not have a solution, but you can hand them to God to share with Him.

Start the Bible Plan “The Betrayed Wife” on the YouVersion Bible App.

The Book Partner Betrayal Trauma can be purchased on Dr. Doug's website: drdougweiss.com/store

To schedule with a Christian Partner Betrayal Trauma Counselor or Coach, call 719-278-3708

This 14 day series is for any partner that has been betrayed by their spouse. Join Dr. Doug Weiss as he offers a word of encouragement and prayer for you, a women who has been betrayed. You can heal and begin to move forward in your season of healing.

Day Four is about letting others carry the burden. It may seem hard because when you feel pain, naturally you want to drawn into yourself and close off, it makes you want to push people away. Sometimes it's due to the false shame you may be still feeling in processing the betrayal.

You may want to stay inside, but God is calling you outside. He's calling you into the body of Christ, to connect with sisters who can support you, help you carry the burden, and help you heal.

There may be days that are heavy with grief, pain, and loss that just hit you out of the blue. You will have thoughts and feeling to deal with. You are in need of community, counsel, support, and love so that you can move forward instead of staying stuck in the past. Whatever you do in this season, don't isolate.

Start the Bible Plan “The Betrayed Wife” on the YouVersion Bible App.

The Book Partner Betrayal Trauma can be purchased on Dr. Doug's website: drdougweiss.com/store

To schedule with a Christian Partner Betrayal Trauma Counselor or Coach, call 719-278-3708

This 14 day series is for any partner that has been betrayed by their spouse. Join Dr. Doug Weiss as he offers a word of encouragement and prayer for you, a women who has been betrayed. You can heal and begin to move forward in your season of healing.

Day 3 is about trusting the Lord. I know that trust has been broken in so many ways in your life from the betrayal. But God did not break that trust. He was trying to work on your husband, trying to convict him. The photo of your life right now may be a mess, but that’s just a photograph. God is with you along the movie of your life.

Many people have experienced betrayals and been hurt in their lives. However, when you look over the course of their lives, you see God was faithful to them. He hears their cries, He restores and blesses. God is trustworthy, His character hasn’t changed because of your husband’s choices.

Marriage is three people, God, you, and your husband. God didn’t do anything wrong. I want you to go to Him with an open heart and pour out your emotions and thoughts to Him. This betrayal wasn’t God’s will, He forbids these types of behaviors and sin that happened. God is trustworthy and wants to walk through this with you, but you have to trust Him. Those who trust the Lord do well, there are so many promises in the Bible that assure this truth.

Start the Bible Plan “The Betrayed Wife” on the YouVersion Bible App.

The Book Partner Betrayal Trauma can be purchased on Dr. Doug's website: drdougweiss.com/store

To schedule with a Christian Partner Betrayal Trauma Counselor or Coach, call 719-278-3708