Pat first built a successful career as an online fitness coach in Ireland, then realised there was more to fulfillment than the surface wins. He’s since gone deep into shadow work, breath science, and guiding people through the inner world to uncover their true self.

We talk about:

• Why he moved to Bali 
• How the shadow shows up in ambitious high performers 
• The ego traps driven men face 
• What happens when you don’t do the inner work (and how it leaks into business, health & relationships)

If you’re someone who’s chasing success but wants it to feel aligned—this conversation will hit home.

Follow Pat: @patdivilly

IG: @dr_ryangleeson
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In this deep-dive conversation, George Lewer shares how he turned a $50K crypto trade into $1.3M overnight—while working a 9-to-5 job. But this isn’t a crypto flex. It’s a brutally honest look at success, sabotage, and the inner work high-performing men can’t avoid. 

We cover: 

• The seductive chaos of fast crypto money 
• What trading reveals about your nervous system, ego, and shadow 
• Biohacking for clarity, calm, and longevity 
• Fatherhood, identity shifts, and raising kids in a broken system 
• Why digging one deep well beats chasing 10 shiny objects 
• Quantum physics, holographic reality, and the mirror of your results 
• Trading dopamine for discipline—and wealth for fulfilment 

This is a conversation for men who’ve hit the external wins… and are still asking, “Now what?” 

Follow George: @georgemlewer

IG: @dr_ryangleeson
TikTok: @dr.ryangleeson

He built a platform that reached half a million people. The brand was growing. The audience was listening. But behind the scenes — something felt off. 

In this honest and raw conversation, Jordan Candlish opens up about the hidden toll of building a personal brand in the performance coaching space. 

We unpack: 

What success really looks like when no one’s watching 

The burnout, identity crisis, and emotional suppression behind the metrics 

How shame and father wounds sneak into business and content 

The fine line between authentic leadership and performance 

Why he’s stepping away from the algorithm—and what’s coming next 

This one isn’t just about social media. It’s about the men behind the brands. And what it takes to come back home to yourself. 

Follow Jordan: @jordancandlish01 

Timestamps: 

0:00 Intro 

0:50 Why successful men still feel empty 

3:42 Entrepreneurs struggling in relationships 

6:43 Raising a son 

10:22 Jiu Jitsu 

14:49 Operating from pain vs purpose 

17:34 Jordan’s biggest shift 

19:43 Personal branding 

25:33 The struggle of building a personal brand 

33:49 Tall poppy syndrome

IG: @dr_ryangleeson
TikTok: @dr.ryangleeson

8x world champion Daniel Dawson shares the story behind his incredible success in Muay Thai, Kickboxing, and Boxing. Daniel dives deep into his journey, revealing both the highs and lows along the way.

Daniel talks about:

• Growing up with physical and emotional abuse and how it shaped his drive to succeed

• Earning the nickname “The Rock” for his resilience in the ring and life

• The battle with self-sabotage and chasing external validation

• The role of martial arts in healing deep-rooted trauma and finding purpose

• The impact of fatherhood on his personal healing journey

• How relationships exposed his deepest insecurities and pushed him to confront his past

• Redefining success and learning that personal growth goes beyond winning championships

If you’re looking for an honest conversation about overcoming personal demons, this episode is a must-listen.

Timestamps:

0:00 Intro

1:17 Origins of “The Rock”

11:37 Not letting go of fighting

13:17 External validation

14:24 Retiring

16:36 Self-work

19:39 Healing Journey

23:29 How Daniel got into martial arts

27:55 Everyone has a story

32:16 Changes Daniel has made

35:26 Relaxation

38:48 Self-sabotage

1:01:23 If Daniel didn’t become a father

1:20:04 What’s important to Daniel

1:21:10 Picking 3 combat sports

1:22:58 Daniel’s international experience

1:29:18 Cultural differences between combat sports

1:38:02 Advice for young fighters

Follow Daniel: @danieltherockdawson

IG: @dr_ryangleeson
TikTok: @dr.ryangleeson

Ryan Wilson is a former SAS soldier, co-founder of Working Paws Australia and business consulting company, Exas Group, and general manager of Whipper Snapper Distilery. We discuss the mental and physical challenges veterans face and the incredible role therapy dogs play in supporting those with PTSD and other mental health issues. Ryan shares his journey from serving in the SAS to transitioning into civilian life.

We cover:

• How therapy dogs have become a lifeline for veterans struggling with mental health.

• The key lessons Ryan learned from the SAS, including mental toughness, resilience, and leadership.

• The difficulties of transitioning from military life to the civilian world and why finding a new purpose is critical.

• Ryan’s journey at Whippersnapper Distillery and how it helped him regain a sense of belonging.

• A deep dive into masculinity, emotional intelligence, and the struggles men face in building real connections today.

• The rise in veteran suicides and why it’s crucial to provide ongoing support to those leaving the military.

• Ryan’s story is a testament to resilience and finding meaning after military service, making this episode a must-listen for anyone interested in mental health, veteran support, or the incredible bond between humans and dogs.

Timestamps:

0:00 Intro

0:55 Why we love dogs

2:51 Dogs for therapy

3:44 SAS Dogs

8:17 Working Paws Australia

10:22 What the SAS taught Ryan

12:44 The best part about the SAS

14:33 Filling the void

18:37 Transitioning to business

21:30 The worst part about the SAS

24:01 What it takes to be in the SAS

28:23 Stimulation

29:05 Who struggles most leaving the SAS

32:36 Processing trauma

35:24 Veteran mental health

38:02 The state of men today

42:51 Are we going to war?

45:00 War in 2024

46:14 Mandatory military service

Follow Ryan: @ryanwilson_1984

IG: @dr_ryangleeson
TikTok: @dr.ryangleeson

We're exploring the complexities of relationships with Louanne Ward, one of Australia's leading dating experts and matchmakers. We explore the often unspoken ways men and women sabotage their relationships without even realising it. From communication breakdowns to subtle behaviours that break trust. Louanne sheds light on the critical issues that lead to relationship failure. We discuss:

• Why men sabotage relationships without knowing it.
• How women break up with men differently, and why it hurts more.
• The secrets both men and women keep that are destroying their relationships.
• The importance of better communication and how it can save a relationship.
• The truth about why most men don’t intend to hurt women, but often do.

This episode is packed with insights to help you understand the hidden dynamics in your relationships and how to navigate them more effectively. Whether you’re struggling in your relationship or want to deepen your understanding, this conversation with Louanne is a must-listen.

Timestamps:

0:00 Intro
1:23 How men sabotage relationships
6:33 Communication
9:59 How women sabotage relationships
13:38 Social media
20:29 When women first meet someone
23:43 Single women
26:54 “I’m not sure”
29:53 Ghosting
39:08 Sharing too much too soon
43:35 First dates
48:49 Moving in together
50:00 Marriage
54:45 What makes men attractive
1:01:23 Instagram
1:13:01 Family
1:16:42 Childhood trauma
1:20:27 Narcissism
1:25:09 Men lying
1:32:34 The state of young men

Follow Louanne: @louanneward

IG: @dr_ryangleeson
TikTok: @dr.ryangleeson

I sit down with Ben Broadbridge from Beyond All Bounds, to explore the challenges and triumphs of mental health. Growing up as an Army kid, Ben’s journey is marked by resilience. He shares his journey battling loneliness and depression. Through his work with Beyond All Bounds, Ben now dedicates his life to advocating for mental health awareness and helping others navigate their struggles.

We cover:

• Ben’s unique upbringing in a military family and its impact on his life.
• The physical and emotional challenges that shaped his journey.
• How losing his identity led him down a path of depression and how he transformed his life.
• The creation of Beyond All Bounds and its mission to support mental health through empathy, emotional intelligence, and storytelling.
• Practical advice on mental health first aid and the power of human connection in healing.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in mental health, personal growth, or the power of storytelling in overcoming adversity. Join us as we dive into Ben’s inspiring story and learn how we can all contribute to a more understanding and supportive world.

Timestamps:

0:00 Intro
0:52 Ben’s origin story
10:48 Ben’s mental health
14:04 How Ben found himself
17:13 How to develop authentic storytelling
21:20 Emotional intelligence
25:58 Empathy
33:42 Social media’s effect
37:48 Mental Health First Aid
41:10 Signs to look out for
42:54 How to ask someone if they’re struggling
46:17 People pleasers
51:47 How men can learn to be vulnerable
59:35 The state of men today
1:07:12 Can you live a full life as a man without a family?

Follow Ben: @beyondallbounds

IG: @dr_ryangleeson
TikTok: @dr.ryangleeson

Action Jackson England is not just a professional boxer; he’s a fighter in every sense of the word, representing Australia on the global stage with a story as powerful as his punches. In this episode, we go beyond the ring to explore Jackson’s journey, his challenges, and what it truly takes to rise in boxing. We cover:

• Can you be the best while living in Perth? Exploring the unique challenges and opportunities of training outside of major boxing hubs.
• Training with George Kambosos: Insights into what it takes to reach the top tier of the sport.
• Difference between top 10 and #1: How mindset and strategy set the best apart.
• Jackson’s stripping days: The shift from his past life to becoming a dedicated fighter and how those experiences shaped his career.
• Financial realities of pro boxing: Why many fighters undervalue themselves and how to navigate the financial challenges of the sport.
• Fatherhood and fighting: The impact of fatherhood, upbringing, and personal challenges on his journey inside and outside the ring.
• Street fight advice: What you need to know when it’s more than just sport—how to handle real-world confrontations.

This episode is an unfiltered look at the world of professional boxing and the personal journey of a man who’s fought to the top, both inside and outside the ring. Whether you’re a boxing enthusiast, an aspiring athlete, or curious about the personal stories behind the fighters, this conversation with Jackson offers valuable insights and inspiration.

Timestamps:

0:00 Intro
1:03 Can you be the best while living in Perth?
3:12 Training with George Kambosos
4:19 Difference between top 10 and #1
5:18 Jackson’s approach to boxing
8:03 Dog fight vs Tactical fight
10:49 Olympic vs Professional Boxing
14:19 Influencer Boxing
16:03 Jackson’s stripping days
20:55 MMA vs Boxing
23:43 Making money as a Pro Boxer
27:36 Fighters financially undervaluing themselves
32:16 Where would Jackson be without boxing
33:28 Fighters having kids young
34:56 Fatherhood
36:13 Jackson’s upbringing
41:06 Jackson’s shadow
48:08 Jackson’s biggest challenge
50:18 What’s next with Jackson
52:39 Jackson’s dream fight
55:55 Fake Alphas
56:39 Gym Bros vs Fighters
58:38 A time someone underestimated Jackson
1:03:02 Boxing vs BJJ in a Street Fight
1:04:51 Street Fight advice
1:07:16 Running
1:08:53 1 thing to get fit

Follow Jackson: @action_jackson_england 

IG: @dr_ryangleeson
TikTok: @dr.ryangleeson

Dr. Lurve is Australia's leading love and relationships coach. We dig deep into the complexities of modern love and what it truly means to connect on a meaningful level. We cover:

• What women really want: Unpacking the core desires and debunking myths.
• Where men go wrong in relationships: The common pitfalls and how to avoid them.
• The confusion men face: Understanding the complexities of modern masculinity.
• The viability of single-income households: Why this dynamic is becoming less common.
• Spotting hidden red flags and narcissists: How to identify potential issues early on.
• Debates with successful women: Navigating power dynamics in relationships.
• The impact of infidelity: Can a relationship recover after cheating?
• Childhood trauma and its influence: How early experiences shape adult relationships.
• Dating in the digital age: Do dating apps really work? Plus, insights on the “3 date rule” and whether it’s okay to date multiple people.

This episode is packed with actionable advice and insights that will help you navigate your relationships with more confidence and clarity. If you’re serious about understanding the dynamics of love and connection, this conversation is a must-listen.

Timestamps:

0:00 Intro
0:05 What women really want
4:47 Where men go wrong in relationships
7:09 Why successful women can't find the right man
10:19 Emotionally unavailable men
14:25 Gold diggers
16:06 Hidden red flags 
18:12 How to spot a narcissist
21:45 Why men don't commit
23:20 What men complain about 
24:28 Dating apps
26:32 Phubbing
29:56 People pleasers
33:41 Cheating
35:37 Do rich men get cheated on more?
38:52 Who cheats more
40:03 Recovering after infidelity
42:22 Childhood trauma
46:02 Dating questions to ask
54:05 When to have sex?
57:13 Dating multiple people

Follow Dr. Lurve: @dr.lurve

IG: @dr_ryangleeson
TikTok: @dr.ryangleeson

Charles Myssy is a leader in personal development and holistic wellness. Charles shares his personal journey, exploring the concepts of spiritual bypass and the balance between being driven by purpose or pain. We discuss the nuances of healthy masculinity, the differences in escapism between men and women, and the contentious topic of pornography. The conversation also touches on shadow work, social media criticism, and the transformative potential of healing retreats.

Timestamps: 

0:00 Intro 
0:16 Charles's Story 
11:19 Spiritual bypass 
17:33 Driven by purpose or pain? 
24:25 Healthy masculinity 
27:55 Escapism: men vs women 
29:44 Is porn bad? 
40:02 Shadow work 
48:50 Shadow group exercise 
51:08 Social media criticism 
56:50 Healing retreats

Follow Charles: @charlesmyssy

IG: @dr_ryangleeson
TikTok: @dr.ryangleeson