In "Places We Didn't Go", Kayla & I go over various posts on the Craigslist Missed Connections board, trying to gleam enough information from them to determine if we think the poster and the subject of the post really ever had a chance.
This episode really came together in a weird way. Originally, we were going to do a show with the same title just sorta....idly talking about various places we hadn't gone to together. After sitting on the title for a bit, it struck me as sort of poetic. The idea of two people having met at some point in their lives imagining all the different places that their lives hadn't taken them. I'd had a thought in a similar vein during one of my other creative pursuits.
Separate from my time podcasting, I'm also an improv performer & director. In an effort to create a new game for my troupe to play (and also help transition the new players into more long-form performing), I had come up with a game I called 'Missed Connections'; based on the well-known Craigslist message board. The improv game would consist of us reading a post made on the Missed Connections board (generally found from either 'best-of' listicles online or by an audience suggestion of a US city and then the host having to scrub through the various horny posts to find something more conducive to scene work) which the actors would then recreate with as many details as possible, finishing with an invented reasoning for why the two didn't simply exchange phone numbers/contact information. I mean, the internet and phones exist, people.
At this point I want to admit to feeling a bit conflicted about the source material here. Behind each of the posts that inspire the scenes I've done on stage or what we created in this podcast is, at least I assume, a real person. Not counting the purposefully...let's say particularly odd posts that seem written for the sole purpose of landing on a BuzzFeed page. It's not my goal here to make light of that, or more specifically those real people genuinely trying to find someone, but in fact use that as a jumping-off point to self-reflect on my audience's and my own interactions with strangers in a space where we can say the wrong thing and not beat ourselves up over it. At the end of the day the main difference between the people posting here and anyone else is just whether or not you post on the Craigslist Missed Connections board.
With Places We Didn't Go my hope is that Kayla and I were able to present you with a light hearted take on these posts, and maybe help you in your own missed connections moments realize that not all things were meant to be, being physically attracted to someone doesn't mean they're your sole mate, and that if you bought a 34-pack of value condoms and a loaf of whole grain bread, you should DM me.