This week's topic addresses how Blacks' welcome-in approach to sharing our culture often leaves us iced out, confused, and profitless. Most cultures gatekeep. They are particular with what they share and ensure you come to them to learn their customs. On the other hand, many Blacks strive for Whites' validation and lack a true sense of self. We perform, although we don't have to. This podcast will unpack this misfortune and raise awareness of what is happening and what needs to happen to mitigate the slave mentality that still haunts many of us.

Boundaries are essential for a healthy and balanced life. Failure to have appropriate boundaries can leave one at risk of suffering or inflicting undue damage. A boundaryless life is like a disorganized closet or office where you can't find anything and don't know whether you are coming or going. Join me as I further unpack what boundaries are, why we need them, and how to establish them. 

At times causes get too large, they lose their focus and can become harmful. Far-left feminists embrace a culture that is toxic, divisive, and cultish. The Fear of repercussions, disinterest in fighting, and lacking the vernacular to match the fancy word choice of feminists leaves many individuals feeling they can't oppose them. Join me as I unapologetically unpack these self-appointed stewards' hypocrisy and inconsistencies.

Children bring into the world a spark. Their innocence, pure joy, and ability to see beauty in the smallest things make them unique. As we grow older, the troubles of this world cause us to lose our spark. Adults often consciously or unconsciously live off the energy and healing properties children provide to overcome the loss. Join me as I breakdown the detrimental effects of using children as healers.

It is not uncommon to marry into a narcissistic family. When you know you are right, they treat you as if you are wrong. You feel disposable and as if they all can turn on you at a moment's notice. They may cause division by spreading rumors and attempting to turn your partner against you. Join me as I break down the challenges of marrying into a narcissistic family and what to expect throughout your marriage. 

Relationships can bring immense joy and satisfaction. Unfortunately, relationships can also cause pain and disaster. Some people can walk away, but many are stuck. Those around a person may feel that they have all the answers and, at times, judge the stuck individual. Join me as I unpack why some people just can't go. It is not solely for the reasons you may think or have heard.

Dating while broken coincides with my first podcast, Why me? This podcast unpacks the consequences of entering the dating scene while being in a state of brokenness. Brokenness can occur on a conscious or unconscious level. Regardless, the result is likely the same, more scars. I talk about what should be our priorities and what it takes to better the chance that our past does not infiltrate our future. 

I have noticed a tendency on social media for members of the LGBTQ community to attack Christian beliefs on the Christian thread. These attacks are centered on disapproving Christian beliefs and principles. Generally, a war ensues where it's scripture vs accusations of homophobia, and transphobia, amongst other things. Join me as I get to the bottom of this odd behavior. You will be surprised to know it often has nothing to do with discrimination. 

Why we choose our partners and friends is not only up to us; there are factors we are unaware of that lead us to certain people and why we can't leave them in certain circumstances. Join me as I break down how the early connections we build with our parents can prepare us for success or failure in future relationships with our friends and significant others.

We often enter relationships assuming we know what has brought us together, and then we are confused about why we are falling apart. When it is over, we may focus more on empowerment or healing and neglect our future relationships are different. This podcast will explain how identifying the reasons why people date you is the critical component of a successful dating or marital experience. Join Dr. Paco as he leads you on this journey to uncover the truth about why me.