Duality of Life

Emotional spirals are not easy to handle and I know for myself, sometimes I just need some accepting and loving energy to remind me of the good in life. I hope this episode can give that to you x

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We all have an inner voice. In this episode I'm sharing how certain dialog and be seen as motivational, helpful, useful or growth oriented. But it's actually rooted in shame. I'm providing examples, explanations and practical solutions.

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Feelings wheel:
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This Episode is all about how your attachment style is connected to toxic shame. 
I explore each attachment style in detail—what it looks like in everyday life, how it likely developed within you, and what you may need on your healing journey. I also invite you to get curious about your intimacy desires and share practical insights on setting boundaries that support intentional, mindful dating.

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Welcome to the duality of life podcast, my name is Julia!

Sending you love xx

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Resources:

https://chrisgermer.com/

- Healing the shame that binds you:

https://amzn.to/4o4sM0K

- Shame and Guilt in Social Anxiety Disorder: Effects of
Cognitive Behavior Therapy and Association with Social
Anxiety and Depressive Symptoms

https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article/file?id=10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0061713&type=printable&utm_source=consensus

The Global Burden of Mental, Neurological
and Substance Use Disorders: An Analysis
from the Global Burden of Disease
Study 2010:

https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article/file?id=10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0116820&type=printable&utm_source=consensus

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Welcome to the duality of life podcast, my name is Julia. You are a unique, one of a kind being and your authentic self may be hiding behind some yucky stuff. But slowly, with exploration, curiosity, self compassion and the audacity to let go of expectations. Is some peace in knowing you were unique and born to be authentic the whole time.
Sending you love xx

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Trigger Warning - This episode contains the topic of Childhood Abuse...

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Life is a lot sometimes. Healing from trauma is a lot. Anger is an important step to move through, but getting stuck in it was not helping me learn to be more kind to myself.
Learning to be there for my inner child by growing self compassion has been a difficult yet rewarding endeavour. It has helped me build trust, reassurance, acceptance and worth. 

I hope this episode, inspires you to lean into growing your self compassion

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Making authentic decisions is a process of learning how to trust yourself... This is a process but is so beautiful to unravel.

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Carl Jung Books:

Psychology of the Unconscious
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The Red Book
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The Archetypes and The Collective Unconscious
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Answer To Job
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Downloadable + Printable Page - https://bit.ly/4e0ES7s

Step 1.
Take 5-10 minutes, go through the list and circle everything that matters to you, as many as you want

Step 2.
- Put the words you've circled into chatGPT and ask it "out of these words can you group them based on their similarity?"
- Put the groups on a new page
- Spend a few minutes thinking about your life and the situations that shaped you most
- Rank from most to least important in each similar word group ( spend about 10 min doing so )


Step 3.
- Put all of the #1's from each similar word group into a new group, same for all the #2's and so on...
- Now put on a 3-5 min timer and cross as many words out as possible ( aim for 10-15 left )

Step 4.
- Put all the words you have left on a new page in 2 boxes, 1 being the most important to you and 2 being secondary 
- You may have 5 in box 1 or slightly more. If you have slightly more rank them from most to least important and there you go, you'll have your top 5 values
- Ask chatGPT "based on these words being my top 5 values in friendship, what can you tell about me?" 

Meditation music:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Affh1xGriY8 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wbcikb_Yp7I
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C9hMaqQFKXk&t=5860s